MUSIC TO LIFT THE SOUL

I really recommend Seal's new Album. Called Seal (Soul) it is brilliant, it is huge and I have loved his music from the begining. If you have any cash to spend for an extra treat yourself. Love Granny

THE NIGHTMARE BEGINS

If we are not careful the biggest financial world disaster ever that we are going through will spiral into massive disorder. The signs are there already, strikes and violence across the world. We have to stand together to get through it. I pray for us all. Love Granny xx

RHYDIAN

I am unashamedly sentimental. I want to offer a review in that vein. If you saw the X factor when Rhydian Roberts was the runner up...I felt then a sense of injustice for him. I have waited for his album to come out. It is outstanding and I feel that he shows wide power of voice and diction. He can do the big sounds and the soft sounds. He sings some of my very favourite songs, I purchased it today and immediately played 'Impossible Dream' which stands high on my list. I believe in the concept of striving for the best you can be, appropriate for today 20th January 2009 - and hope, optimism, duty, sacrifice and service.

LISTEN TO THE ALBUM WITH AN OPEN MIND AND BE LIFTED UP. love Granny xxx

TO DAY IS THE DAY

Barack Obama will become President of America and I pray for him and his family. To Hope. Love Granny xxx

ANNE FRANK

This last week there has been a fantastic BBC drama based on the Diary of Anne Frank. This was a superb production, with fantastic acting. I have always been a 'believer' of this story. So I wonder even more why the Isrealis do not see the behaviour they are replicating is what the Jews went through in the 1930's. I noted one particularly resonant line in this production which says it all really Anne writes "We wait for the allies to rescue us but all we get are bombs" so speaks a child across the decades. Following the last episode there was a playing of the documentary 'Anne Frank Remembered' again a programme worth watching in itself. How do you live in a society where so much is that is about you is banned.

Yes I know that the Hamas have been lobing bombs and that should be challenged and Yes Hamas are using the people as a human sheild. Why can't anybody see that to defeat these types of people you resist yes but show them up for what they are 'dastardly' and show yourselves to be better than them. Ostracise politically mindless thugs, dont kill the innocent. Love Granny

THE COLD WAR

Forgive me from being cynical but with Russia once again turning off the 'Gas' to Ukraine could it be a huge coincidence that those most affected are ex soviet block states? A new 'Cold War' by any other name. I cannot think of a more cynical time, less than subtle, than at this time of year to complain about non payment of bills, when it is at its coldest.

None of the current world situations (other than the financial one) seem to be playing up to the up coming new US president.

I have been having serious debates and arguments with people about the Isreali and Gaza situation. I have always been strongly anti Nazi and so have read extensively about the rise of the Isreali state. I have argued many times that the Jews had a right to a state. In those arguements others always pointed out the terrorist activity of the Jews against Britain in Isreal (ie King David Hotel) and that many of the early political leaders had been terrorists. Indeed they were and I knew this because these were the books I had read. I say now as I say then one man's 'Freedom Fighter' is another mans 'Terrorist'.

If, as appears clear, people knew about these cross border tunnels from Eqypt - why didn't anybody fill them with cement, does not matter howmany times you have to do it, if you have to refill them constantly the enemy has to either re dig or relocate - keeping them engaged and off balance, they will get bored. Then if these rockets are as primative as they are said to be keep coming, why not deploy anti missile sites along that area and take them out before they reach their target! that is self-defence.

There - absolutely - has to be a way for two soverign states to exist in a difficult physical and finanical environment side by side to the benefit of both their peoples. Moderates must stand up against the radicals on both sides. Children are being killed which is unacceptable because the children are the future for both. Those young that will survive are now going to be radicalised - even more dangerous than before given the power of the internet in passing on information. If the Isrealis had been canny they could have long ago won the war against terror by being modern, forward thinking and engaging in new inivative ideas that soften up the enemy a bit like a laxitive you need to effectively expel them and this is done by isolating them from their potential support... To achieve the aims of peaceful statehood both sides have to stop sitting on the past and religious attitudes as justification for their actions - break the cycle by creating a new tradition, that is real selfdefence. I use the term 'Bullies' for both Isreal and Hamas.


