I have always been a news junkie, you really don't want to be with Mick and I when we discuss issues of news etc, we argue - a lot.
Recently I have been able to watch continuous news, and I have things to say on most things.
The ah factor, did you see those lovely baby (real) Panda's on Sunday and today in the Mail, I just love them. What a pity the chinese do not take such good care of human children, especially girls babies.
I again state there really has to balance in childrens lives - when it comes to food. No to '00' models who are quite ridiculous and encourage children to be far too thin IT IS NOT HEALTHY.
Just what are celebrity parents thinking of dressing their children up as mini mee's? I dread to think how many paedohiles will use the kind of photos recently seen to justify their often used excuse that 'children are sexual beings'. It will open the door to abuse. Actually many of these children are already lost because their parents are lost in the land of celebrity which is 'make believe'. These kids are just playing dressing up games (notice it's nearly always just the girls) Many of their parents are not rounded people many are still playing dressing up themselves. Many of the kids will end up like their parents either burnt out at an early age or still going into their pension years ever addicted to celebrity. Many will end up being extensions of their parents lives, who are not considered celebrity any more, as beens. For many it is the only way they can hold their parents attention. We are even now into third generation 'celebrity offspring' with kids trying to ape, grandparent and parent celebrities.
Equally some parents seem to think that excess junk food is Fine. It is fine as a treat, not every day. Obesity kills and the worse is yet to come, we don not yet know the full effects of childhood obesity in this generation of kids. Excercise and good food make for an active mind. Develops discipline and good foundations for adult hood. We don't know the effect because the children of previous generations did not have access to computer games and fast food. Those children had different issues. I like the Italian idea of SLOW FOOD as an antidote to the FAST FOOD CULTURE. the other thing I know about continental meals is that they are family meals, eaten over longer period. Not gulped down - nor washed down with sodas. I am with Jamie Oliver in this. He did a great programme about Italian food recently and eye opener. I grew up eating lots of Italian food because my Pa worked for an Italian company, there was always fruit. I was always welcomed to eat with the adults and enjoyed long meals with such people from whom I learnt such a lot. It is not only schools who teach - I learnt language, manners, history, geography, science (I spent a lot of time in ships enginerooms) I learnt how to mix with a wide variety of people, I learnt to hold my own. Perhaps that is why I have never been out of work.
I am definately against the silly mothers who are undermining the school head/policy on school meals by selling precooked, preordered food through the fence. Just who are the other parents going to sue when the kids go down with ecoli, salmonella or other food based infection. If these mothers are in a position to do this, they are in a position to take their children home for meals, or could it be that the walk might hurt the kids, or are the mums to lazy to actually cook themselves. I feel the same about these mothers as I do those who insist on driving their kids to school (often just round the corner) they are incompetent parents. We are in danger of breeding children with no legs. Yes I drive, but I learnt to walk developing leg muscle and did walk to school, I learnt road sense and I learnt about dangers at an early age. If Mum can't do it them Dad can - if not then stay at school, have a proper dinner, do some study.
As an Historian I am aware that this situation is not new, there have always been issues like this about children and parenting since the Victorians developed the concept of childhood. I don't go down the route, of all mothers should be at home blah blah. Again it is balance and common sense that need to be applied.
The grumpy granny.
Wednesday, September 20, 2006
OH BOTHER!!!!!!
It was once said by a colleague that hearing me swear was like hearing your grandmother swear!!! I have to say I was rather colourful in my language yesterday. It was a bad day, I have had such a bad cold that the antibiotics I have been taking have not worked. Yesterday I nearly ended up being kept in hospital after xrays and blood tests (I am running out of veins). However worse news was that because I was so ill they could not do Chemo today, it has been postponed a week. I was given stronger antibiotics which seem to be working (they are seriously heavy duty). I am to see the oncologist tomorrow to look at the issue. I hope that this will be ok, I cannot afford to have a big gap in chemo and they may have to take me in to build me up.....I am hoping not.
On the bright side, and there is always a bright side I took delivery of my new car, a lovely Red Fiat Panda. This has five doors, it makes life easier for the grand kids and elderly rickety parents!
I know you are saying what does she need a car for now, well I do this every three year thing so I have three years of worry free motoring in terms of service, mot, tax etc etc. Also it is about my freedom. I have to have a car, to move about especially in terms of keeping my self infection free. It means I can get out quickly and back if Mick is not here and I am not as tired as if I were walking and carrying heavy shopping. I can also get myself to the hospital for checkups etc. Buses and trains are not good places for me at the moment, with people sniffing and coughing. Actually it may be how I got my cold when I had to go to Limehouse (work) and deliver some urgent forms - I went on the train.
There expense justified. Now for the environmental, better petrol consumption, lower tax and Lower emissions. New cars are much better than old in this respect.
On the bright side, and there is always a bright side I took delivery of my new car, a lovely Red Fiat Panda. This has five doors, it makes life easier for the grand kids and elderly rickety parents!
I know you are saying what does she need a car for now, well I do this every three year thing so I have three years of worry free motoring in terms of service, mot, tax etc etc. Also it is about my freedom. I have to have a car, to move about especially in terms of keeping my self infection free. It means I can get out quickly and back if Mick is not here and I am not as tired as if I were walking and carrying heavy shopping. I can also get myself to the hospital for checkups etc. Buses and trains are not good places for me at the moment, with people sniffing and coughing. Actually it may be how I got my cold when I had to go to Limehouse (work) and deliver some urgent forms - I went on the train.
There expense justified. Now for the environmental, better petrol consumption, lower tax and Lower emissions. New cars are much better than old in this respect.
Monday, September 18, 2006
BY WAY OF EXPLANATION
You will note the recent 'Ma' picks. The pose is similar to the one in the older picture with my Pa. Ma loves to bling it up as you can see, but I brought her the jacket! She is singing the old Music Hall Songs for a East End Sing a long at the old folks Christmas Party. Roll out that barrel, down Lambeth way, any evening anyday when my old man said follow that van!!!
Love Granny.
Love Granny.
A LONG OVEDUE TRIBUTE
It is long over due, because everything I am is down to these guy's - my Ma and Pa. As you can see I have posted three pictures that sum them up to perfection. Dad 'Fingers' was the man with the music and Ma 'The Voice' was exactly that and you cannot keep a good performer down. She still sings and has a fan base at my local pub. if you want to know the words to a song then Ma's your girl. Sadly Andrew Lloyd Webber didn't ask her to be Maria, but she would make a great mother superior, oh matron (she is also known as Matron). Since I left home at 19 I have rarely missed a day when I have not phoned her. She gives her diagnosis on my current condition, but really she is itching to get up here and nurse me. She is also her local area's very own Pauline Fowler, the Laundrette Lady.
Anyway I loved them both.
Granny xx
Anyway I loved them both.
Granny xx
MY LONDON TRIBE.
Following on from the Kylie thing the 'Style' mag took up the ideas of the 'London Tribes, Leading the Pack' How did I fit in? Being born to an East End Lass, in Essex and working on the Isle of Dogs do I fit the 'The Intellectuals' - I'd like to think so, but not totally. Am I 'Indie' - only the jeans bit, am I 'Hedonist', well only the 'Champagne' bit. I am definately not an 'Exhibitionist' contrary to popular belief! Nor am I 'New Wave' or a 'Dubsteppers' so it looks like I am in a tribe of my own the 'Independant Intellectual wanna be tribe' I have always been outside the tribe.
As Mick so rightly points out, all the problems in the world are down to 'tribalism' such as my gangs bigger than your gang, the silly play ground na na na na taunts to a fight over this very issue. Or my religion is better than yours etc etc. Out of which grow the bullies of this world.
Love Granny
As Mick so rightly points out, all the problems in the world are down to 'tribalism' such as my gangs bigger than your gang, the silly play ground na na na na taunts to a fight over this very issue. Or my religion is better than yours etc etc. Out of which grow the bullies of this world.
Love Granny
KYLIE AND BREAST CANCER
Not quite my last word on Sunday as you can see. How does the girl do it? She made the cover of the The Sunday Times 'style' magazine and the Mail on Sunday 'You' magazine and she is completely different in both. More importantly she is showing off her upper body in revealing under wear, arms up and no scars. She must have had a terrific physio since she has both her arms up in most pictures. I speak from experience about this, since getting your arm on the side operated on up and running at full stretch is very important. I have to stretch and exercise every day to keep my mobility. Also the scar takes ages to soften over the damaged soft tissue.
She looks a little thin, but hey she's not that big anyway. I was not wild about the gold and black diamond out fit but the other stuff in the 'Style' mag was interesting and diverse.
However I was overjoyed abouth the 'You' set with the Showgirl look. Hey no scars here either. But best of all she has Shebba, her 'fella' Olivier's Rhodesian Ridgeback. Of whom she says " Sheeba and I are devoted to each other. She was very important during my treatment - there were many long hugs on the sofa during that time". This I understand one it reminds me of Bacchus my Rhodesian Ridgeback who died in 2000 to whom I was devoted. I also understand because Merlot and I do the sofa thing all the time she and I are joined at the hip. Now this is the point, the love of family and friends is vital, but the love of a dog, which is unconditional and unquestionning does not demand an answer when you have non to give and you are tired. Merlot just lies with me as close as she can, lets me stroke her and in the quiet answers all my needs. Merlot is also a small version of Bacchus which is why I loved her instantly the moment I saw her. She combines both his personality and that of my sweet Cindy the Westie, who died two years ago. Not only does Merlot offer comfort, she provides excercise because walking is important even if you feel tired when you have Breast Cancer, she provides the motivation. Ridgebacks it must be said are 'One family dogs' historically they will fight to the death to protect their owners. One Woof from Bacchus was enough to send any would be burglar running when he meant it he really meant it. Merlot has a language all her own!
HAIR
On another note I love Kylies hair, very chic. Mine to my surprise has not yet started to fall out this cycle. I was sure it would all be gone by now but No, it is hanging on in there and even I do believe staging a fight back. I must admit poor Phil got a shock when he saw me yesterday, it was in his face, bless him. I really wish tha my hair would grow back curly and blond like Kylie's.
Kylie, please throw a few designer clothes my way!!!!!!!!!!!
She is very lucky to have such a devoted boyfriend, and I am lucky to have Mick.
Love Granny.
She looks a little thin, but hey she's not that big anyway. I was not wild about the gold and black diamond out fit but the other stuff in the 'Style' mag was interesting and diverse.
However I was overjoyed abouth the 'You' set with the Showgirl look. Hey no scars here either. But best of all she has Shebba, her 'fella' Olivier's Rhodesian Ridgeback. Of whom she says " Sheeba and I are devoted to each other. She was very important during my treatment - there were many long hugs on the sofa during that time". This I understand one it reminds me of Bacchus my Rhodesian Ridgeback who died in 2000 to whom I was devoted. I also understand because Merlot and I do the sofa thing all the time she and I are joined at the hip. Now this is the point, the love of family and friends is vital, but the love of a dog, which is unconditional and unquestionning does not demand an answer when you have non to give and you are tired. Merlot just lies with me as close as she can, lets me stroke her and in the quiet answers all my needs. Merlot is also a small version of Bacchus which is why I loved her instantly the moment I saw her. She combines both his personality and that of my sweet Cindy the Westie, who died two years ago. Not only does Merlot offer comfort, she provides excercise because walking is important even if you feel tired when you have Breast Cancer, she provides the motivation. Ridgebacks it must be said are 'One family dogs' historically they will fight to the death to protect their owners. One Woof from Bacchus was enough to send any would be burglar running when he meant it he really meant it. Merlot has a language all her own!
HAIR
On another note I love Kylies hair, very chic. Mine to my surprise has not yet started to fall out this cycle. I was sure it would all be gone by now but No, it is hanging on in there and even I do believe staging a fight back. I must admit poor Phil got a shock when he saw me yesterday, it was in his face, bless him. I really wish tha my hair would grow back curly and blond like Kylie's.
Kylie, please throw a few designer clothes my way!!!!!!!!!!!
She is very lucky to have such a devoted boyfriend, and I am lucky to have Mick.
Love Granny.
WHY I LOVE SUNDAYS
Sunday has always been my favourite day of the week. I do me stuff, but this Sunday ws even better - My cuddly teddy bear (youngest stepson) Phil and his girlfriend Vicki came to see me. Vicki had made really super Strawberry sponge cake (with real strasberries) which so delicious. What a nice thing to do! Phil was his smiley self and their company was as always a joy. They really are the perfect couple, so in tune and obviously in love. Jon was there to (he is middle stepson) and later Laura his girlfriend came too.
Poor Laura is getting over the tragic death of her mother last week, following an short intense battle with non hodgkinson lymphoma. She is coping and all of us hope she doesn't try to hard to be strong at the funeral this week. It is ok to cry she will really need that release. Both she and her father were with mum at the end which was important. I never had the chance to meet Laura's mum because either she or I was in hospital. I told Laura that I believe strongly that her mum was now at peace and not in any more pain and that she should take some comfort from that.
Because we were altogether in the garden on a sunny Sunday I hope that Laura took some comfort from that. Laura had also been very kind to me early on in my chemo when she made a really lovely cheese cake, she also cooked a lasagne when she thought I might not feel like cooking. These gestures by both girls means more to me than anything, they both have kind and generous hearts, and put something of themselves into each dish.
What better finish to a perfect day could I have had - As Time Goes By, Last of the Summer Wine, Songs of Praise and Antiques Road Show on the Telly. The last three porgammes of the Road Show have looked back at past progs and the discoveries but this time with a look at what happened after. this week was stunning with a wonderful cigarette case by Bucheron of Paris and a stunning portrait from the 1920's of Jessie Clover and the story of her life after the painting when she was 14. That is the beauty of history, each artifact has a story to tell, which for me is beyond price.
My last word on the story of Sunday, TO THINE BE THE GLORY, risen, conquering son, endless is the victory thou o'er death hast won.
Love Granny
Poor Laura is getting over the tragic death of her mother last week, following an short intense battle with non hodgkinson lymphoma. She is coping and all of us hope she doesn't try to hard to be strong at the funeral this week. It is ok to cry she will really need that release. Both she and her father were with mum at the end which was important. I never had the chance to meet Laura's mum because either she or I was in hospital. I told Laura that I believe strongly that her mum was now at peace and not in any more pain and that she should take some comfort from that.
Because we were altogether in the garden on a sunny Sunday I hope that Laura took some comfort from that. Laura had also been very kind to me early on in my chemo when she made a really lovely cheese cake, she also cooked a lasagne when she thought I might not feel like cooking. These gestures by both girls means more to me than anything, they both have kind and generous hearts, and put something of themselves into each dish.
What better finish to a perfect day could I have had - As Time Goes By, Last of the Summer Wine, Songs of Praise and Antiques Road Show on the Telly. The last three porgammes of the Road Show have looked back at past progs and the discoveries but this time with a look at what happened after. this week was stunning with a wonderful cigarette case by Bucheron of Paris and a stunning portrait from the 1920's of Jessie Clover and the story of her life after the painting when she was 14. That is the beauty of history, each artifact has a story to tell, which for me is beyond price.
My last word on the story of Sunday, TO THINE BE THE GLORY, risen, conquering son, endless is the victory thou o'er death hast won.
Love Granny
Sunday, September 17, 2006
INFECTION WATCH!
My cold has remined my priority this weekend. Feeling pretty Naff. Still the precautionary antibiotics are holding chest infection at bay. Very important for newly diagnosed women, remember you immunity goes way down. Keep yourself infection free.
Saw Kylie strutting her stuff in London last night, bravo girl.
Love to all Granny. xx
Saw Kylie strutting her stuff in London last night, bravo girl.
