This young lady was feared abducted by her father and taken to Parkistan. This appears not to be the case. I feel sorry for the mother, who seems very disturbed. I do not think it was wise to follow the route she took in moving her daughter to such a remote place where she would clearly feel isolated. There is clearly much that has happened between Mother and Father but they have several children and this must be their first priority not their own animosity. The older children where in a position to make a choice. But what choice did the father give the mother was she made to conform against her will which has led to this situation.
Molly does not appear to have been happy, or at least she was trying to be for her mother sake. This is not her responsibility, her mother must not draw her daughter into her own depression. You know that I do not agree with the way women are treated in relation to forced marriages at any age, but perhaps this is not going to happen in this case. I do feel Molly should be listened to and that both Mum and Dad should make this possible so Molly can have a relationship with her all members of her family. But she is not and I repeat not their property. No pressure should be brought to bear on her, she must be handled with care and love. The one thing I have concern for is that being forced to live in one place or another against her will could lead to a lifetime of distress even if her parents think one or the other cultural background is at fault. No one should impose their will on a child.
Molly has to be bridge between two cultures, a thing that an increasing number of children are required to do, not easy when you love both your parents. Divorce and seperation are bad enough for any child but this bridge is one often too hard to cross.
Love to Molly, form Granny