Religion in my view is not necessarily a force for peace, the intolerance shown by various religions for others or even within their own institutions often leads (has often led) to conflict. Just look at the Orthadox Christians having a punch up over who does what in the holiest of Christian sites in the Holy Land - really it was handbags at dawn, silly rediculous behaviour from people who should know better. How can suicide bombers ever be held in esteem by religious leaders? Clearly good things have been done but these should never happen just to recruit new converts. Charity should have no religion nor should it be used to say one group is better than another.

I have just been very shocked by a TV programme 'Paul Mertons China' don;t get me wrong great programme. But please tell me that is wrong,as I see here, that families go to China to adopte abandoned female children. Frankly I was shocked that one family had a grown up family and now wanted to 'fill the nest'. Yes, of course there are elements of being able to give a better chance but at what cost. One woman said, she will be my child - an American child - while another women said of course you cannot hide different ethnic backgrounds so it is important that you introduce your child to their birth country. Clearly this separation of approach is not a good thing. Having said that I would have taken every child myself, mostly female given the one child policy and the desire for that one child to be male - what was I saying about bullies? My husband would say that I have entirely emotional responses, well yes indeed. Really adoption tourrism!!!!!

Actually I have never had a child of my own, much as I would have loved to, it was not to be my fate. I believe that it is not my right to demand as a woman that I be allowed to have to have a child, by any means. Children are bought into the world by many who show little thought as to how their child will grow up. Down I beleive to indivduals poor birth control and very often simply not saying NO. I believe that we have to help these children not just by adoption but by reorganising society. I have helped my husband with his three children and I now enjoy being a step grandmother to five. I think there is a role for surrogate grandmothers - being able to offer their love, advice and time. With an ageing population there will be plenty of candidates. Children are our responsibility not our property. They should not be for sale. Love Granny xxxx

DREAMING OF SUMMER

You will have noted that I have posted some pictures of Skopelos taken in 2007, it is to try and send friends and readers a bit of sunshine. They show clearly why we like this Greek Island imagine sitting and having a coffee and letting the world pass you by. I am looking to project some positivity.

In my very cold garden today, there were 7 pigeons, a blackbird, a squirrel all challenging for the food put out. They always lift my spirits. Love Granny xxxx

MORE PHOTOS OF SKOPELOS 2007

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!

I am probably going to step on some toes with this post. I am really tired of listening to the Israeli spokespersons who rabbit on about 'self defence' in their current action. The situation is unacceptable in the new world.

I do realise that the rockets into Israel from Gaza are wrong, but two wrongs do not make a right. Air strikes on such a scale over such a long period are totally disportionate and I believe that the 'Blockade of the Gaza' should be lifted. This is a self fulfilling prophecy and creates a cycle, the young people who are living through this bombardment will be radicalised and Hamas will benefit. The alternative is stronger than bombs, currently the Israeli actions are proving Hamas's point written in their charter. The Hamas are saying - see we told you so.

I do believe that Hamas are wrong but I do also think that when Israel remembers the Holocaust as a time when they were targeted, ghettoised, subject to attack because of their religion or perceived influence perhaps they will understand they are doing the same thing. They are doing the job of radicalising the young Arabs better than Hamas, they have put the militants in the Gaza area as the victims and themselves as aggressor in the eyes of some of the world.

History tells us what has happened in the past, it shows us the mistakes, it gives us a key to the future -just why is nobody listening. The children on both sides do not deserve this.

Granny sends her love to all people across the world what ever their religion. xx

PICTURES THAT I LOVE

THE WRITE STUFF

Christmas has passed, for us as hoped, with our boys visiting and a quiet traditional meal. Presents openned and appreciated - a little booze and laughter.

My heart was sad for the British soldier who died in action on Christmas Eve, no happy Christmas for his poor family. I send them my prayers. My other saddness was for the loss of Harold Pinter and Eartha Kitt. I admired them both and always visioned myself the white and very English Eartha, all purring and leapoard skin....but more importantly her individualtiy, style and politics. She always kept faith with herself and that is all any of us can do. She really was Christmas, with 'Santa Baby' the great song. They were both anti war and spoke their minds and that is right also.

Two more people died in this country from guns a father and a young girl...shame on the people who carry guns. In America, a man who thought it was ok to dress as Santa and slaughter his ex family.....no no no no.

I also pray for the very lovely and brave Hannah Jones, the wisest of children who made up her mind not have more treatment for her myeloid leukaemia and to enjoy what life she had. She is wise and well older than her 13 years, but she had her Christmas She said " I knew it had been the best Christmas" Hear Hear.