Love to all Granny. xx
Saturday, September 16, 2006
THE BABY HOUSE
In 2000 I read an article in The Sunday Times (23/04/2000), it was about abandoned babies in Russia and one in particular called Kolya, who I fell in love with. He was 9 months old and having been born two and half months premature he was considered unadoptable because of his lack of development. He lived in Cot number 9. His picture broke my heart, he was lying on his front with his head up and looking directly at the camera, and directly into my heart.
Foreigners were not being allowed to adopt him, as a matter of government policy. I have kept that picture to remind myself that every child is worth something. Today I looked up the name of the home on the internet, people are now working there - look it up on 'Maria's Babies Our Baby House Project' and read for yourself about the life these babies lead! Life? now that is a contradiction in terms when it comes to these children. They live a regimented and loveless existence. The staff don't like the children crying following the visits by this group. Kolya cost 50p a day to keep????
I am torn, between understanding that each country in the world has this problem, children in the UK languish in orphanages without individual care and love - torn because I would love to help, I would love a child and that is unrealistic. I was, I believe, never meant to have a child of my own and it would be too idealistic to imagine that I could sweep in and save 1 child. Playing lady bountiful would be a huge ego trip. Still I just cannot help wondering if Kolya would have responded to me.
I am never quite sure if the items donated like clothes and nappies or money actually are received by these children.
Take a look at the list of children's homes in Russia, the sheer scale is beyond belief, of course a lot is to do with illigitimacey, illness such as HIV and or as Yulia had syphilis caught from her mother. There is also the poverty, drugs and alcohol abuse. It is easier to dump a child than to try. It all comes down to economics, yet without help these children will become a problem since they are not socialised, not educated and do not understand love.
When I think about this world wide problem, I get angry that some people want to design their own babies or fight tooth and nail to have a baby of their own just because they think it is their right when there are children out there desperate for parental love, who lie in numbered cots, for hour upon hour who are never picked up or cuddled.
At the end of the day like others I did nothing, and I should have done something.
With love to the worlds unwanted children. Granny
Foreigners were not being allowed to adopt him, as a matter of government policy. I have kept that picture to remind myself that every child is worth something. Today I looked up the name of the home on the internet, people are now working there - look it up on 'Maria's Babies Our Baby House Project' and read for yourself about the life these babies lead! Life? now that is a contradiction in terms when it comes to these children. They live a regimented and loveless existence. The staff don't like the children crying following the visits by this group. Kolya cost 50p a day to keep????
I am torn, between understanding that each country in the world has this problem, children in the UK languish in orphanages without individual care and love - torn because I would love to help, I would love a child and that is unrealistic. I was, I believe, never meant to have a child of my own and it would be too idealistic to imagine that I could sweep in and save 1 child. Playing lady bountiful would be a huge ego trip. Still I just cannot help wondering if Kolya would have responded to me.
I am never quite sure if the items donated like clothes and nappies or money actually are received by these children.
Take a look at the list of children's homes in Russia, the sheer scale is beyond belief, of course a lot is to do with illigitimacey, illness such as HIV and or as Yulia had syphilis caught from her mother. There is also the poverty, drugs and alcohol abuse. It is easier to dump a child than to try. It all comes down to economics, yet without help these children will become a problem since they are not socialised, not educated and do not understand love.
When I think about this world wide problem, I get angry that some people want to design their own babies or fight tooth and nail to have a baby of their own just because they think it is their right when there are children out there desperate for parental love, who lie in numbered cots, for hour upon hour who are never picked up or cuddled.
At the end of the day like others I did nothing, and I should have done something.
With love to the worlds unwanted children. Granny
Friday, September 15, 2006
THE BIG DEAL HUNTER
I have been reviewing the situation (a cue for a song!!!) in fashion terms that is.
Delighted that super wiafs are not treading the cat walk in Madrid. Not a good image for young girls to adopt. It is a question of balance, to be too big can put pressure on the heart and joints. Too slim and your body forgets who it is, lose periods and other body functions. I am not a Kate Moss fan, she is so stupid, money and success does not happiness make even if it can appear to buy justice. Drugs are a no no and such a bad role model for the young who think it's cool.
I love the black pencil skirt from H and M at £14.99 not a bad deal.
In Happy this month was a two page feature on the Buys for Breast Cancer Awareness Month I myself have the new ribbon brooche and a key ring. What I love best in the feature is the Wellies from ASDA £12 with 15% to BC pink with ribblons - brill.
I also like the bath ducks in pink at £4.99
Who's Look? well I am a Sophie Ellis-Bexter fan ( the face of Monsoon)but I also like Dita Von Teese. She is a Burlesque artist and looks just fab in her 1940's make up - just wish I could do the eyeliner. I like refined elegance with minimal chic and monochrome look. The shirt dress is cool however you are wearing it.
I still have my black shirt dress, which this year I will wear with leggings and flat shoes/pumps
Watch out for peep toe shoes - I love them but can, if not fitted properly, hurt the big toe - big time.
A recent visit to Next ( I rarely go there - too expensive) pleasantly surprised, some really good skirt and jacket combo's (could be suits) not to expensive. Accessorised correctly will make the perfect business impression. Good first impressions seal the deal.
The skirt for me was a brown tone tarten, long length (ankle) pencilish, with a tuck up at the top a la Vivienne Westwood or Marc Jacobs. This was stunning, and very fine fabric, so not bulky. Also has a belt. Mix with great blouses and a brown jacket - varied for different occasions.
Noticed in Peacocks today that shirt I have mentioned before with the wrap/tie front mid sleeve with cuff and in black and red - now in a soft brown, a great green with self green stripe and a purple version as well. All four with a matching/toning thin sleeveless t shirt would be my staple for work. The store has some really great shirts. I also like the v neck shirt that has a kind of empire line and no buttons (a pull on) in white, oat, black, red equally useful for work, no need to worry about buttons popping open. Boobs on display is not a good business look and leads to stereotyping, sexy yes it's ok but not tarty. A good fitting pretty bra makes all the difference, even for me who hates bras. When I am putting on a presentation or teaching I am careful about my look with special consideration to my audience and the impression I want to make. I am most definately not one of the boys. I always want to make sure that every one knows I am a woman, but I am professional.
One of my key tips is that beach wear does not fit the urban scene - dead Naff with capital N.
AUTUMN 2006
Been here before! I keep a style book of my own where I keep ideas and clippings that I like, have done this for years. Included with my collection was the Daily Mail Lifestyle Magazine for Autumn 2005 and nothing seems really to have changed. The shoes are wedges and platforms, the Military coat, the denim, the heavy knits, ankle boots and big bags and clutches etc etc. Fashion editors should remeber people like me keep records.
My big find was on one of my trips to the charity shop. Found a hand knitted long line navy jacket (very heavy cable) with the new cross over and shoulder button design that is in many of the style books. the price £3.95 brand new. Perfect for over jeans with that layered look that is so big this year (always A FAV of mine - layers are fab) will look fab with white shirt and blue platforms. I am a fan of wraps to change the emphasis of an outfit.
Don't over look Bon Marche (not trendy I know) - the one in Dartford has had a face lift and a change of stock. Still aimed at the over 50 market and with the staples. However they have up graded and was pleased to see some really trend led designs. Nice for the older woman who need that special cut and fitting but likes style as well. Shops really need to understand the changing older market, people like me who love fashion but who are over 50. Designers need to remember size and cut for the older figure.
Check out Matalan for home furnishings at affordable prices, love their bucket chairs. They are bringing out a tarten dress which I will look at.
My leopard print shoes are coming back out of the closet, so nice I am still in fashion!
I have created a great party look in blue, but will keep it under wraps for now, I want to make an entrance at Christmas!!!!!! to go with my bald look.
love Granny. XX
Delighted that super wiafs are not treading the cat walk in Madrid. Not a good image for young girls to adopt. It is a question of balance, to be too big can put pressure on the heart and joints. Too slim and your body forgets who it is, lose periods and other body functions. I am not a Kate Moss fan, she is so stupid, money and success does not happiness make even if it can appear to buy justice. Drugs are a no no and such a bad role model for the young who think it's cool.
I love the black pencil skirt from H and M at £14.99 not a bad deal.
In Happy this month was a two page feature on the Buys for Breast Cancer Awareness Month I myself have the new ribbon brooche and a key ring. What I love best in the feature is the Wellies from ASDA £12 with 15% to BC pink with ribblons - brill.
I also like the bath ducks in pink at £4.99
Who's Look? well I am a Sophie Ellis-Bexter fan ( the face of Monsoon)but I also like Dita Von Teese. She is a Burlesque artist and looks just fab in her 1940's make up - just wish I could do the eyeliner. I like refined elegance with minimal chic and monochrome look. The shirt dress is cool however you are wearing it.
I still have my black shirt dress, which this year I will wear with leggings and flat shoes/pumps
Watch out for peep toe shoes - I love them but can, if not fitted properly, hurt the big toe - big time.
A recent visit to Next ( I rarely go there - too expensive) pleasantly surprised, some really good skirt and jacket combo's (could be suits) not to expensive. Accessorised correctly will make the perfect business impression. Good first impressions seal the deal.
The skirt for me was a brown tone tarten, long length (ankle) pencilish, with a tuck up at the top a la Vivienne Westwood or Marc Jacobs. This was stunning, and very fine fabric, so not bulky. Also has a belt. Mix with great blouses and a brown jacket - varied for different occasions.
Noticed in Peacocks today that shirt I have mentioned before with the wrap/tie front mid sleeve with cuff and in black and red - now in a soft brown, a great green with self green stripe and a purple version as well. All four with a matching/toning thin sleeveless t shirt would be my staple for work. The store has some really great shirts. I also like the v neck shirt that has a kind of empire line and no buttons (a pull on) in white, oat, black, red equally useful for work, no need to worry about buttons popping open. Boobs on display is not a good business look and leads to stereotyping, sexy yes it's ok but not tarty. A good fitting pretty bra makes all the difference, even for me who hates bras. When I am putting on a presentation or teaching I am careful about my look with special consideration to my audience and the impression I want to make. I am most definately not one of the boys. I always want to make sure that every one knows I am a woman, but I am professional.
One of my key tips is that beach wear does not fit the urban scene - dead Naff with capital N.
AUTUMN 2006
Been here before! I keep a style book of my own where I keep ideas and clippings that I like, have done this for years. Included with my collection was the Daily Mail Lifestyle Magazine for Autumn 2005 and nothing seems really to have changed. The shoes are wedges and platforms, the Military coat, the denim, the heavy knits, ankle boots and big bags and clutches etc etc. Fashion editors should remeber people like me keep records.
My big find was on one of my trips to the charity shop. Found a hand knitted long line navy jacket (very heavy cable) with the new cross over and shoulder button design that is in many of the style books. the price £3.95 brand new. Perfect for over jeans with that layered look that is so big this year (always A FAV of mine - layers are fab) will look fab with white shirt and blue platforms. I am a fan of wraps to change the emphasis of an outfit.
Don't over look Bon Marche (not trendy I know) - the one in Dartford has had a face lift and a change of stock. Still aimed at the over 50 market and with the staples. However they have up graded and was pleased to see some really trend led designs. Nice for the older woman who need that special cut and fitting but likes style as well. Shops really need to understand the changing older market, people like me who love fashion but who are over 50. Designers need to remember size and cut for the older figure.
Check out Matalan for home furnishings at affordable prices, love their bucket chairs. They are bringing out a tarten dress which I will look at.
My leopard print shoes are coming back out of the closet, so nice I am still in fashion!
I have created a great party look in blue, but will keep it under wraps for now, I want to make an entrance at Christmas!!!!!! to go with my bald look.
love Granny. XX
Thursday, September 14, 2006
MARIANNE FAITHFULL
I am so sorry to hear Marianne has been diagnosed with early stage Breast Cancer. I love her music and she is one of my style icons. I wish her lots of love. Granny
IT'S A LONG JOURNEY
Went to the hospital today to see my oncologist. I was told my Radio Therapy will be monday to friday for 5 weeks, followed by one week of a super dose. By which time I will be glowing in the dark (joke). All targetting my scar and my upper shoulder.
This will take place 3 weeks after my last chemo on 1st November 2006. I hope to be back at work part time at that stage.
I will have three little permanant tatoos to mark the location of the treatment. I shall have a super duper scan that will look at every detail of that part of my body.
My bloods were OK, but I do have a bit of a cold so it's back on the antibiotics. Any chest infection (which I am prone to) could see me in hospital and I don't want that. The staff at Queen Marys Sidcup are really very nice. I really can not speak more highly of the NHS.
Love Granny.
This will take place 3 weeks after my last chemo on 1st November 2006. I hope to be back at work part time at that stage.
I will have three little permanant tatoos to mark the location of the treatment. I shall have a super duper scan that will look at every detail of that part of my body.
My bloods were OK, but I do have a bit of a cold so it's back on the antibiotics. Any chest infection (which I am prone to) could see me in hospital and I don't want that. The staff at Queen Marys Sidcup are really very nice. I really can not speak more highly of the NHS.
Love Granny.
Wednesday, September 13, 2006
DMITRI HVOROSTOVSKY
Saturday was the last night of the proms, and I loved it, especially as Maureen Lipman put it so succinctly. Dmitri Hvorostovsky was 'Drop Dead Gorgeous'. Who the hell needs Brad Bitt et al when this guy looks the part and can sing. He would make a believable hero or villan, he has a wicked twinkle. I was not so ill that he did not rock my socks.
Another opera singer who I rate is Jose Cura, another gezzer with looks to boot. Love Granny.
PS I am an Alan Rickman fan as well.
Another opera singer who I rate is Jose Cura, another gezzer with looks to boot. Love Granny.
PS I am an Alan Rickman fan as well.
A DAY IN THE LIFE OF A TREE
Last night we had a very heavy storm, thunder - the whole 5 yards- the rain was particularly heavy. This morning when I looked at my pine/fir tree the cones that had been there had all gone. There was a spectacular amount of 'fluttering' of tiny wings in the branches, closer examination revealed dozens of blue tits, I can only assume that a lot of insects had come to the surface of branches. In addition my neighbour had put out a fresh peanut holder full on his tree and sure enough there were these charming little birds rushing between feeder and branch. Quite lovely. Granny
Friday, September 08, 2006
MOONLIGHT SERANADE
Hit that Glen Miller track (well I told you I was old, and I love his music)
Just a quicky.
For the last two nights I have fallen asleep in the light from a full moon shining into my bedroom window. And what a light, so clear to clean so sharp so soft. The perfect shape of a moon is forever changing, I have seen huge moons in bright orange, I have laid on beaches in Greece and watched the moon and stars I am never failed to be inspired by 'Her' glory.
I hope that the families of the victims of 9/11 Twin Towers are able to rest on this 5th anniversary in the light of a moon where ever they may be. My hero is Jay Janus captain of Rig 6 who was trapped in the towers and saved by being in stair well 'B' because he and his crew stopped to help Josephine Miller. To survive this attack, is beyond words. Perhaps the perfect Glen Miller piece for him is 'American Patrol' an all time favourite of mine.
I send my love to the lost, their families and the surviors. Granny
Just a quicky.
For the last two nights I have fallen asleep in the light from a full moon shining into my bedroom window. And what a light, so clear to clean so sharp so soft. The perfect shape of a moon is forever changing, I have seen huge moons in bright orange, I have laid on beaches in Greece and watched the moon and stars I am never failed to be inspired by 'Her' glory.
I hope that the families of the victims of 9/11 Twin Towers are able to rest on this 5th anniversary in the light of a moon where ever they may be. My hero is Jay Janus captain of Rig 6 who was trapped in the towers and saved by being in stair well 'B' because he and his crew stopped to help Josephine Miller. To survive this attack, is beyond words. Perhaps the perfect Glen Miller piece for him is 'American Patrol' an all time favourite of mine.
I send my love to the lost, their families and the surviors. Granny
GONE A ROMIN
Got you thinking, what is the girl on about? Well aromatherapy, thats what. I had my first session yesterday at the Macmillan Centre in Queen Marys Sidcup. Now let me tell you that have a wonderful garden to sit in, with shade and trees and flowers. I noticed a climbing flower with a huge bell shape in the prettiest shade of light blue, so delicate and it just lit up my day. it is a wonderful place to sit and read which I did prior to my treatment. Susie was the therapist and very nice. The experience was amazing, my mixture was bergermont and lavender (my favourite - I use these at home) and the hand massage was so relaxing but the effect afterwards was one of rejuvenated joints etc. The two arms were however complete different in feel. My right was - relaxing my left was warm bordering on hot and freed my arm up perfectly. I had intended for the experience to allow me to forget for a hour that I had breast cancer and to concentrate on me rather than 'it' if you see what I mean. The process was accomapnied by soft musical, sea and sea bird sounds.Again I love this, I am a sucker for the sea, which I why I can not wait to get back to Ventnor to walk along the front and hear the sea.
Was it worth it, oh yes.
PS those dragon flies have been back - it is like watching Spitfire aces catching the late evening flies who dare to be about.
Was it worth it, oh yes.
PS those dragon flies have been back - it is like watching Spitfire aces catching the late evening flies who dare to be about.
Thursday, September 07, 2006
SUPPORT PENNY DEACON
My mother lives in the Southampton area and read in the Daily Echo about Penny Deacon. She like me is a police officer. She had her operation in July to remove her breast cancer lump. On the 16th September 2006 she in company with 15 colleagues is going to undertake a 60 mile challenge (by cycle) to raise money for the Chemo unit at St Anne's Hosptial Newport. Anyone who knows me knows that the Isle of Wight is my dream home/place to visit (Ventnor) so please try and help my colleague reach her target. This can be done by visiting www.justgiving.com/pennydeacon There are a number of entries on the web, ie interviews with Penny etc.
I am so not a bike rider, I would like to get a fashion show - all full on glamour, in aid of Breast Cancer research - with me modeling of course and any other 'surviour' who wants to hit the catwalk. Lots of Bling, lots of confidence, lots of power and perhaps even a record in the charts!!!!!!
I note that Penny's Chief Superintendent is female, and I will be asking her has I will other senior women across the country to join me in making sure that the women employed in the police family are made fully aware of the issues and debates and need to check ourselves. As a member of the Commissioner's Women's Focus group I do have access to key officials and coleagues. This could be such a postive thing, because if you think about in terms of research there is no better fixed cross section of women anywhere. As an Historian of women in the service, I have an idea from looking at Metropolitan Police Women Service records how many women across the years have been diagnosed with Breast Cancer. Of course it is not just women who get Breast Cancer men can to. What a great opportunity to increase the knowledge of the disease lets have health pages with links across the Constabulary web pages.
SUPPORT PENNY PLEASE. THANK YOU. Love Granny
I am so not a bike rider, I would like to get a fashion show - all full on glamour, in aid of Breast Cancer research - with me modeling of course and any other 'surviour' who wants to hit the catwalk. Lots of Bling, lots of confidence, lots of power and perhaps even a record in the charts!!!!!!
I note that Penny's Chief Superintendent is female, and I will be asking her has I will other senior women across the country to join me in making sure that the women employed in the police family are made fully aware of the issues and debates and need to check ourselves. As a member of the Commissioner's Women's Focus group I do have access to key officials and coleagues. This could be such a postive thing, because if you think about in terms of research there is no better fixed cross section of women anywhere. As an Historian of women in the service, I have an idea from looking at Metropolitan Police Women Service records how many women across the years have been diagnosed with Breast Cancer. Of course it is not just women who get Breast Cancer men can to. What a great opportunity to increase the knowledge of the disease lets have health pages with links across the Constabulary web pages.
SUPPORT PENNY PLEASE. THANK YOU. Love Granny
Wednesday, September 06, 2006
A FASHION THING
The October Glamour Mag is out with a very good article on Breast Cancer victims who are under 50 - get reading.
Fashion is very much my thing as you know. Well this seasons Leggings with dresses or jumpers is devine. Thick tights, mentioned by me before, but essential. Comfortable elegent and warm, with a hint of sex underneath. Yes.
Granny loves yer.
Fashion is very much my thing as you know. Well this seasons Leggings with dresses or jumpers is devine. Thick tights, mentioned by me before, but essential. Comfortable elegent and warm, with a hint of sex underneath. Yes.
Granny loves yer.
MICK THE FARMER
It's Wednesday and a week since the last chemo, I feel much better today.
Mick started his new job yesterday at the organic farm shop. His family were Sussex farmers and had pigs. Some of the property is still in the family. He wants to get back to his roots, and away from the dry drone of his thrity plus year career. It is a challenge, he said that working a till his harder than it looks, but he has lots of ladies to help him, he will be in his element. Better is the challenge to the mind and body, being outside and close to the growing of things rather than the 'shop' culture that we have. We will benefit as well from getting nice fresh meat and veg. He will be able to cycle to work so he could also get really fit.
Today, and I am really trying not to make this a - diary blog, I visted Erith Deep Water Wharf, wlaking out along the really nice pier, with plenty of space, seats and it was clean. There were people sitting, eating, fishing and walking. Mums with their children and people having lunch away from their desk. Why can't Erith shake off it's end of the road feel? The sun was lovely and the water interesting in it's subtle changes of current and ripples caused by the wind. It is rather more industrial in aspect that perhaps the classic upper Thames, however this is the place to watch the life on the river move up and down.. I wonder why no one has thought of building a Yacht Marina here, to bring new people here. It could open the water front to cafes and shops.
There is a lot of new housing here, I particularly like one of the retirement developments, for me it would be an ideal spot with my balcony over the river and sitting in the evening with a glass of chilled Pinot Grigo watching the water and sea birds. I know that the borough is trying to rejenerate the area, but they lack purpose and direction, you need housing - of course, but also a river front area that is attractive with things to do. I have noted that the Running Horses, the Cross Keys and the White Hart very close to this area have made an effort to smarten up. What is needed is good food, good wine and good music. The White Hart has been very very clever and had a wonderful Thames Barge mural painted on its wall, I like this - perhaps they could make more of their lovely garden area down to the river. The older population that lives quite close could be a good customer source if they got away from the spit and sawdust type drinkers, the rowdy noisy and boring drinkers who inhabit Erith. The borough wants to bin the Running Horses, that used to have a carvery.
The areas biggest mistake was it's redevelopment of the shopping area, it went for two story concrete, please please why did you not look at the lay of the area, make it like it was in decades past with small shops. We have a Matalan, a Peacocks and one Select shop there is also a Wilkinsons, a Woolworths and a betting shop/ No imagination. Mostly what you see is dreary security guards who keep out the yob element. Yes perhaps employment is important but on the face of it these shops find it hard to hier staff. The Morrison's restaruant, does a roaring trade, most days breakfast and lunch. People come here for Sunday Lunch - you know a proper roast! Now if people are entised there to eat then why not to other proper food venues. Please no more Macdonalds or Burger King ( we have them as well) That is all there is in the evening. The borough even kicked out the market, which I liked to shop in. So why not a Farmers Market on Sundays?
Erith might seem like the end of the world but it has has railway station, which means people other than car drivers or locals could get here if there was something more than Morrisons. For god sake you built a huge road here, now do something with the town.There is a museum that is so much in need of reinvention that it is practically criminal to leave it. There is a lot of history in this area - what we need here is a historical mastermind. We even have a theater, yes a real live place for plays, THE ERITH PLAYHOUSE (it has a web site which mentions the lack of restaurants) £6 a ticket!!!!!!!. Surely this means something more than bland benality and medocre ideas could flourish here. VITALITY AND LIFE come on ERITH.
We need some dynamism with a heart here not stuffy political quick fixes.
Love Granny
Mick started his new job yesterday at the organic farm shop. His family were Sussex farmers and had pigs. Some of the property is still in the family. He wants to get back to his roots, and away from the dry drone of his thrity plus year career. It is a challenge, he said that working a till his harder than it looks, but he has lots of ladies to help him, he will be in his element. Better is the challenge to the mind and body, being outside and close to the growing of things rather than the 'shop' culture that we have. We will benefit as well from getting nice fresh meat and veg. He will be able to cycle to work so he could also get really fit.
Today, and I am really trying not to make this a - diary blog, I visted Erith Deep Water Wharf, wlaking out along the really nice pier, with plenty of space, seats and it was clean. There were people sitting, eating, fishing and walking. Mums with their children and people having lunch away from their desk. Why can't Erith shake off it's end of the road feel? The sun was lovely and the water interesting in it's subtle changes of current and ripples caused by the wind. It is rather more industrial in aspect that perhaps the classic upper Thames, however this is the place to watch the life on the river move up and down.. I wonder why no one has thought of building a Yacht Marina here, to bring new people here. It could open the water front to cafes and shops.
There is a lot of new housing here, I particularly like one of the retirement developments, for me it would be an ideal spot with my balcony over the river and sitting in the evening with a glass of chilled Pinot Grigo watching the water and sea birds. I know that the borough is trying to rejenerate the area, but they lack purpose and direction, you need housing - of course, but also a river front area that is attractive with things to do. I have noted that the Running Horses, the Cross Keys and the White Hart very close to this area have made an effort to smarten up. What is needed is good food, good wine and good music. The White Hart has been very very clever and had a wonderful Thames Barge mural painted on its wall, I like this - perhaps they could make more of their lovely garden area down to the river. The older population that lives quite close could be a good customer source if they got away from the spit and sawdust type drinkers, the rowdy noisy and boring drinkers who inhabit Erith. The borough wants to bin the Running Horses, that used to have a carvery.
The areas biggest mistake was it's redevelopment of the shopping area, it went for two story concrete, please please why did you not look at the lay of the area, make it like it was in decades past with small shops. We have a Matalan, a Peacocks and one Select shop there is also a Wilkinsons, a Woolworths and a betting shop/ No imagination. Mostly what you see is dreary security guards who keep out the yob element. Yes perhaps employment is important but on the face of it these shops find it hard to hier staff. The Morrison's restaruant, does a roaring trade, most days breakfast and lunch. People come here for Sunday Lunch - you know a proper roast! Now if people are entised there to eat then why not to other proper food venues. Please no more Macdonalds or Burger King ( we have them as well) That is all there is in the evening. The borough even kicked out the market, which I liked to shop in. So why not a Farmers Market on Sundays?
Erith might seem like the end of the world but it has has railway station, which means people other than car drivers or locals could get here if there was something more than Morrisons. For god sake you built a huge road here, now do something with the town.There is a museum that is so much in need of reinvention that it is practically criminal to leave it. There is a lot of history in this area - what we need here is a historical mastermind. We even have a theater, yes a real live place for plays, THE ERITH PLAYHOUSE (it has a web site which mentions the lack of restaurants) £6 a ticket!!!!!!!. Surely this means something more than bland benality and medocre ideas could flourish here. VITALITY AND LIFE come on ERITH.
We need some dynamism with a heart here not stuffy political quick fixes.
Love Granny
Monday, September 04, 2006
STILL FEELING TIRED
Yes, I must report that I remain a little off kilter, more than a little tired and slow. I wish I could whizz about like normal. I hope to try and make an excersion tomorrow but we will see.
I have become a daytime TV viewer, well mostly cable not regular TV. This really annoys Mick, since I like all the 'tec' and 'cop' shows. I have been reading some good books, mostly about history, and it really makes me wonder why 'historians' are so ghettoised behind their theories.
Some sad news about Steve Irwin, death by Stingray sounds like a plot and not reality! still Aussie land is very shocked and so are his family and fans.
My heart goes out to the RAF families in Kinloss, so many good and professional men, lost to their families and friends. I pray for them all. Also I pray for the soldier and marine, what is this silly world coming to. DRUGS, RELIGION AND POWER (THREE THINGS, SAME DEAL) The three kings of destruction absolutely linked by money.
Anyway love and peace, granny.
I have become a daytime TV viewer, well mostly cable not regular TV. This really annoys Mick, since I like all the 'tec' and 'cop' shows. I have been reading some good books, mostly about history, and it really makes me wonder why 'historians' are so ghettoised behind their theories.
Some sad news about Steve Irwin, death by Stingray sounds like a plot and not reality! still Aussie land is very shocked and so are his family and fans.
My heart goes out to the RAF families in Kinloss, so many good and professional men, lost to their families and friends. I pray for them all. Also I pray for the soldier and marine, what is this silly world coming to. DRUGS, RELIGION AND POWER (THREE THINGS, SAME DEAL) The three kings of destruction absolutely linked by money.
Anyway love and peace, granny.
Saturday, September 02, 2006
IN SUPPORT OF MOLLY CAMPBELL.
This young lady was feared abducted by her father and taken to Parkistan. This appears not to be the case. I feel sorry for the mother, who seems very disturbed. I do not think it was wise to follow the route she took in moving her daughter to such a remote place where she would clearly feel isolated. There is clearly much that has happened between Mother and Father but they have several children and this must be their first priority not their own animosity. The older children where in a position to make a choice. But what choice did the father give the mother was she made to conform against her will which has led to this situation.
Molly does not appear to have been happy, or at least she was trying to be for her mother sake. This is not her responsibility, her mother must not draw her daughter into her own depression. You know that I do not agree with the way women are treated in relation to forced marriages at any age, but perhaps this is not going to happen in this case. I do feel Molly should be listened to and that both Mum and Dad should make this possible so Molly can have a relationship with her all members of her family. But she is not and I repeat not their property. No pressure should be brought to bear on her, she must be handled with care and love. The one thing I have concern for is that being forced to live in one place or another against her will could lead to a lifetime of distress even if her parents think one or the other cultural background is at fault. No one should impose their will on a child.
Molly has to be bridge between two cultures, a thing that an increasing number of children are required to do, not easy when you love both your parents. Divorce and seperation are bad enough for any child but this bridge is one often too hard to cross.
Love to Molly, form Granny
Molly does not appear to have been happy, or at least she was trying to be for her mother sake. This is not her responsibility, her mother must not draw her daughter into her own depression. You know that I do not agree with the way women are treated in relation to forced marriages at any age, but perhaps this is not going to happen in this case. I do feel Molly should be listened to and that both Mum and Dad should make this possible so Molly can have a relationship with her all members of her family. But she is not and I repeat not their property. No pressure should be brought to bear on her, she must be handled with care and love. The one thing I have concern for is that being forced to live in one place or another against her will could lead to a lifetime of distress even if her parents think one or the other cultural background is at fault. No one should impose their will on a child.
Molly has to be bridge between two cultures, a thing that an increasing number of children are required to do, not easy when you love both your parents. Divorce and seperation are bad enough for any child but this bridge is one often too hard to cross.
Love to Molly, form Granny
CRASHING INTO A WALL
When I was seriously depressed in the past, I have tried to describe the feeling to people. I tell them it is much like crashing into a wall, you hit it hard, you can not get over, around or under it (so no limboing) You come to a dead stop nothing about you works, not your head nor you heart. I was lucky that I knew how to access help, I knew where to go sadly many others don't. It is a struggle to come to terms with what causes your depression and a realisation that some of it is down to you yourself - not an easy admission. Some is down to others and their behaviour and some to environmental or outside situations. This may be how your employers deal with you for example. One of my biggest helps as if you had not guessed is writing down they way I feel about things. Some was even written as poetry, read or painted but a great deal was done by talking to my counsellor who was brilliant. You can defeat the wall by picking at the mortar that holds the bricks together, dislodge the first brick and the way beomes clearer, until you can climb through. Tiny steps one day at a time, focus and breath.
OK so I have hit a bit of a mid-chemo wall this time round, mostly huge fatigue which is one of the key side effects, so no real surprise, but I do feel brighter today.