On another bright note there were the dancing seals and the white deer in the New Forest. The robins were in my garden today and that filled my heart with joy. I watched again South Pacific, and loved it all over again - of course the only song for me is 'Some enchanted evening' am I a silly old romantic - you bet brother. Then of course there was the film 'Big' with my hero Tom Hanks at his best. I also love the Burbs and The Money Pit - films to relax with.

Mick gave me a perfect gift, my favourite perfume, Secret Obsession which I find so evocative. It is me, and I love it so. On instinct I gave a special gift...to my dear step grandaughter Rachel... I have seen her act recently in a play called 'A woman in Mind' which she directed and in which she stared I was mesmorised by her talent. She is 18 this year, she wants to go to uni to study philosophy so naturally I gave her a book on the subject to give her a heads up. Then as we discussed her recent purchase on ebay, the perfect pair of shoes (Italian of course) I then was inspired, My most treasured possession the 1920's dress I wore when I was in the Shaw play 'Overruled' orignal and beautifully handmade.. who better a person to take it into their care, someone who could bring it to life as it should be. 'Born Free, free as the roaring tide' This is her time - check out the Zebra ( a steal from Madacasgar)

The old boy is in an afternoon snooze mode and I am watching Madacasgar. 'And me skipper? I want you to look cute and cuddly' gosh the diologue is sensational - wacked out!!!!!!!!

Lets all pray for this year, perhaps listening to Rowan Williams may help....lets pray people won't lose their homes, their jobs their lives. My faith is firmly placed in the new American President (elect) Barack Obama who took time to scatter his grandmothers ashes, as he had taken time to see her before she died. He has a diverse family background and maybe that is the secret.

I have made a New Years resolution - I will make a difference. I love you all HAPPY NEW YEAR. Granny xxxx

LITTLE DORRIT

There is no greater acting and production than that for the BBC programme LITLLE DORRIT. Three cheers. Lots of performances here for BAFTA awards and the like. It is a parable of our time. Love Granny

MORE CHAT

Putting on my fashion hat, last week with my grandson I visited Bluewater for the first time in ages. I was surprised to find it busy but not packed. I was impressed by Urban Outfitters set up but not the cost of the clothes there. It does have an original edge so I would look there for inspiration. I especially like the coloured opaque tights which I think look fab with decent black or demin shorts. I love patterned or lace tights. There was a neat 'stall' in the walk area that sold some stunning tights. I believe that clever use of tights, belts, wraps and other accessories can make an old outfit sharper.

I was disappointed with the Santa Grotto. Could have reflected the weather, which was pooring with rain and it is sited outside. There is also an Ice Rink, Fun Fair and Christmas market.

I have discovered why Bluewater is popular for Mums and Children - it's inside, silly me. But it still not clear that the shops access has really caught on.

I still advise people to read 'You' in the Mail on Sunday, my favourite magazine for about everything.

I am a huge fan of Gok Wan.


On a more serious note, YES YES YES Barack Obama won the US election..he is not going to have a secure financial situation to manage and it will be very difficult. I have huge concerns for his and his families safety. There is a disturbing number of white supremisist however loose as a group that will need to be watched very carefully. People should be judged on their character not their skin as Dr Martin Luther King Jnr so rightly said. And believe me I am judging these individuals on their character which is both flawed and murderous.

Love Granny

DON'T BUY DOLPHIN SHOWERS.

My parents - in - law were persuaded to purchase an easy access shower system from Dolphin at a cost of £5,000. The work is at best described as botched and at worst ......... judge for yourself. The 'contracted' installer was useless, he managed to put in a new water pipe, tile over it then drill into the pipe it causing a flood not only in my inlaws bathroom but in the bathroom down stairs causing major damage. When the 'supervisors' attended to look at the situation - it was discovered the contractor had not even sealed in the unit either, leaving saying the job was done and safe. My husband advised his parents not to pay the final £500+ and wrote to Dolphin that he had done this. He told Dolphin not to bother his elderly and unwell parents but to deal with him....as yet only a single acknowledgement has been received, but the original instructions in his letter were ignored. The company have dragged their feet over the neighbours claim for damages caused by their worker and AS YET IT REMAINS UNRESOLVED. This has been going on for weeks..... the FINAL cheek has been that Dolphin wrote last week to my inlaws 'demanding' the final payment.