It is those little moments that matter, like yesterday while standing in the patio door, along came the biggest Dragonfly I had ever seen, with a much smaller mate. They flew around for a long time almost flying at me and into the house. Mick told me to be careful since it the Dragonfly got stressed by being inside it would die immediately. So I carefully closed the door, and just watched this amasing thing flying around the patio, it was a beautiful blue, and it flew so fast yet its wings seemed hardly to move dispite which I did get some idea of how they operate. It was drawn to my neigbours pond and more than a few have been similarly attracted.
Another great moment last week was when I saw 'Our' Woodpecker in the big fir tree, Walking!!! underneath the branch and then climbing up the trunk. This is according to the book, what they do so. This is not a big bird compared to the Woodpigeon and Magpies that share the tree but it's claws and beak are rather large and very strong. What we miss when we don't stop to look is the reason many of us take the wrong road.
See it is the small things that matter.
Love Granny
OK so I have hit a bit of a mid-chemo wall this time round, mostly huge fatigue which is one of the key side effects, so no real surprise, but I do feel brighter today.
It is those little moments that matter, like yesterday while standing in the patio door, along came the biggest Dragonfly I had ever seen, with a much smaller mate. They flew around for a long time almost flying at me and into the house. Mick told me to be careful since it the Dragonfly got stressed by being inside it would die immediately. So I carefully closed the door, and just watched this amasing thing flying around the patio, it was a beautiful blue, and it flew so fast yet its wings seemed hardly to move dispite which I did get some idea of how they operate. It was drawn to my neigbours pond and more than a few have been similarly attracted.
Another great moment last week was when I saw 'Our' Woodpecker in the big fir tree, Walking!!! underneath the branch and then climbing up the trunk. This is according to the book, what they do so. This is not a big bird compared to the Woodpigeon and Magpies that share the tree but it's claws and beak are rather large and very strong. What we miss when we don't stop to look is the reason many of us take the wrong road.
See it is the small things that matter.
Love Granny
Thursday, August 31, 2006
DAY AFTER CHEMO.
Yesterday after the chemo, late afternoon I was not feeling so well. I was really very tired, cold and miserable. I am worried about the effect the steroids will have on my body in terms of weight gain especially around my middle. Not to bad night sleep, so feel somewhat better today. It is only 11.30am.
Love Granny
Love Granny
Wednesday, August 30, 2006
SPEAKING OF FASHION?
The key fashion item of this season appears to be the white shirt, but hey it never went away really. Nothing beats the clean white shirt for effect, there are some super ones on the high street. Selection is important crisp and neat or frilly and linen. Looks great with jeans, but must be clean, red wine stains are a NO.
According to You magazine in the Mail on Sunday 27/08/2006 Wallis has been reborn, a great shop that I have always liked so if even better I shall make a special trip to see if it lives up to the hype. Still this shop can be on the expensive side.
Yesterday I popped into Sidcup for my pre chemo blood test and stopped in at Woolworths, well really this takes the biscuit. The lady in front of me was being served (half heartedly) by one member of staff while a rather younger member regailed us all (by accident) about her torrid dream, its odd references to hating her mother, her father drowning, her feeling of low self esteem Blah Blah Blah, not sure she had been drugged or was drunk, she did not stop for breath. Her colleague moved on to me and served me in the same half hearted fashion while listening to this drivel and offering worlds of wisdom to this - wreck. She barely batted an eyelid in referrence to me. Is this true multi tasking? shop assistant and councellor all in one deal, cheap sessions at the counter!!!!! Actually this is not what I call customer service. One member of staff who appeared less that capable of managing her life distracting a second member of staff. The cruncher was when said patient said "I really don't think I am being listened to" oh really, I beg to differ.
It may seem that I have been a little hard, the girl clearly needed help, but not on the shop floor in the presence and hearing of customers. There is a time and place, her friend would be wise to advise this young person to seek professional help.
One grumpy old granny sends her love.XXXX
According to You magazine in the Mail on Sunday 27/08/2006 Wallis has been reborn, a great shop that I have always liked so if even better I shall make a special trip to see if it lives up to the hype. Still this shop can be on the expensive side.
Yesterday I popped into Sidcup for my pre chemo blood test and stopped in at Woolworths, well really this takes the biscuit. The lady in front of me was being served (half heartedly) by one member of staff while a rather younger member regailed us all (by accident) about her torrid dream, its odd references to hating her mother, her father drowning, her feeling of low self esteem Blah Blah Blah, not sure she had been drugged or was drunk, she did not stop for breath. Her colleague moved on to me and served me in the same half hearted fashion while listening to this drivel and offering worlds of wisdom to this - wreck. She barely batted an eyelid in referrence to me. Is this true multi tasking? shop assistant and councellor all in one deal, cheap sessions at the counter!!!!! Actually this is not what I call customer service. One member of staff who appeared less that capable of managing her life distracting a second member of staff. The cruncher was when said patient said "I really don't think I am being listened to" oh really, I beg to differ.
It may seem that I have been a little hard, the girl clearly needed help, but not on the shop floor in the presence and hearing of customers. There is a time and place, her friend would be wise to advise this young person to seek professional help.
One grumpy old granny sends her love.XXXX
HALF WAY THERE
Well today I had my third chemo session, only three more to go. You will note that I have posted a picture on me 'en process' I took with me a silly balloon and kept holding it in front of my face and saying "What's up Doc" well it had to be done, didn't it? They think I'm mad anyway, so mad I was.
Keith was his usual efficient self, I felt nothing except that strange sensation you get in the nose, of all places, a sort of electric shock type tingle. It was all over by 11.45am so and hour all told. Now more tablets - which I hate taking. The important thing is to take your temperature 4 times a day for at least three days, then twice a day after that. Infection is the problem, and any sign of a temp increase and I have to call into the unit.
I did feel a little down today, I guess I just want it over and done.
Love Granny.
Keith was his usual efficient self, I felt nothing except that strange sensation you get in the nose, of all places, a sort of electric shock type tingle. It was all over by 11.45am so and hour all told. Now more tablets - which I hate taking. The important thing is to take your temperature 4 times a day for at least three days, then twice a day after that. Infection is the problem, and any sign of a temp increase and I have to call into the unit.
I did feel a little down today, I guess I just want it over and done.
Love Granny.
Saturday, August 26, 2006
BEXLEYHEATH -V- THE REST
I have lived in London Borough of Bexley since 1983. Over the years I have watched with horror the terrible mess Bexleyheath has become. I rarely if ever shop there now, I hate with some passion the monstrosity they call a shopping centre. It has no character, that has been driven out. Replaced by large pubs aimed at the young resulting in nightly antisocial behaviour. the shopping is dire, the shops are same o same o as every where else but lack any sparkle.
The pedestrian area is frequented by aimless young people from around the borough and beyond, who have this idea that only they have a right to be there and behave accordingly. I never go there in the evening, why should I? with only the choice of juvenile drinking establishments and fast food and mediocre chain eateries. I want some where adult - ie over 21 please, noise free where good food and good music are the order of the day. There is only one restaurant that is worthy of the title and accordingly it is pricey, so not a regular place to visit. There is not one quality night time venue anywhere in the borough, who seem hell bent on concreting the borough over. Traffic management is a joke, as are the parking restrictions.
THE REST.
I prefer to shop in Dartford and Woolwich - same general problems but I just find it more appealing to shop in these two areas. They still have some sense of identity.
Dartford has a small shopping mall but it has some nice shops, although if you shop in Primark beware, over stocked and not well managed in terms of floor space or marketing stratergy, which is I guess pile it in sell it cheap and on the whole the staff are slow, bored and demotivated. However my bargin was a black heavy linen long multi gored skirt for £5. In Peppermint I purchased a pair of khaki base ball boots for £5 which you could buy similar in Schuh for £34 (some mark up!!!) These two items should last me all winter.
As you know I like an early visit to Bluewater, it is funny what a difference the sum makes when it streams in through the roof lights. The best of both worlds. Outside is maturing nicely with trees, streams, wildlife and over by the Village, the restaurants have space outside to eat. Except you must not feed the Wildfowl!!!
My one moan is that it brings the Mums with babies out in force, they also bring their uber trendy mini me's with a disasterous result, me listening to spoilt children moaning "but I want it" reflections of the mothers I guess in the 'I' want society we have become. Given the cost of things in the shops of Bluewater, I guess the credit cards get a hammering.
I noted a sad trend of trainers on wheels worn by the very young, who not only run between the narrow aisles of shops they skate and look at others (Me) as if I am in their way. I love children, I believe we should love and care for them, but not to allow hyperactive out of control under fives to run around and jump on seating in coffee shops without restraint. I was horrified when a couple of Mums with a child each, sat a the table where I was and proceeded to chat with the occassional, 'now' to the respective children. One of these children with a full set of teeth apparently doesn't like to chew his food (or more likely won't) and clearly mum is pandering to this by her less than helpful atttitude she actually allows this behaviour and virtually encourages it, he had a very small current which immediately had to be washed down with water Quote "It is the only way he will eat anything". Could this be the only way he gets her attention? oh I think so.
I do not know which is worse, dippy mothers or those who scream torrants of abuse at their young. Children need boundaries, they feel secure if they are encouraged. Children learn to scream from adults, because they (parents) scream at each other, children won't eat because they don't. Loving is not about pandering to tantrums and demands. Behaviour is learnt in the home. You have children then it is the whole deal, manners, feeding, education, health the parents responsibility not the state.
In Cuba, I heard one mother complain that there were no chicken nuggets on the buffet at lunch. What? we were in Cuba and the food we had was better than good, plentiful, fresh and there was a lot of stuff for any child to eat, not least fresh cooked pasta while you wait with the sauce of your choice, what was wrong with that and a little salad and fresh fruit? nothing. This child was a product of it's education, why visit Cuba? go to Bexleyheath if chicken nuggets are all you want.
Back to Bluewater, Gold star for Evans and Elvi who fly the flag for the larger woman, they both had some nice stuff.
Monsoon, Zara, Strawberry Bunny, East are very nice shops as is 'Lucy in the Sky' but far too expensive.
My biggest complaint about any shopping is that staff are Snooty, Lack manners, are condecending and just not interested in customers. Have none of these shops heard of Staff Training?
I know I have had a moan, but really - I am sad for this country.
Love Granny
The pedestrian area is frequented by aimless young people from around the borough and beyond, who have this idea that only they have a right to be there and behave accordingly. I never go there in the evening, why should I? with only the choice of juvenile drinking establishments and fast food and mediocre chain eateries. I want some where adult - ie over 21 please, noise free where good food and good music are the order of the day. There is only one restaurant that is worthy of the title and accordingly it is pricey, so not a regular place to visit. There is not one quality night time venue anywhere in the borough, who seem hell bent on concreting the borough over. Traffic management is a joke, as are the parking restrictions.
THE REST.
I prefer to shop in Dartford and Woolwich - same general problems but I just find it more appealing to shop in these two areas. They still have some sense of identity.
Dartford has a small shopping mall but it has some nice shops, although if you shop in Primark beware, over stocked and not well managed in terms of floor space or marketing stratergy, which is I guess pile it in sell it cheap and on the whole the staff are slow, bored and demotivated. However my bargin was a black heavy linen long multi gored skirt for £5. In Peppermint I purchased a pair of khaki base ball boots for £5 which you could buy similar in Schuh for £34 (some mark up!!!) These two items should last me all winter.
As you know I like an early visit to Bluewater, it is funny what a difference the sum makes when it streams in through the roof lights. The best of both worlds. Outside is maturing nicely with trees, streams, wildlife and over by the Village, the restaurants have space outside to eat. Except you must not feed the Wildfowl!!!
My one moan is that it brings the Mums with babies out in force, they also bring their uber trendy mini me's with a disasterous result, me listening to spoilt children moaning "but I want it" reflections of the mothers I guess in the 'I' want society we have become. Given the cost of things in the shops of Bluewater, I guess the credit cards get a hammering.
I noted a sad trend of trainers on wheels worn by the very young, who not only run between the narrow aisles of shops they skate and look at others (Me) as if I am in their way. I love children, I believe we should love and care for them, but not to allow hyperactive out of control under fives to run around and jump on seating in coffee shops without restraint. I was horrified when a couple of Mums with a child each, sat a the table where I was and proceeded to chat with the occassional, 'now' to the respective children. One of these children with a full set of teeth apparently doesn't like to chew his food (or more likely won't) and clearly mum is pandering to this by her less than helpful atttitude she actually allows this behaviour and virtually encourages it, he had a very small current which immediately had to be washed down with water Quote "It is the only way he will eat anything". Could this be the only way he gets her attention? oh I think so.
I do not know which is worse, dippy mothers or those who scream torrants of abuse at their young. Children need boundaries, they feel secure if they are encouraged. Children learn to scream from adults, because they (parents) scream at each other, children won't eat because they don't. Loving is not about pandering to tantrums and demands. Behaviour is learnt in the home. You have children then it is the whole deal, manners, feeding, education, health the parents responsibility not the state.
In Cuba, I heard one mother complain that there were no chicken nuggets on the buffet at lunch. What? we were in Cuba and the food we had was better than good, plentiful, fresh and there was a lot of stuff for any child to eat, not least fresh cooked pasta while you wait with the sauce of your choice, what was wrong with that and a little salad and fresh fruit? nothing. This child was a product of it's education, why visit Cuba? go to Bexleyheath if chicken nuggets are all you want.
Back to Bluewater, Gold star for Evans and Elvi who fly the flag for the larger woman, they both had some nice stuff.
Monsoon, Zara, Strawberry Bunny, East are very nice shops as is 'Lucy in the Sky' but far too expensive.
My biggest complaint about any shopping is that staff are Snooty, Lack manners, are condecending and just not interested in customers. Have none of these shops heard of Staff Training?
I know I have had a moan, but really - I am sad for this country.
Love Granny
Thursday, August 24, 2006
OLDCHURCH HOSPITAL
This the hospital where my brother and I were born, it is in Romford Essex. It is also where my Mum trained as a nurse. She worked as an operating theater sister there, and when she had the both of us she stayed home to look after us. Later she worked at Southampton General Hospital for 20 years until her retirement. My question is, does anybody care that this wonderful old hospital in Romford has gone?
I cannot complain at my treatment at Queen Mary's Sidcup, but I would say this. Nursing is a vocation and a career and it is about care of patients. My mum was held in high esteem, she was never afraid to get her hands dirty (she then washed them of course) she did what had to be done. Recently I heard of a nurse who refused to deal with a bed pan, because it was not her job. Nonsense and get a life.
Love Granny.
I cannot complain at my treatment at Queen Mary's Sidcup, but I would say this. Nursing is a vocation and a career and it is about care of patients. My mum was held in high esteem, she was never afraid to get her hands dirty (she then washed them of course) she did what had to be done. Recently I heard of a nurse who refused to deal with a bed pan, because it was not her job. Nonsense and get a life.
Love Granny.
QUITE A FEW BITS
Firstly, the hair has begun to fall out again, this is about right. I had a shortish period when no hair fell out and I judged that last time the hair begun to fall about five days before the next round of chemo and the same appears to be happening. No problem, just another stage.
Secondly, there has been a great deal written about breast cancer in the press. I noted an article by Kerry Ross (Paul Ross's ex wife) in the Mail. Very interesting and informative and hugely positive. She had only recently remarried prior to her diagnosis, which was an awful shock for her. This is a must read.
Thirdly, the suff about new drugs is very disruptive for people, not all the drugs work on all people, it very much remains an issue as to what kind of cancer a person has. I fear peoples expectations are built up unrealistically - this fuels demands which do not reflect what is right for the patient.