WOULD YOU PAY £5,000 FOR THIS indeed my pictures do not tell the whole story - it is so much worse, the original bathroom in terms of size is small. Yes there was a limited amount of tiling done, but my elderly parents-in-law, instead of waiting for their son and grandson to assist, painted the room themselves. I am sorry BUT if you are paying £5,000 for any work there has to be a competent installation with a professional finish. Dolphin have proved themselves as falling short.

MY ADVICE SHOP AROUND, LOOK AT EXAMPLES OF THE WORK DONE PREVIOUSLY, TAKE RECOMMENDATION AND DON'T BE CHATTED UP BY SALES PEOPLE FROM 'NATIONALLY RENOWNED' COMPANIES.

Love Granny

SOME MORE OF GRANNY AND FAMILY

MORE TO SAY

I have always got a lot to say for myself and about the world.

Firstly adding to previous comments, I am horrified that the world finds itself in a dire position. Our leaders are still posturing - just get on with it otherwise there is no future for the worlds children.

Too many soldiers are dying in an unnecessary war. The recent period of rememberance really should have awoken up those in power, but of course it won't. To much money in arms sales!!!!!

Much has been said about the case of Baby P and if you have read my blog you will no doubt guess my views. This is probably the most dreadful of cases but let me tell you there are more cases out there. Just days after the news hit the media - two young children are stabbed to death by their mother.

I absolutely believe in accountability, checks and balances when taking children into care, but I do not hold to the dangerous theory that all children are best with their birth parents. 'Institutional Care' is also a difficult thing to manage I accept that, but because it is hard does not mean it should be written off, think quality. It does not mean huge unwhealdy institutions. Our problem has been to make a huge leap from 'something in place' to 'nothing in place'. I also know that you cannot take a child into emergency care unless you have people in the community who will act as short term emergency foster care. I actually believe that the 'experts' who have developed child development theories have a lot to answer for, because they have blinded people in the child care arena to common sense.

Children are our responsibility (to bring up safe and well) but not our property - the parents who maime and kill their children are selfish, selfcentre individuals, perhaps they do have their own issues but they need to be dealt with seperately from their role as parent. The people who take on the role of social interventionist need to make this clear distinction.

IT IS TIME TO STAND UP FOR CHILDREN AT RISK.

Love Granny

NEARLY THERE

Mick and I spent a great holiday in Turkey, but I do not recommend Marmaris to the elderly or faint hearted....It is blackpool on steroids.

We shall go again to Turkey in June. This is of course always assuming the credit crunch/global recession does not prevent us. I like the sun in Turkey - I was very brave and went topless and given my somewhat misshapen 'breast' I felt comfortable and relaxed.

The consultant oncologist tells me I don't have to see her again until 2011 -wow- I still keep my fingers crossed that the cancer does not spread.

I have to say that my shopping trips have really only been local and cheap. I haven't been to Bluewater for ages. I like the current trends and have raided my wardrobe and storage to revitalise them to bring them on trend. A little tartan in terms of belts and wraps. I have changed my hair making use of a dark blond to hide the grey rather than dark brown.

Grey and Black are my seasons colours, with dashes of colour to lift it. Add to this my one seasons big purchase a leopard print wrap cardigan with a pin catch to hold it together. It cost £24 and I think it is good value. I shall wear it with my long black wool dress, with black trousers, jeans and denim skirts.

I am sexing up a red lace dress with a red tights, red shoes, red earrings/bracelet, red handbags (I have two) - so it could be a 'redout'. Currently looking for a red belt that works. I am sexing up a gold dress which is a shift type in a jacquard fabric (sleeveless) same process - gold tights or worn with tanned legs, gold shoes (mules) gold belt (there must be the right one out there) Gold wrap.

Just got no where to go to wear these ideas. Purchased a nice large red slouch bag for £2.50 in Matalan - and a double brill humungas white linen bag in a Next sale for £7 and a long white linen skirt for the summer at £8 - not bad eh.

Continuing to watch my weight, my hips have all but disappeared - so hipsters are out.

The new must have for me is 'Secret Obsession' by Calvin Klein, it is just sumptious. Perhaps I will get lucky for Christmas. But I have spotted it for sale
at Debenhams in a set for £40 including 50ml eau de parfume and 100ml body lotion. Sounds good to me. I actually prefer body lotion for a subtle coverage.