What makes me angry is the money the drug companies are making, yes it costs money for research, development etc etc I understand that. but come on chaps the bottom line is your share holders who are making money on the back of other peoples pain and suffering. this is morally and ethically repugnant. Reduce the cost to the Health Services, no one should have to decide on cost grounds who can have what treatment, these decisions should only be made on clinical evidence. I think it is appaling to put a cost on HIP REPLACEMENT versus CHILD HOOD ILLNESS TREATMENT. I also worry that people 'chase' cures and demand a treatment for themselves those who are well off can of course do this, the poor cannot. I also think that to mortgage ones self is unrealistic.
Fourthly, the issue of death. There are people who demand the right to end their life, when in their view their quality of life is not worth it, there may be a number of reasons for this and who am I to judge what is right for them. The manner of death is important, I would rather die without pain and there are wonderful places where this process is made easier, I mean hospices of course. This would be my choice, to die well when it is my time. I find it apporant that some legal and religious voices seek to determine what this should or should not mean for individuals, they add to a persons sense of fear and pain by punishing them with arguments that reflect an ideology rather than humanity. The other issue is of course, we all die, nothing else in this world is more certain. No one has the right to take life, murder etc this goes without saying, but to prolong life beyond nature is repugnant because it is not life.
We are born, we live our lives and we die, it is arrogant of an individual to think that they should live forever, why should I for example live longer than you? am I better or of more value you that you? No, I am equal to you in value. What matters to me is how I live my life and how I die, peacfully and knowing I am loved.
Secondly, there has been a great deal written about breast cancer in the press. I noted an article by Kerry Ross (Paul Ross's ex wife) in the Mail. Very interesting and informative and hugely positive. She had only recently remarried prior to her diagnosis, which was an awful shock for her. This is a must read.
Thirdly, the suff about new drugs is very disruptive for people, not all the drugs work on all people, it very much remains an issue as to what kind of cancer a person has. I fear peoples expectations are built up unrealistically - this fuels demands which do not reflect what is right for the patient.
What makes me angry is the money the drug companies are making, yes it costs money for research, development etc etc I understand that. but come on chaps the bottom line is your share holders who are making money on the back of other peoples pain and suffering. this is morally and ethically repugnant. Reduce the cost to the Health Services, no one should have to decide on cost grounds who can have what treatment, these decisions should only be made on clinical evidence. I think it is appaling to put a cost on HIP REPLACEMENT versus CHILD HOOD ILLNESS TREATMENT. I also worry that people 'chase' cures and demand a treatment for themselves those who are well off can of course do this, the poor cannot. I also think that to mortgage ones self is unrealistic.
Fourthly, the issue of death. There are people who demand the right to end their life, when in their view their quality of life is not worth it, there may be a number of reasons for this and who am I to judge what is right for them. The manner of death is important, I would rather die without pain and there are wonderful places where this process is made easier, I mean hospices of course. This would be my choice, to die well when it is my time. I find it apporant that some legal and religious voices seek to determine what this should or should not mean for individuals, they add to a persons sense of fear and pain by punishing them with arguments that reflect an ideology rather than humanity. The other issue is of course, we all die, nothing else in this world is more certain. No one has the right to take life, murder etc this goes without saying, but to prolong life beyond nature is repugnant because it is not life.
We are born, we live our lives and we die, it is arrogant of an individual to think that they should live forever, why should I for example live longer than you? am I better or of more value you that you? No, I am equal to you in value. What matters to me is how I live my life and how I die, peacfully and knowing I am loved.
Wednesday, August 23, 2006
Tuesday, August 22, 2006
HAIR TODAY, GONE TOMORROW
Hi World, You will have seen that I have posted two pictures, which are acurate representations of myself, losing hair. If anybody is afraid of this happening to them, please don't be. I have read so much lately in fashion magazines and today in the paper about women who have lost their hair, some like me through Chemo, who are just inspirational about how they dealt with it. I have choosen not to do the wig thing, but that's me. Today however wigs are incredable, even Trevor Sorbie markets a wig design. Don't be sad, because I look on it as a fresh start, it is visible but if people find it difficult then it is their problem not yours or mine, it is their fears. I might have to get the setson out soon, can't have a sunburnt head.
I have made contact with a friend from Junior School, after all these years - via - Friends Reunited. It so happens his sister, was diagnosed about 10 years ago, she lives in Jamaica where she has given up her career to work for Breast Cancer and is an artist. I cannot wait to talk to her, to gather inspiration from her. You know It Is Life Changing, I refuse to be punished by other peoples expectations of the disease.
If I survive, which I hope I will (nothing is guaranteed) then for the rest of the time that I have I will smile, laugh, sing and DO THINGS. I will travel, I will learn about Britain and nature. I want to be able to pass on to my grandchildren, a love of life. We have one life, it is not a rehersal, we cannot undo (realistically) things that should not have be done - that is a persons history. But whats coming we can impact, what ever time we have. It is really not about how much time an individual has but what they do with that time. Talk to family, share a meal, share a tear, share a hug - create a memory. This is the way to proceed with things that frighten us. If I get sicker later in the process, so be it. Other people out there have been less fortunate than I and I recognise how difficult it is for them.
More tomorrow. Love Granny
I have made contact with a friend from Junior School, after all these years - via - Friends Reunited. It so happens his sister, was diagnosed about 10 years ago, she lives in Jamaica where she has given up her career to work for Breast Cancer and is an artist. I cannot wait to talk to her, to gather inspiration from her. You know It Is Life Changing, I refuse to be punished by other peoples expectations of the disease.
If I survive, which I hope I will (nothing is guaranteed) then for the rest of the time that I have I will smile, laugh, sing and DO THINGS. I will travel, I will learn about Britain and nature. I want to be able to pass on to my grandchildren, a love of life. We have one life, it is not a rehersal, we cannot undo (realistically) things that should not have be done - that is a persons history. But whats coming we can impact, what ever time we have. It is really not about how much time an individual has but what they do with that time. Talk to family, share a meal, share a tear, share a hug - create a memory. This is the way to proceed with things that frighten us. If I get sicker later in the process, so be it. Other people out there have been less fortunate than I and I recognise how difficult it is for them.
More tomorrow. Love Granny
Monday, August 21, 2006
ALL THINGS SILLY, PS I CAN'T SPELL
Just so you know, I am a collector of all things silly and trivial - or so Mick thinks. I am also someone who mooches, the very essence of 'Minni the Moocher'. Mick says I am the only person he knows who can shop for no reason, I just amble sedately from shop to shop - browsing and being uber critical. He says I am the only person he knows who can be there one minute and he is talking to me and the next I have vanished down some aisle or other - good thing for my mobile he just rings me to find out which shop I happen to be in. I call my silly and trivial items my treasures, and they can range from a paper butterly to a concrete model of a classical nude on a cheise longue I have Teddies and model cars, icons, pictures, glass and jewellery. My biggest collection is of BOOKS, BOOKS AND YET MORE BOOKs. These are my sources, my references for my work with history, the law and women's issues, I AM UNDER STRICT ORDERS - NO MORE BOOKS but what does Mick know, I slip the odd one under his radar.
I have been reviewing some more fashion stuff this morning, I was delighted to get, among all the Sunday paper dross, The Sunday Times Boden Autum catalogue. I love their stuff but can never afford to purchase. For you busy ladies out there who work in business I have to say that I like their stuff particularly for work, why? mostly the range of colours and the basics that could be your capsual business wardrobe.
This season they have a classic Velvet trim v neck (jumper), a flattering line in soft cotton jersey the colours are scrummy, from Dusky Turquoise to a mid brown, I am into the pink shades myself. At £21 not bad a price either for a staple/classic. They have a similar cardigan range which I like at £29. Their full Sateen cotton skirt is also excellent and I would wear with the jumper noted above. I like waistcoats and they have a nice velvet collection. Another skirt that they have is either in a stripe or check I like boot, but a £55 quite and expensive item.
Boden have some great T shirts (long sleeve with v neck) a lovely range of Cami, a wicked short jacket in black or check. Their bags are to die for as are their loafers and ballet pumps.
They have what they describe as the essential shirt, I would say yes but the price of £38 is too much. If it were cheaper I would probably buy 2 or 3 with a jumper and a cardigan and a mix of skirts that would be my work wardrobe. You can play around with basics to make a statement. One of my other 'silly collections' are my brooches, I have over 100 of all sorts, from craft shop picks to second hand shops and stall, a particular hunting ground for these is Greenwich Market. PS we must save Greenwich from the developers. My other little secret is tights in all sorts of colours.
Many moons ago when I used present cases in court in child care matters and long before the CPS I nearly always wore a black suit - the thing the magistrates used to try and guess was what colour my tights might be - my idea was to look like a Liquorice Allsort (not bertie however)
I had pink (well you know I would) and blues and green tights to choose from. These days bless them I can buy patterned ones. At work they laugh because I have a passion for Fishnets, my boss (and I did this to wind him up) was in a panic when I was teaching a class on prostitution and how to deal with these issues when I wore, black fishnets, black tight skirt and very killer heels, so that I could (yes I know, a stereotype) show the class how to view 'loitering' - well it made people laugh. I do like to 'Act up'.
By the by, I love killer heels. but I also love uber flatties.
In the YOU magazine in the Mail on Sunday there are some great ideas, and dont say I didnt warn you the knitted dress is well back. Super sexy to if worn properly. My favourites was the well priced H and M dress in a cream knit with a scoop neck and a front waist bow detail. NOT EVERYBODY COULD or SHOULD wear this and I perhaps would not but I still love it (I can dream at least) and at £34 not bad. This could be a day or evening item dressed up or down. I would probably go for a toning tight and shoe to lengthen the look. Chocolate is very much in this season and would add a nice touch to this dress as would naturals (wood)
Good tights tip - Golden Lady in Asda, Italian tights I love their light colour with a matching diamond pattern, I love their tarten tights and their black tights with little white spots.
I am also over the Moon that BIBA are back, this was the company I used to buy from in the 1970's wicked. I love the Black satin Cat Suit, a style I wore a lot when younger, and it is a younger persons look. You need a good back for this item and good arms.
Problem arms? then a shrug is a must.
I went shopping again, well window shopping as usual, I like what I saw in Peacocks, they have a nice Oat colour trouser in a linen mix. They have a wicked cross over blouse in a black with a feint red stripe it ties to the side, not as bad as it sounds, in cotton. Would look great with a black trouser or skirt.
There is also a nice retro 1970 pattern sleevless dress in black and red on white, It is empire line and to the knee. Watch the stitching however as always with cheaper end of the market. I would not wear black with this dress, red would be nice and pick up the red or the white of the dress, in cheap and cheerful beads, earings bangles etc etc perhaps a nice red clutch bag. An Autumn party look. Matalan was quite boring but both shops still have the longer T shirt that I love in some great colours and a £3 not a bad deal can be worn under a shirt, with jeans or what ever. Mattalan has some wicked green leather stilletoes.
A shoe tip - whether at work or on a date, clean scuff free shoes are a must. It says you care about your appearance. Good shoes make an outfit, they should also be comfortable there is nothing worse tha painful feet, it makes you feel so bad. I also have shoes in a range of colours, including the all important neutral, for choice. Basic black is great, but does not go with lighter outfits, they can look heavy and unbalance an outfit.
I am glad to see the high waist super skinny trouser and jeans is back. I am off to find the nice flat fronted, great tummy flattening trouser at Miss Selfridge a steal at £30 - this will last you all season, to dress up of down.
Oh well time to go. for my cocktail today - Mandarin and peach over ICE yummy. Love Granny
I have been reviewing some more fashion stuff this morning, I was delighted to get, among all the Sunday paper dross, The Sunday Times Boden Autum catalogue. I love their stuff but can never afford to purchase. For you busy ladies out there who work in business I have to say that I like their stuff particularly for work, why? mostly the range of colours and the basics that could be your capsual business wardrobe.
This season they have a classic Velvet trim v neck (jumper), a flattering line in soft cotton jersey the colours are scrummy, from Dusky Turquoise to a mid brown, I am into the pink shades myself. At £21 not bad a price either for a staple/classic. They have a similar cardigan range which I like at £29. Their full Sateen cotton skirt is also excellent and I would wear with the jumper noted above. I like waistcoats and they have a nice velvet collection. Another skirt that they have is either in a stripe or check I like boot, but a £55 quite and expensive item.
Boden have some great T shirts (long sleeve with v neck) a lovely range of Cami, a wicked short jacket in black or check. Their bags are to die for as are their loafers and ballet pumps.
They have what they describe as the essential shirt, I would say yes but the price of £38 is too much. If it were cheaper I would probably buy 2 or 3 with a jumper and a cardigan and a mix of skirts that would be my work wardrobe. You can play around with basics to make a statement. One of my other 'silly collections' are my brooches, I have over 100 of all sorts, from craft shop picks to second hand shops and stall, a particular hunting ground for these is Greenwich Market. PS we must save Greenwich from the developers. My other little secret is tights in all sorts of colours.
Many moons ago when I used present cases in court in child care matters and long before the CPS I nearly always wore a black suit - the thing the magistrates used to try and guess was what colour my tights might be - my idea was to look like a Liquorice Allsort (not bertie however)
I had pink (well you know I would) and blues and green tights to choose from. These days bless them I can buy patterned ones. At work they laugh because I have a passion for Fishnets, my boss (and I did this to wind him up) was in a panic when I was teaching a class on prostitution and how to deal with these issues when I wore, black fishnets, black tight skirt and very killer heels, so that I could (yes I know, a stereotype) show the class how to view 'loitering' - well it made people laugh. I do like to 'Act up'.
By the by, I love killer heels. but I also love uber flatties.
In the YOU magazine in the Mail on Sunday there are some great ideas, and dont say I didnt warn you the knitted dress is well back. Super sexy to if worn properly. My favourites was the well priced H and M dress in a cream knit with a scoop neck and a front waist bow detail. NOT EVERYBODY COULD or SHOULD wear this and I perhaps would not but I still love it (I can dream at least) and at £34 not bad. This could be a day or evening item dressed up or down. I would probably go for a toning tight and shoe to lengthen the look. Chocolate is very much in this season and would add a nice touch to this dress as would naturals (wood)
Good tights tip - Golden Lady in Asda, Italian tights I love their light colour with a matching diamond pattern, I love their tarten tights and their black tights with little white spots.
I am also over the Moon that BIBA are back, this was the company I used to buy from in the 1970's wicked. I love the Black satin Cat Suit, a style I wore a lot when younger, and it is a younger persons look. You need a good back for this item and good arms.
Problem arms? then a shrug is a must.
I went shopping again, well window shopping as usual, I like what I saw in Peacocks, they have a nice Oat colour trouser in a linen mix. They have a wicked cross over blouse in a black with a feint red stripe it ties to the side, not as bad as it sounds, in cotton. Would look great with a black trouser or skirt.
There is also a nice retro 1970 pattern sleevless dress in black and red on white, It is empire line and to the knee. Watch the stitching however as always with cheaper end of the market. I would not wear black with this dress, red would be nice and pick up the red or the white of the dress, in cheap and cheerful beads, earings bangles etc etc perhaps a nice red clutch bag. An Autumn party look. Matalan was quite boring but both shops still have the longer T shirt that I love in some great colours and a £3 not a bad deal can be worn under a shirt, with jeans or what ever. Mattalan has some wicked green leather stilletoes.
A shoe tip - whether at work or on a date, clean scuff free shoes are a must. It says you care about your appearance. Good shoes make an outfit, they should also be comfortable there is nothing worse tha painful feet, it makes you feel so bad. I also have shoes in a range of colours, including the all important neutral, for choice. Basic black is great, but does not go with lighter outfits, they can look heavy and unbalance an outfit.
I am glad to see the high waist super skinny trouser and jeans is back. I am off to find the nice flat fronted, great tummy flattening trouser at Miss Selfridge a steal at £30 - this will last you all season, to dress up of down.
Oh well time to go. for my cocktail today - Mandarin and peach over ICE yummy. Love Granny
Saturday, August 19, 2006
STRAIGHT DOWN RAIN
Today, Saturday, it has been raining, and that is a good thing since we have been in a 'drought' period. In the pine trees with the sun on them, there are droplets shining like diamonds that twinkle and reflect out some colours, more beautiful than any costly necklace.
The rain was coming down, heavy and straight down, almost like a sheet of water. I noticed a feather, a tiny white curly feather and it was twisting and floating 'across' this down pour, pushed against the water as if by magic, unhurried, not bothered just doing it's thing despite what must have been great pressure, incredible. I have also just seen a young Woodpecker in the pine, just sitting there looking a bit wet and bedraggled.
It reminded me of how I view life and what I want for other women. I look back at the history of womens suffrage and rights and then I look at women today and wonder what have we achieved because we still buy into partriarchy. I want women to be better than men, by that I mean not doing things the male way. I want women to be above violence and survival of the fittest nor motivated by greed and power. I look at the girls who hang around in gangs (nothing new I must say) I look at them because they are stuck in the rut of group identitiy and not individuality. I find that very boring, and a waste of time. They lack direction and ambition and all that has been won on their behalf, health, education and opportunity are as if for nothing. I want them to have something better than what I had, and that was what the struggle has been about. CHANCE AND CHOICE and not having to settle for marriage and kids with just some fella is what I want for the girls now and in the future. Marriage is fine, if it is a partnership, love is fine if founded on mutual respect and children are important if they are wanted and loved not just something that happens after quick bonk.
These girls dress alike, and appear to see that the icons of celebrity are the ones to aspire to, when in fact it is so transient as to be unimportant. Money and glamour never last, beauty is also fragile and will disintergrate. That life is disposable and easily thrown away.
I watched a programme the other night called 'Bus Pass boob jobs' with people (over 60) seeking to hold on to a vision of their youth with boob jobs, tummy tucks and face lifts. WHY, it was so sad, especially when they really analysed why they wanted this, it was about being lonely and alone, following failed marriages - one man over 70 actually was prepared to risk his life (the action of anathstetic on his body) to take his face back to the way it was when he was in his prime. He even nearly collapsed just having botox injections. !!!!!!! It is just your face, over time it becomes the record of your life and we should be proud of this. I am so against breast augmentation and the want to have big boobs, just buys into male fantasy, a size 'ff' is rediculous.
Having just had a lump removed from my left breast, I can say with some knowledge that I would rather have a healthy boob than a size double D. I now have a large scar and a slightly misshapen boob, but it is mine and if I should in the future have to loose a breast - so be it. The only reason it becomes an issue for women is because men tell us they will not love us if we are not as they wish, or by their reaction they imply that they are turned off by us. If this is the case, you are better of without the man. I am so lucky that Mick has been so supportive, I never once felt under threat. If I had, I would have left to deal with it on my own.
I want to be 70 years of age and still doing things, reading, writing, painting - living rather than consigning myself to the trash heap of other peoples expectations. I know it might sound contradictory, when I have just trashed the choice of some elderly people to go under the knife, but actually I am not saying grow old gracefully as per my expectations, I am saying don't punish yourself for growing old, because growing old is what we all do it is part of life.
My greatest saddness this week has been when a father jumped with his two kids 50 feet from a balcony while on holiday. Following a row, he killed his 6 year old son. The fear that child experienced in that moment cannot be imagined. THIS WAS A FAMILY ROW. The father can't remember what happened - his daughter who survived will. The parents will blame each other of course. Parents, mum or dad, who kill their children when they themselves are depressed are not displaying their love for their kids just their complete disregard for them. There is a little star shining in the sky for this little boy and because I believe in a God, he is with God. I can understand why the Greek public were so angry, they are a very family oriented people and they would not have understood this. There will be many excuses, such as drink, depression and pills for this man's action, but I cannot find it in my heart to forgive him. It is likely he was trying to punish his wife for wanting to leave him. As I say so many times, children are not our possessions to be fought over or demanded in settlement, they are a precious gift.
'Shine on little light who brought such joy.
Look down and with love care for your sister.'
Love from Granny
The rain was coming down, heavy and straight down, almost like a sheet of water. I noticed a feather, a tiny white curly feather and it was twisting and floating 'across' this down pour, pushed against the water as if by magic, unhurried, not bothered just doing it's thing despite what must have been great pressure, incredible. I have also just seen a young Woodpecker in the pine, just sitting there looking a bit wet and bedraggled.
It reminded me of how I view life and what I want for other women. I look back at the history of womens suffrage and rights and then I look at women today and wonder what have we achieved because we still buy into partriarchy. I want women to be better than men, by that I mean not doing things the male way. I want women to be above violence and survival of the fittest nor motivated by greed and power. I look at the girls who hang around in gangs (nothing new I must say) I look at them because they are stuck in the rut of group identitiy and not individuality. I find that very boring, and a waste of time. They lack direction and ambition and all that has been won on their behalf, health, education and opportunity are as if for nothing. I want them to have something better than what I had, and that was what the struggle has been about. CHANCE AND CHOICE and not having to settle for marriage and kids with just some fella is what I want for the girls now and in the future. Marriage is fine, if it is a partnership, love is fine if founded on mutual respect and children are important if they are wanted and loved not just something that happens after quick bonk.
These girls dress alike, and appear to see that the icons of celebrity are the ones to aspire to, when in fact it is so transient as to be unimportant. Money and glamour never last, beauty is also fragile and will disintergrate. That life is disposable and easily thrown away.
I watched a programme the other night called 'Bus Pass boob jobs' with people (over 60) seeking to hold on to a vision of their youth with boob jobs, tummy tucks and face lifts. WHY, it was so sad, especially when they really analysed why they wanted this, it was about being lonely and alone, following failed marriages - one man over 70 actually was prepared to risk his life (the action of anathstetic on his body) to take his face back to the way it was when he was in his prime. He even nearly collapsed just having botox injections. !!!!!!! It is just your face, over time it becomes the record of your life and we should be proud of this. I am so against breast augmentation and the want to have big boobs, just buys into male fantasy, a size 'ff' is rediculous.
Having just had a lump removed from my left breast, I can say with some knowledge that I would rather have a healthy boob than a size double D. I now have a large scar and a slightly misshapen boob, but it is mine and if I should in the future have to loose a breast - so be it. The only reason it becomes an issue for women is because men tell us they will not love us if we are not as they wish, or by their reaction they imply that they are turned off by us. If this is the case, you are better of without the man. I am so lucky that Mick has been so supportive, I never once felt under threat. If I had, I would have left to deal with it on my own.
I want to be 70 years of age and still doing things, reading, writing, painting - living rather than consigning myself to the trash heap of other peoples expectations. I know it might sound contradictory, when I have just trashed the choice of some elderly people to go under the knife, but actually I am not saying grow old gracefully as per my expectations, I am saying don't punish yourself for growing old, because growing old is what we all do it is part of life.
My greatest saddness this week has been when a father jumped with his two kids 50 feet from a balcony while on holiday. Following a row, he killed his 6 year old son. The fear that child experienced in that moment cannot be imagined. THIS WAS A FAMILY ROW. The father can't remember what happened - his daughter who survived will. The parents will blame each other of course. Parents, mum or dad, who kill their children when they themselves are depressed are not displaying their love for their kids just their complete disregard for them. There is a little star shining in the sky for this little boy and because I believe in a God, he is with God. I can understand why the Greek public were so angry, they are a very family oriented people and they would not have understood this. There will be many excuses, such as drink, depression and pills for this man's action, but I cannot find it in my heart to forgive him. It is likely he was trying to punish his wife for wanting to leave him. As I say so many times, children are not our possessions to be fought over or demanded in settlement, they are a precious gift.
'Shine on little light who brought such joy.
Look down and with love care for your sister.'
Love from Granny
Thursday, August 17, 2006
BLUEWATER MOURNING!
Just before my second chemo I went for a short early morning walk in Bluewater. I arrived before the shops had all opened and had a coffee and Muffin (lovely) I wanted to have a look at the things I could not afford and to see what inspiration I could glean from the pretty things. I took a note book to record some thoughts - this post is about that experience. There is a Halal food outlet in the food hall, good to see - look for Shere Khan.
CROCS, a strange brightly coloured clog shoe with foot massage interior, I would love a pair, ideal for beach holidays, washable and jolly, I have always been a clog fan, I have a black leather pair which I wear with jeans. Fun and Funky. A small stall on the lower floor (not a shop) It made me smile.
PS Mustard is not a good colour, although there is a lot about, if you wear near face, think skin tone before you buy.
Everywhere is sale mad, with 70% off in someplaces, definately a time to shop, but in high price retailers, you are still spending too much even in the sale, not worth it really. Everything is too expensive, of course shops need to move seasonal stuff quickly, I suggest they look at what they buy and what their customers want and then buy accordingly. Sales are a testament to overstocking, poor purchase decisions, marketing and size ranges.
A shop I had not seen before is MANDOLIN, Loved it a very good range of mid price clothes with some nice styles. Skirts at £49 and Dress at £49.
In Zara which has quite a nice layout I found a super spotty top (long) and various colours and a really nice long line skinny polo neck (not a good look for the older neck)
JIGSAW had a good sale, with some great skirts for autumn/winter for the officer and some nice jackets.
NEXT had a great black dress for £52 very 50's but still too expensive, I also liked the Black and White dog tooth check skirt at £26 and Jacket at £54 (good for the business woman with oomph)
I also recommend Wolford's for tights and things If I had the right figure I would have those stretchy skirts as well.
I purchased a wicked pair of earings for £2.50 (yes under a fiver) in the ACCESSORIZE sale very long, very ethnic in brass look and turquoise tassel. Ideal for when I am bald to make the statement, I'm bald so what. Very Kick Arse.
My biggest issue is that Past Times has gone, pushed out I hear due to rising rents in Bluewater. Stupid to over price the venue I think, that will only push out the price cost to the shopper.
Always shop early, give yourself time to wizz around and get a feel note your items and return to have a better look.
PS I love Oasis for Accessorises.
MY BIG MOAN, Is the staff who are endlessly bored in their work and are rude and ignorant of their customers, no customers = no job. Having said that customers should not be rude to staff either, and patience is a virtue when you can clearly see staff are busy. Busy does not mean staff discussing last night or up coming date with Co workers. Being busy is not being rude about customers who have just been in, this does not endear me to you and I WONT SHOP IN YOUR SHOP. Some staff think that their lives are more important than the customers wishes WRONG. Customer focus and customer service should be a watch word. You should know and understand company and consumer policy be professional. Have alternatives to items to discuss understand how your products work together and for god sake smile a welcome, not pushy just friendly. Also be uptodate with competitors and fashion trends.
Don't sell faulty goods in the sale, BIN THEM.
I want to see items, set out in size order ie all 12s together etc and then colour co-ordinated. I don't want to have to wade through a thousand size 10's to find a 14. I want to see some effort to understand how items work together.
Sadly, I was bored by Bluewater this time although I can see the attraction for the many mums with children - especially on either a very hot or rainy day. Large department stores bore me riggid and are predictable.
As a by the by a very interesting article in Times2 supplement on Tuesday 15/08/2006 "The Chain Gang" Secrets of the six men who run the high street" Terry Green at Tesco, Sir Philip Green (BHS) Stephen Sunnucks (GAP) Stuart Rose (M+S) Phil Wrigley (New Look) and Mike Shearwood of Zara. Please Please lets have a female revolution and unseat these money men. I am glad to see that there is a move to inhouse design teams not before time, HOW ABOUT A MOVE BACK TO British makers as well. I also welcome the idea of short style ranges, keep it moving is what I say. There are loads of young desingers out there in the fashion and design schools. INNOVATION. NOT EVERY BODY IS A SIZE 8 OR 10 (who would want to be) Not everybody wants to be Victoria Beckham, Paris Hilton or any such celeb. We are individuals and that is a beautiful thing, lifestyle is what you make it - I don't want other peoples lifestyles I want mine.
Space in shops to move around, good changing facilities, chairs, mirrors even 360 degree ones so I can see my back, good lighting and good quality interested and knowledgable staff. FOCUS FOCUS. Just don't look down your nose at the customer and your sales will grow.
Have a nice day! Granny
CROCS, a strange brightly coloured clog shoe with foot massage interior, I would love a pair, ideal for beach holidays, washable and jolly, I have always been a clog fan, I have a black leather pair which I wear with jeans. Fun and Funky. A small stall on the lower floor (not a shop) It made me smile.
PS Mustard is not a good colour, although there is a lot about, if you wear near face, think skin tone before you buy.
Everywhere is sale mad, with 70% off in someplaces, definately a time to shop, but in high price retailers, you are still spending too much even in the sale, not worth it really. Everything is too expensive, of course shops need to move seasonal stuff quickly, I suggest they look at what they buy and what their customers want and then buy accordingly. Sales are a testament to overstocking, poor purchase decisions, marketing and size ranges.
A shop I had not seen before is MANDOLIN, Loved it a very good range of mid price clothes with some nice styles. Skirts at £49 and Dress at £49.
In Zara which has quite a nice layout I found a super spotty top (long) and various colours and a really nice long line skinny polo neck (not a good look for the older neck)
JIGSAW had a good sale, with some great skirts for autumn/winter for the officer and some nice jackets.
NEXT had a great black dress for £52 very 50's but still too expensive, I also liked the Black and White dog tooth check skirt at £26 and Jacket at £54 (good for the business woman with oomph)
I also recommend Wolford's for tights and things If I had the right figure I would have those stretchy skirts as well.
I purchased a wicked pair of earings for £2.50 (yes under a fiver) in the ACCESSORIZE sale very long, very ethnic in brass look and turquoise tassel. Ideal for when I am bald to make the statement, I'm bald so what. Very Kick Arse.
My biggest issue is that Past Times has gone, pushed out I hear due to rising rents in Bluewater. Stupid to over price the venue I think, that will only push out the price cost to the shopper.
Always shop early, give yourself time to wizz around and get a feel note your items and return to have a better look.
PS I love Oasis for Accessorises.
MY BIG MOAN, Is the staff who are endlessly bored in their work and are rude and ignorant of their customers, no customers = no job. Having said that customers should not be rude to staff either, and patience is a virtue when you can clearly see staff are busy. Busy does not mean staff discussing last night or up coming date with Co workers. Being busy is not being rude about customers who have just been in, this does not endear me to you and I WONT SHOP IN YOUR SHOP. Some staff think that their lives are more important than the customers wishes WRONG. Customer focus and customer service should be a watch word. You should know and understand company and consumer policy be professional. Have alternatives to items to discuss understand how your products work together and for god sake smile a welcome, not pushy just friendly. Also be uptodate with competitors and fashion trends.
Don't sell faulty goods in the sale, BIN THEM.
I want to see items, set out in size order ie all 12s together etc and then colour co-ordinated. I don't want to have to wade through a thousand size 10's to find a 14. I want to see some effort to understand how items work together.
Sadly, I was bored by Bluewater this time although I can see the attraction for the many mums with children - especially on either a very hot or rainy day. Large department stores bore me riggid and are predictable.
As a by the by a very interesting article in Times2 supplement on Tuesday 15/08/2006 "The Chain Gang" Secrets of the six men who run the high street" Terry Green at Tesco, Sir Philip Green (BHS) Stephen Sunnucks (GAP) Stuart Rose (M+S) Phil Wrigley (New Look) and Mike Shearwood of Zara. Please Please lets have a female revolution and unseat these money men. I am glad to see that there is a move to inhouse design teams not before time, HOW ABOUT A MOVE BACK TO British makers as well. I also welcome the idea of short style ranges, keep it moving is what I say. There are loads of young desingers out there in the fashion and design schools. INNOVATION. NOT EVERY BODY IS A SIZE 8 OR 10 (who would want to be) Not everybody wants to be Victoria Beckham, Paris Hilton or any such celeb. We are individuals and that is a beautiful thing, lifestyle is what you make it - I don't want other peoples lifestyles I want mine.