Moving on lets hope Obama beats McCain and Palin. The world is in a scary place just now. What the hell are the banks playing at...and for god sake lets draw a line under the power plays of ministers, worthies, Rich chinless wonders who have inherited their dosh and oligarchs playing in secret. 'bout' time they paid up, building their wealth on the backs of the working class and third world societies. Bin them - get rid of them cut their power. I feel no sadness in the plight of high paid bankers and share players who have lost their jobs....should have gone to spec savers.


I am saying a pray for little 'Amy' murdered by her father thank god he was convicted.

I AM NEARLY THERE - RETIREMENT NEXT YEAR.


Love to all from Granny

NATURE WONDER

On Monday I had a shock, I looked out into my garden and noticed on the roof of my neighbours shed a Blackbird, spread eagled wings out. I had never seen anything like it and became concerned that it had been 'Catd'. I went to use Mick's new camera to capture an image, and did then the bird moved I snapped again and then off it went. It had been warming itself, sunbathing if you like. My Mum says she has seen this before, but I never have even heard about it.

Yesterday and today Mick and I have been woken by an unsual bird noise. When we checked it out there on the front public garden area were two Woodpeckers. One appeared to be adult the other juvenile. They were in a feeding frenzie and had found a ready source in the cracks of the pavement slabs for which their slim long beaks are perfectly adapted. The early bird catches the worm, is an old saying but these two were the thinking early birds. I saw the adult also feed the juvenile. They walked!!!! all over the area and up our front path. Another adult set up an alarm when Smudge the cat wondered up to have a look and the two flew into the Silver Birch doing the Woodpecker thing of hanging on the bark. On the first day I saw the two WP's a Blackbird and a Thrush. Today the two WP's a Blackbird, a Wren and a Squirrel, all from my bedroom window what more can I ask. Love Granny

MUCH TO SAY

Child deaths, children killing children and a moral panic about knives. Historically speaking young people have been demonised and blamed for crime, and the gang thing is not new. How short are our memories, Teddy Boys, Mods and Rockers, skinheads etc etc indeed the changes in our law's over the years reflect this. I do agree that there is a 'problem' but I do think society gets what it demands, freedom from state intervention one of the results of this is what we have now. Poor schooling, poor policing not because the teachers and officers want to step back society demands it. So there needs to be a debate about what society needs in order to function without fear. Freedom of life styles and behaviour or rules of behaviour. Look at the interviews with some parents who have abdicated responsibility for preparing young people for life and work. I am fed up with hearing 'I can't keep an eye on them 24 hours a day' excuse from parents. I do however believe that children are not property to be owned any more than a woman is the property of a man, I do believe that parents have responsibility from conception to the point when a child becomes and adult. If they don't want this responsibility then don't have the child.

Six young people died in a terrible car accident with a lorry, anybody with any sense looking at the scene from the air, can see why this accident happened and it was not the lorry drivers fault. What do we hear that the parent of one victim blames the police for seizing the uninsured vehicle driven and used by 4 of them he said that if the police had not abandoned the young people to make their way home they would not be dead. It was the drivers choice to break the law on insurance (and carry passengers) and then to phone the driver of the crash vehicle to come and get them and not the parents who might have helped. Six people in a Mondeo are too many all of this was the choice of the six and reflects their inexperience. I repeat the underused 'R' word responsibility.


The financial situation in the world is entirely a reflection of the greed of the elites of the world wanting more and more and for big and small corporations trying to make a fast buck. This has meant that the developing industrial countries have raced to meet this demand with out measured and considered growth. It is of course the 'anyperson' who will suffer but the money bags of whom there are only a few (the Mr/Mrs Bigs) and who control the global corporations will sit nicely to pick up the pieces.


Congestion, the easy way to express this is DRIVE according to the rules, don't block roundabouts and other junctions, don't push out, push in. Bus drivers are very guilty of this when a bus across a road with frankly no where to go cause additional congestion to the one they see around them.


My views on China are well known, however following the earthquake I have had the people in my heart, and for once a large army has paid dividends. The Panda's also are in my thoughts, thank god some people have been in a position to spare their time for them. Again my heart has been with the children orphand by the quake. How different were my thoughts for the cyclone victims so badly let down by their govenment.

What can I say about Mugabe, disgusting example of dictatorship and how democracy can be used to hold people down. But hey arn't the 'EU' also treating the Irish referendum vote with contempt, have a vote and keep to it. Love Granny