Space in shops to move around, good changing facilities, chairs, mirrors even 360 degree ones so I can see my back, good lighting and good quality interested and knowledgable staff. FOCUS FOCUS. Just don't look down your nose at the customer and your sales will grow.
Have a nice day! Granny
Tuesday, August 15, 2006
FOUND IT
IF A CHILD....
If a child lives with criticism,he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility,he learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule,he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with shame,he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with tolerance,he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement,he learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise,he learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness,he learns justice.
If a child lives with security,he learns to have faith.
If a child lives with approval,he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,He learns to find love in the world.
--Author Unknown
If a child lives with criticism,he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility,he learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule,he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with shame,he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with tolerance,he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement,he learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise,he learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness,he learns justice.
If a child lives with security,he learns to have faith.
If a child lives with approval,he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,He learns to find love in the world.
--Author Unknown
IF A CHILD
Today there is a big item on Sky News about Domestic Violence and Children. Having worked in this area for some time, I know children suffer from DV. You should be able to find the following poem on line, I have always used it as my guiding principle when dealing with this issue. It is called 'If a Child' It can be found on greetings cards and pocket prayer cards as well. I have always carried it and if only people took its words to heart, there would be a lot less children out there afraid and alone. As I have said children are not our possessions but they are our responsibility we have a duty of care to all children. Love Granny
Sunday, August 13, 2006
SHORT CUT
Well it had to be done, the big clip - hair cut. Now I look like GI Jane. It was a sensible move, to make it less like a snow storm.
Feeling not to bad today, end of the three day regime of pills which I have taking. My best medicine, is contact via e mail and blog with my brother, e mails from my mate Jackie and the blog I love best especially for the pictures and the fun comments about American life. I love it when people get up local politicians noses so find www.national-joe-a-graphic.blogspot.com/
Am I going mad, did I see the UN resolution demand a cessation to the violence, with a time and date like (tomorrow) and it is now hell for leather to get as much land as possible. Stop the violence NOW and TALK too many people have died already.
The world is not a safe place, never was never will be because vested interests always have too much to say and too little time to listen. It is all about power over people, control of their lives by one ideology, religion or cultural tradition or another, it is about money for the few and nothing for others. We should not be deluded by the speeches and comments of the 'leaders' of nations organisations, terrorist groups or freedom fighters they have their own agendas. That is not to say we should not protect ourselves, quite the contrary we should remain vigilant at all times because ALL our lives depend on it. Religion should not be about what you wear, eat, nor how often you prey it should be about how you care for others, because one day you may need their care and understanding. Two wrongs do not and never have made a right, another well worn saying I like is 'be careful who you tread on on the way up the ladder, you will meet them on the way back down'. There is always a down - always. It is important to learn from history do not use it to justify todays actions and everybody should read all historical versions of one event rather than the package deal that is fed by group 'A' over group 'B' there is always more than one side to the story. We need to understand the whole deal, this cannot be done without all the sides being listened to with equal sensitivity.
The saddest thing is sometimes we cannot even talk to our next door neighbours for fear of alienation sad but true. We breed fear into our children, who carry on our prejudices - children are not our possessions, nor are they objects to be imposed upon they are our future. To kill a child to save a child is stupid and unnecessary. I have found that a smile to any child is responded to with curiosity then a return smile and that is a beautiful thing.
This is my personal ideology, not meant to be impossed just considered. Granny
Feeling not to bad today, end of the three day regime of pills which I have taking. My best medicine, is contact via e mail and blog with my brother, e mails from my mate Jackie and the blog I love best especially for the pictures and the fun comments about American life. I love it when people get up local politicians noses so find www.national-joe-a-graphic.blogspot.com/
Am I going mad, did I see the UN resolution demand a cessation to the violence, with a time and date like (tomorrow) and it is now hell for leather to get as much land as possible. Stop the violence NOW and TALK too many people have died already.
The world is not a safe place, never was never will be because vested interests always have too much to say and too little time to listen. It is all about power over people, control of their lives by one ideology, religion or cultural tradition or another, it is about money for the few and nothing for others. We should not be deluded by the speeches and comments of the 'leaders' of nations organisations, terrorist groups or freedom fighters they have their own agendas. That is not to say we should not protect ourselves, quite the contrary we should remain vigilant at all times because ALL our lives depend on it. Religion should not be about what you wear, eat, nor how often you prey it should be about how you care for others, because one day you may need their care and understanding. Two wrongs do not and never have made a right, another well worn saying I like is 'be careful who you tread on on the way up the ladder, you will meet them on the way back down'. There is always a down - always. It is important to learn from history do not use it to justify todays actions and everybody should read all historical versions of one event rather than the package deal that is fed by group 'A' over group 'B' there is always more than one side to the story. We need to understand the whole deal, this cannot be done without all the sides being listened to with equal sensitivity.
The saddest thing is sometimes we cannot even talk to our next door neighbours for fear of alienation sad but true. We breed fear into our children, who carry on our prejudices - children are not our possessions, nor are they objects to be imposed upon they are our future. To kill a child to save a child is stupid and unnecessary. I have found that a smile to any child is responded to with curiosity then a return smile and that is a beautiful thing.
This is my personal ideology, not meant to be impossed just considered. Granny
Friday, August 11, 2006
2ND CHEMO DONE AND DUSTED
On Wednesady 9th I had my second cycle of chemo, and all went well - no ice cap. Hair loss is increasing but I am not bald yet.
Felt very tired yesterday, today I am lower than I have been. I feel very lonely all of a sudden and I am worried that Mick finds it hard to cope with as well. We talk, but I have 'C' and he finds it hard. Yesterday my good neighbour Jo, sent me a huge bunch of Sun Flowers, how kind and beautiful was that.
I think in many ways it is hard for partners, because I am being treated but mick is not. We are both going to try the aromotheraphy treatment our Macmillian Centre at the Hospital offers. It's free for both of us. A bit of separate relaxation time for us both.
Funny today has been a grey day weather wise as well as in my heart. Never mind there is always tomorrow. Oh by the way, I shall go to the hairdressers tomorrow to be shorn, all this hair falling out is so embarassing, like snow.
Love to all, Granny
Felt very tired yesterday, today I am lower than I have been. I feel very lonely all of a sudden and I am worried that Mick finds it hard to cope with as well. We talk, but I have 'C' and he finds it hard. Yesterday my good neighbour Jo, sent me a huge bunch of Sun Flowers, how kind and beautiful was that.
I think in many ways it is hard for partners, because I am being treated but mick is not. We are both going to try the aromotheraphy treatment our Macmillian Centre at the Hospital offers. It's free for both of us. A bit of separate relaxation time for us both.
Funny today has been a grey day weather wise as well as in my heart. Never mind there is always tomorrow. Oh by the way, I shall go to the hairdressers tomorrow to be shorn, all this hair falling out is so embarassing, like snow.
Love to all, Granny
Sunday, August 06, 2006
GUERLAIN FAN
I was very lucky when I was younger to be introduced to a perfume range that I would continue to love. I have appreciated of course the range and development of perfumes during the last twenty years but I have to say that I remain faithful to the Perfume house of Guerlain and many of the fragrances I have worn at defining moments in my life. I was delighted to see that a whole page in HAPPY the shopping bible for September 2006 devoted to this very company. I wore the oldest of their perfumes when I married in 1975 this was 'Jicky' originally developed in 1889. I have worn Shamlimar, Mitsouko, Chamade and Samsara. I am looking forward to trying out the new fragrance 'Insolence' this seems appropriate at the moment, but I will have to be careful as the chemo may affect my skin and therefore the fragrance.
I do think it is important to note that perfumes change from skin to skin, what may smell great on someone else might not work for others. A neat trick is to purchase the more expensive perfumes in the new trend for smal sample bottles, that way you can try and not break the bank. equally with a few you have a nice choice. I am as good as my word - I have Jasper Conran 'Woman' I also have 'Fendi', 'Very Valentino', 'Flowers' by Kenzo and 'Adorable' by Mango. They also fit very nicely into small clutch bags for the refresh if needed.
My day time fragrance preferance especially for work, is simple Lily of the Valley. For the beach I like Miami Glow by J Lo which makes me think of Pina Colada's (actually I drink Margarittas I am a lime and salt fan) worn in Cuba last year (a political statement or what!!!)
I also love Vivianne Westwood fragrances, very decadant especially 'Boudoir'.
As a secondary point I also believe that body lotions in a particular fragrance are worth getting, the effect is mor subtle and of course the body coverage is good. I love Chamade body lotion.
The magazine HAPPY is worth a read if you like shopping and there is a great section on bags if that is you addiction. I am always looking for the perfect bag, I have yet to find it. In the section called THE WORD FROM THE STREET I was most impressed with Sarah Walter, Head of Fashion Communication for 'New Look' This is a good shop in the High Street and I use it quite a loot. I was happy to see that she liked the new Tartan dress in their range as she says very Vivienne Westwood. Like me Sarah likes ankle shoes ( yes I know I have said I am not a shoe person - but when I am it is ankle shoes) Knitwear, Shoulder bags and the Garbo Look (for me it was her wearing of great trousers) In the same section I liked Gillian Vadgama from (Wallis) and Anita Borzyszowska (from Gap) choices and comments.
There are some great cheapish necklaces about at the moment with many and varied bangles again these are passions of mine, I love the ethnic/South American look.
RECENT PURCHASE. I am a devotee of second hand shops and I recently found a very pretty knee length skirt in white cotton with a delicate floral 1970's design. It has soft pleats from the waist A nicer version than similar that I have seen in the High Street, I will work it with the white and pink muscle back t shirts that I have (in combination) with pink sandals. I refuse to pay the hellish prices in many of the shops and I could not afford a designer lable. The only ones that I have had are a Paul Costello, evening dress, skirt and Jumper purchased through a factory outlet. I always hunt through sales, patience is a virtue in this.
A good tip is to constantly review your wardrobe, I archive items (in bags and store) and bring out stuff already archived to create current looks. I don't waste anything, if however I really don't want an item any more then it goes to the second hand shops. I also pass on stuff to my teenage step-granddaughter. She is very Cool and loves the theater (she attends a drama club) I don't give her tat, if she doesn't like it then the wardrobe department might like to use it.
Time for a break.
Love Granny
I do think it is important to note that perfumes change from skin to skin, what may smell great on someone else might not work for others. A neat trick is to purchase the more expensive perfumes in the new trend for smal sample bottles, that way you can try and not break the bank. equally with a few you have a nice choice. I am as good as my word - I have Jasper Conran 'Woman' I also have 'Fendi', 'Very Valentino', 'Flowers' by Kenzo and 'Adorable' by Mango. They also fit very nicely into small clutch bags for the refresh if needed.
My day time fragrance preferance especially for work, is simple Lily of the Valley. For the beach I like Miami Glow by J Lo which makes me think of Pina Colada's (actually I drink Margarittas I am a lime and salt fan) worn in Cuba last year (a political statement or what!!!)
I also love Vivianne Westwood fragrances, very decadant especially 'Boudoir'.
As a secondary point I also believe that body lotions in a particular fragrance are worth getting, the effect is mor subtle and of course the body coverage is good. I love Chamade body lotion.
The magazine HAPPY is worth a read if you like shopping and there is a great section on bags if that is you addiction. I am always looking for the perfect bag, I have yet to find it. In the section called THE WORD FROM THE STREET I was most impressed with Sarah Walter, Head of Fashion Communication for 'New Look' This is a good shop in the High Street and I use it quite a loot. I was happy to see that she liked the new Tartan dress in their range as she says very Vivienne Westwood. Like me Sarah likes ankle shoes ( yes I know I have said I am not a shoe person - but when I am it is ankle shoes) Knitwear, Shoulder bags and the Garbo Look (for me it was her wearing of great trousers) In the same section I liked Gillian Vadgama from (Wallis) and Anita Borzyszowska (from Gap) choices and comments.
There are some great cheapish necklaces about at the moment with many and varied bangles again these are passions of mine, I love the ethnic/South American look.
RECENT PURCHASE. I am a devotee of second hand shops and I recently found a very pretty knee length skirt in white cotton with a delicate floral 1970's design. It has soft pleats from the waist A nicer version than similar that I have seen in the High Street, I will work it with the white and pink muscle back t shirts that I have (in combination) with pink sandals. I refuse to pay the hellish prices in many of the shops and I could not afford a designer lable. The only ones that I have had are a Paul Costello, evening dress, skirt and Jumper purchased through a factory outlet. I always hunt through sales, patience is a virtue in this.
A good tip is to constantly review your wardrobe, I archive items (in bags and store) and bring out stuff already archived to create current looks. I don't waste anything, if however I really don't want an item any more then it goes to the second hand shops. I also pass on stuff to my teenage step-granddaughter. She is very Cool and loves the theater (she attends a drama club) I don't give her tat, if she doesn't like it then the wardrobe department might like to use it.
Time for a break.
Love Granny
SITUATION UPDATE.
my hair has begun to fall out which has reinforced my decision not to continue with the ice cap treatment. It is not part of the cancer treatment it is about vanity and wanting to keep hair. I may be vain, but hell my hair will grow back and I have always been growing, cuttting and changing the colour of my hair for years. I have been curly and dark, short, blond/purple, red, stripped so what the hell - bald it is. My current colour way for reference is very grey with dark bits, not unlike a badger. My blood count has been low and apparently that shows that the Chemo is working.
I am very pleased to note that the Oncology team for breast cancer (at Queen Marys hospital Sidcup) is mostly staffed by female consultants, led by Dr Rigg. I am comforted by this fact but also proud that the senior posts are women - rock on.
Yesterday I drove to Chigwell - see down but not out - to meet up with my team (work) we had a BBQ and I sat in the sun and watched Dogs and Children running around. My journey was 10 miles and I went over the Thames via the Woolwich Free Ferry which is my favourite way to do this trip.
Let's keep the Woolwich Free Ferry running, imagine the use it will get during the 2012 Olympics.
On the 9th August I have my second chemo so I may not be posting so much following that, depends on my reaction to treatment.
Love Granny
I am very pleased to note that the Oncology team for breast cancer (at Queen Marys hospital Sidcup) is mostly staffed by female consultants, led by Dr Rigg. I am comforted by this fact but also proud that the senior posts are women - rock on.
Yesterday I drove to Chigwell - see down but not out - to meet up with my team (work) we had a BBQ and I sat in the sun and watched Dogs and Children running around. My journey was 10 miles and I went over the Thames via the Woolwich Free Ferry which is my favourite way to do this trip.
Let's keep the Woolwich Free Ferry running, imagine the use it will get during the 2012 Olympics.
On the 9th August I have my second chemo so I may not be posting so much following that, depends on my reaction to treatment.
Love Granny
Friday, August 04, 2006
WALKING IN GRAVEYARDS?
It may seem strange given my current health condition that Mick and I choose to walk in the graveyard at the back of our house.
For us it is a link to the history of the area and a place of quiet reflection. We remember others suffering and pain. Every grave has a story. We meditate and consider our own thoughts.
There are a large number of traditional travelling family (Romany) family graves the Lee's, Smith's and Brazil's to name but three. The graves have a distinctive ornate style and often give many family members details.
There are 68 graves which are defined as war graves, First and Second World War and includes 2 Home Guard. Most particular in interest is the Grave of a RFC officer 2nd Lt John Hardie of the Royal Flying Corps who died age 19 on 05/02/1918 (one of the early few) the grave is not a traditional war grave it is unique and in need of repair.
Our own particular favourite since it is feet from our wall is the grave of Reginal George Fair LOWTHER a Petty Officer Stoker RH who died 23.09.1944. He lies under a small oak tree which is so appropriate given the tradition in the Navy of HEARTS OF OAK.
There is a most important recently restored memorial to the 13 victims of the Slade Green explosion on Monday 18/02/1924 (8.45 - 9am) when 12 young women aged 16 -24 and their foreman died following an explosion that occured while they were 'breaking down' Verey Light cartridges - an extension of war munitions work. It fits so well with my research into the work available to women in the interwar period. See BEXLEY EXTRA 24/02/2006 page 14 for full story.
I will attach some pictures from the location.
Never ignore graveyards, visit them where ever you go to find out about the history of an area and the nature of death and rememberance rituals. Indispensable if researching family history.
Love Granny
For us it is a link to the history of the area and a place of quiet reflection. We remember others suffering and pain. Every grave has a story. We meditate and consider our own thoughts.
There are a large number of traditional travelling family (Romany) family graves the Lee's, Smith's and Brazil's to name but three. The graves have a distinctive ornate style and often give many family members details.
There are 68 graves which are defined as war graves, First and Second World War and includes 2 Home Guard. Most particular in interest is the Grave of a RFC officer 2nd Lt John Hardie of the Royal Flying Corps who died age 19 on 05/02/1918 (one of the early few) the grave is not a traditional war grave it is unique and in need of repair.
Our own particular favourite since it is feet from our wall is the grave of Reginal George Fair LOWTHER a Petty Officer Stoker RH who died 23.09.1944. He lies under a small oak tree which is so appropriate given the tradition in the Navy of HEARTS OF OAK.
There is a most important recently restored memorial to the 13 victims of the Slade Green explosion on Monday 18/02/1924 (8.45 - 9am) when 12 young women aged 16 -24 and their foreman died following an explosion that occured while they were 'breaking down' Verey Light cartridges - an extension of war munitions work. It fits so well with my research into the work available to women in the interwar period. See BEXLEY EXTRA 24/02/2006 page 14 for full story.
I will attach some pictures from the location.
Never ignore graveyards, visit them where ever you go to find out about the history of an area and the nature of death and rememberance rituals. Indispensable if researching family history.
Love Granny
Wednesday, August 02, 2006
IT'S A FASHION THING!
Last year when I was diagnosed with gall stones (Yes it has been that kind of year) I was a size 20 and rather Rubinesque. I learnt that I needed to cut down on my fat intake, so fat was stopped (most of it) I scoured the internet for self help advice and found some good stuff. I also applied the principles of GI not a diet, just sensible healthy eating and it worked. I dropped to a size 14 and lost my huge hips and arse. I got my waist back. Up to that point despite my love of fashion dressing my figure as I wanted to was impossible, I became a sack person. Buying for the larger figure is difficult but it is possible. I did not particular want to just hide my bulk but make the best of it. Fashion - ie the trend to expose tummies, is not quite what I had in mind, it accentuates the rolls of fat rather than enhances for the best, this style makes you look even fatter than you really are.
The secret is to decide what about yourself you like, eyes, hair, shoulders etc and accentuate or flatter these areas. Overwhelming yourself with too much or a mix of colours does not work drab isn't the answer either. Look critically at youself and then use colour swatches to identify the right colour ways for your own colouring, put together some colours in the same tonal range, think warm and cool colours there are lots of sites to help you. If you do not like clothes shopping use the wide range of catalogues and take you time to think and try on (keep or send back) it is easy but does require some personal engagement in the process.
Accesorise of course, but less is more sometimes, co-ordination helps an overrall look.
At the moment, I am probably stuck in a time warp - a basic knee length denim skirt with t-shirt is my prefered day wear. Summer or Winter - bare tanned legs flip flop type shoe or heels (wedge mule) or with thick tights and boots. I also love my short demin jacket day or evening. I am not a big coat person. I belt my skirt with either a sparkly scarf or a bright citrus green. Not everybody likes or can wear the Flip Flop shoe with its toe post, I love them since I basically hate wearing shoes and would rather go bare foot. There are some really beautiful shoes like these around at affordable prices. I love the ethnic leather style, and my basics are black leather. Some can be really very 'Blingy' some now have kitten heels - if you go for this look, please take care of your feet, ugly feet do not look good nor does dry skin.
My biggest problem area is my puffy tummy, still there even after weight loss. Problem is due to lack of tummy excercise and muscle tone and the female bloating thing. My other key item at the moment is the bright skinny long line muscle back vests available in most high street shops, this allows my scar under my arm to be expose, but not too much, to the air to aid healing. It is not to gross I promise you. I tuck tshirt into my demin skirt and it stays in place.
I love the following fashion web site www.fashion-era.com which looks at history of fashion but gives up to date trends.
Please forget the long or short - shorts - ugh
Do look at Linen and Broderie Anglais tops with a nice linen skirt short or long (much better than shorts)
Avoid too many flounces but do not discount. Less is more.
Glad to see that skinnies and leggins are back, look great with a Ra Ra skirt of long line kaftans or jumpers.
I do not see myself as a FASHIONISTA but I am very clear about what I like. I am basically a Boho babe with a smarter sophisticated version for work. I am big into long ethnic skirts. Black is my favourite colour and I like the hour glass figure in the current trends. I am a huge Monsoon and East fan great places for ideas even if I cannot afford to buy regularly. I look in Matalan, Peacocks, Primark and Select for cheaper affordale options. Be selective in these shops, look at material and stiching. If the item only lasts a season, so be it. I do have a number of more expensive items that I have had for years that are go any wear do anything items. An example is a skinny, long ribbed black knitted dress (sleeveless) with a round neck, and side slit. Works for day with the demim jacket and shoes as previous mentioned ( vaired by use of a range of belts and accesories) in the evening with bling (actually pearls look stunning) and perhaps a shawl/scarf addition and higher heels (which makes the legs look fab with that slit)
I am not a bra person, but recently due to the circumstances I have had to sucumb - pretty bras work but all bras must be well fitted, get your self measures properly and find out that all important cup size. I also need to use the crop top soft type bra tops.
Catalogues vary in quality season on season so check them all out, This season I like Littlewoods and La Redoute.
They size well, for example cater for Tall, Reg and Petit in some ranges. THEY DO A REASONABLE SIZE RANGE 8 -26 IN SOME ITEMS.
In Littlewoods I like (Autumn/Winter)
a) page 11 on the Love Label the simple dress at £45 a good purchase as you will get wear out of it .
b) page 14 no 9 the Full Circle Skirt. Cost £35
c) page16 no 1 Maxi Belted Cardigan at £50
d) page 20 no2 Denim Military Jacket £40 LOVE IT
e) page 23 All the items and looks here are good and I would buy for myself.
f) page 33 item 9 SIMPLE EFFECTIVE DRESS to dress up of down. £40
g) page 34 items 4 and 5 Tunic and ruched leggings.
h) page 44 Morgan Jacket and skirt (this would be my chosen work look) expensive at £99 and £55
i) page 49 item 3 knitted dress up to size 16 (I have something similar in black, and I love it with trousers, jeans or leggings) expensive at £80 (French Connection)
j) Great selection of jeans pages 68 -73
k) page 98 Long Line cable cardigan - fantastic front love this look so much.
l) page 123 great cheaper suit look items 6 and 8 I like this and would buy myself. I love the fish tail back hem, I hate plain ordianry suits, you just blend in with the suited men, women need to stand out from the crowd (My philosophy)
m) page 143 Lace insert dress. not bad at £45
n) page 147 N0 8 Dusty Lavender skirt, LOVE IT at £35
o) page 148/9 fantastic Nichoas Millington outfits, love them and up to size 20
p) page 150 A MUST HAVE item 3 a cream beaded shrug. £45
q) page 157 item 7 Amanda Wakeley evening dress fab look and colour is dreamy satin at £89
r) page 159 item 9 another Amanda Wakeley dress for evening fab in chocolate at £89 in gorgette (would look spectacular with the shrug I mentioned)
s) page 162/3 item 3 green satin blouse and 6 and 7 Jacket and trouser teamed together would look great at that all important meeting - with smart good quality leather (black) brief case and smart clean black shoes. Don't over do but try an individual brooch. I have also always worn a breast cancer ribbon when at important meetings.
t) page 175 item 9 a wrape in jade or black, fantastic item for hols goes with skirts, jeans, dress or whatever - probably most useful in black.
u) page 185 not a bad suite for work and £55 and perhaps in lighter shade for summer meetings
A big No No Please No, is the look on page 30, God that blouse is horrendous.
They have some good basics and do stuff for expectant mums.
They have an on line site so you can see what you think of my selection www.littlewoods.com see if you can guess which items I mean!!!!
The Sunday Mail - You, magazine and Sunday Times style magazine are where I check out the trends weekly.
Some good looks in my favourite mags, INSTYLE and GLAMOUR.
I am following the trend, my Mum is known as the Wardrobe Mistress a collector of clothes since the 1940's (yes) you should see her house. She had an article written about her and it says everything about care for clothes before rampant comsumerism. Find it on line - Southern Daily Echo Weekend Magazine Jan 24-30 2004 by Kate Thompson.
Another look you will see me in is very Juliette Greco (who?-look it up)
Black trousers, Black long skinny knit jumper, flat black pointed shoes (leather) and faded 15 year old 3/4 length Black Leather Jacket raglan seleve with many changes of button (must be black) I can do the moody look as well very menacing.
PS I love window shopping at Bluewater (well, WHEN) Fancy a coffee?
Love granny
The secret is to decide what about yourself you like, eyes, hair, shoulders etc and accentuate or flatter these areas. Overwhelming yourself with too much or a mix of colours does not work drab isn't the answer either. Look critically at youself and then use colour swatches to identify the right colour ways for your own colouring, put together some colours in the same tonal range, think warm and cool colours there are lots of sites to help you. If you do not like clothes shopping use the wide range of catalogues and take you time to think and try on (keep or send back) it is easy but does require some personal engagement in the process.
Accesorise of course, but less is more sometimes, co-ordination helps an overrall look.
My current fashion notes are as follows.
At the moment, I am probably stuck in a time warp - a basic knee length denim skirt with t-shirt is my prefered day wear. Summer or Winter - bare tanned legs flip flop type shoe or heels (wedge mule) or with thick tights and boots. I also love my short demin jacket day or evening. I am not a big coat person. I belt my skirt with either a sparkly scarf or a bright citrus green. Not everybody likes or can wear the Flip Flop shoe with its toe post, I love them since I basically hate wearing shoes and would rather go bare foot. There are some really beautiful shoes like these around at affordable prices. I love the ethnic leather style, and my basics are black leather. Some can be really very 'Blingy' some now have kitten heels - if you go for this look, please take care of your feet, ugly feet do not look good nor does dry skin.
My biggest problem area is my puffy tummy, still there even after weight loss. Problem is due to lack of tummy excercise and muscle tone and the female bloating thing. My other key item at the moment is the bright skinny long line muscle back vests available in most high street shops, this allows my scar under my arm to be expose, but not too much, to the air to aid healing. It is not to gross I promise you. I tuck tshirt into my demin skirt and it stays in place.
I love the following fashion web site www.fashion-era.com which looks at history of fashion but gives up to date trends.
Please forget the long or short - shorts - ugh
Do look at Linen and Broderie Anglais tops with a nice linen skirt short or long (much better than shorts)
Avoid too many flounces but do not discount. Less is more.
Glad to see that skinnies and leggins are back, look great with a Ra Ra skirt of long line kaftans or jumpers.
I do not see myself as a FASHIONISTA but I am very clear about what I like. I am basically a Boho babe with a smarter sophisticated version for work. I am big into long ethnic skirts. Black is my favourite colour and I like the hour glass figure in the current trends. I am a huge Monsoon and East fan great places for ideas even if I cannot afford to buy regularly. I look in Matalan, Peacocks, Primark and Select for cheaper affordale options. Be selective in these shops, look at material and stiching. If the item only lasts a season, so be it. I do have a number of more expensive items that I have had for years that are go any wear do anything items. An example is a skinny, long ribbed black knitted dress (sleeveless) with a round neck, and side slit. Works for day with the demim jacket and shoes as previous mentioned ( vaired by use of a range of belts and accesories) in the evening with bling (actually pearls look stunning) and perhaps a shawl/scarf addition and higher heels (which makes the legs look fab with that slit)
I am not a bra person, but recently due to the circumstances I have had to sucumb - pretty bras work but all bras must be well fitted, get your self measures properly and find out that all important cup size. I also need to use the crop top soft type bra tops.
Catalogues vary in quality season on season so check them all out, This season I like Littlewoods and La Redoute.
They size well, for example cater for Tall, Reg and Petit in some ranges. THEY DO A REASONABLE SIZE RANGE 8 -26 IN SOME ITEMS.
In Littlewoods I like (Autumn/Winter)
a) page 11 on the Love Label the simple dress at £45 a good purchase as you will get wear out of it .
b) page 14 no 9 the Full Circle Skirt. Cost £35
c) page16 no 1 Maxi Belted Cardigan at £50
d) page 20 no2 Denim Military Jacket £40 LOVE IT
e) page 23 All the items and looks here are good and I would buy for myself.
f) page 33 item 9 SIMPLE EFFECTIVE DRESS to dress up of down. £40
g) page 34 items 4 and 5 Tunic and ruched leggings.
h) page 44 Morgan Jacket and skirt (this would be my chosen work look) expensive at £99 and £55
i) page 49 item 3 knitted dress up to size 16 (I have something similar in black, and I love it with trousers, jeans or leggings) expensive at £80 (French Connection)
j) Great selection of jeans pages 68 -73
k) page 98 Long Line cable cardigan - fantastic front love this look so much.
l) page 123 great cheaper suit look items 6 and 8 I like this and would buy myself. I love the fish tail back hem, I hate plain ordianry suits, you just blend in with the suited men, women need to stand out from the crowd (My philosophy)
m) page 143 Lace insert dress. not bad at £45
n) page 147 N0 8 Dusty Lavender skirt, LOVE IT at £35
o) page 148/9 fantastic Nichoas Millington outfits, love them and up to size 20
p) page 150 A MUST HAVE item 3 a cream beaded shrug. £45
q) page 157 item 7 Amanda Wakeley evening dress fab look and colour is dreamy satin at £89
r) page 159 item 9 another Amanda Wakeley dress for evening fab in chocolate at £89 in gorgette (would look spectacular with the shrug I mentioned)
s) page 162/3 item 3 green satin blouse and 6 and 7 Jacket and trouser teamed together would look great at that all important meeting - with smart good quality leather (black) brief case and smart clean black shoes. Don't over do but try an individual brooch. I have also always worn a breast cancer ribbon when at important meetings.
t) page 175 item 9 a wrape in jade or black, fantastic item for hols goes with skirts, jeans, dress or whatever - probably most useful in black.
u) page 185 not a bad suite for work and £55 and perhaps in lighter shade for summer meetings
A big No No Please No, is the look on page 30, God that blouse is horrendous.
They have some good basics and do stuff for expectant mums.
They have an on line site so you can see what you think of my selection www.littlewoods.com see if you can guess which items I mean!!!!
The Sunday Mail - You, magazine and Sunday Times style magazine are where I check out the trends weekly.
Some good looks in my favourite mags, INSTYLE and GLAMOUR.
I am following the trend, my Mum is known as the Wardrobe Mistress a collector of clothes since the 1940's (yes) you should see her house. She had an article written about her and it says everything about care for clothes before rampant comsumerism. Find it on line - Southern Daily Echo Weekend Magazine Jan 24-30 2004 by Kate Thompson.
Another look you will see me in is very Juliette Greco (who?-look it up)
Black trousers, Black long skinny knit jumper, flat black pointed shoes (leather) and faded 15 year old 3/4 length Black Leather Jacket raglan seleve with many changes of button (must be black) I can do the moody look as well very menacing.
PS I love window shopping at Bluewater (well, WHEN) Fancy a coffee?
Love granny
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