WELL DONE JENSON

When he thought he would lose his drive, he was dignified. Today he won the Australian Grand Prix, with Brawn GP. WELL DONE. Granny xx

NO MADONNA

It is an outrage that a woman, with more money than sense, is seeking to 'adopte' another child. I take the view that this is for her personal gratification rather real concern for a poor child from Africa. She wants people to think she is some kind of saint, but worse she surrounds herself with individuals she can control - if they don't play ball she dumps them. Poor little Mercy, having to live with such an egotist. It is also very patronising of her to think she is some how special and right. I find it distasteful racism, I think of the British Empire trying to save 'poor black children'. Listen to the wise words of SAVE THE CHILDREN FUND. Don't let children become the new fashion accessory.

When 'star's do this kind of thing historically there are problems, does any body remember 'Mummy Dearest' about Joan Crawford's adopted children and their reality.

Granny x

PETER KILFOYLE

I saw Peter Kilfoyle MP on Hard Talk last night, a Jimmy Tarbuck look alike, but so wise. I normally turn off the Hard Talk programme but this time I did not. Granny

THE HOME I LOVE

These are pictures of my home, I love my home - it is small and congested but it is where I feel comfortable. We had lived here for 20 years.

I do not care that my house is full 'things' mostly books and clothes ( all saved and stored and reused) I do not care if the house is chaotic and disorder, because it is where I love to be.

The daffodils are a reflection of my philosophy of life and shine a natural sun into my home.

I love my horse lamp purchased some 10 years ago, I never buy expensive items as a rule of thumb but this was my impulse purchase, I fell in love with it. It is the only thing I own which I view as a legacy item.

I so love my home - it is where I got better after cancer and it is where my step children were welcomed - indeed it was purchased with them in mind.

Let us pray for those who are less fortunate than this. Love Granny xx

WENDY RICHARD

Wendy fought the battle of breast cancer for the longest time. She died and was buried before the programme about the last period of cancer was transmitted. What a beautiful programme, I was with her when she had her chemo, I remembered that was how it was. Her husband was simply amazing, and so dignified and full of love. God Bless them both.

If the last three stories have moved you, let them open the debate about death. Most particularly how we deal with it and how we tell children about the process and result. Should we be honest or sugar coat it?


Let us not forget baby OT who died when medication was withdrawn despite the legal battle of their parents. He was nine months old, he was dead by all measure, supported by our machines...he died quickly once it was with drawn so I believe the decision to be correct. But I do not give blanket understanding. We should neither kill nor allow to live for the reasons of financial expedience nor for self centred need. I wonder how many parents fight for their own comfort as for their child. Each decision should be individual....based on scientific fact with a heavy amount of common sense, faith and love.


Granny xx

NATASHA RICHARDSON

Another mother who died this past week, but suddenly. A small insignificant fall apparently led to brain trauma, and death. She has two sons who miss her so much on this special days for mothers. Being rich, sucessful and lauded does not mean you are immune from the end that is death.

I send my prayers to the boys, Liam, Vanessa and Joely and hope that their memories of Natasha sustain them in the dark days ahead.

Granny

THE TIME HAS COME

In the quiet of night, with no camaras around poor Jade took her last breath, at peace while asleep. The God she came to late in her life has enfolded her, he allows forgiveness of all sins and she is lifted to the light. The pain is gone for her, for her family it begins. How can her boy's enjoy another mother's day? Their father must love them for both, to make them grow strong as she intended. It would be easy for the weaker members of her family to wallow.

No one could call her the brightest tool in the box, but now she is a bright star in heaven, with God's blessing she can look down with love upon her son's.

Let us pray for all those who are dying in pain.

Granny

HISTORCIAL RESEARCH

I am looking for the following people's family. This is for Historical research only.

STANLEY
SophiaAnnie Stanley, aka Croll Dalgairns
David Croll Dalgairns
Annie Maygood
Theodora Christine Stanley aka Jarvis aka Mallik
Henry Johnson Stanley
Alexander Angus Croll


PETO
Morton K Peto
Samuel M Peto
Sarah Peto
Dorothy Olivia Georgiana Peto

Please contact via this Blog, provide intial details and contact e mail.

Granny

BACCHUS, LULU AND I (I AM A CAT PERSON ALSO)

MAX

MERLOT ON FOX WATCH

SUNNY 1977

CINDY AND MERLOT

CINDY SUGAR SWEET

BACCHUS, CINDY AND I

BACCHUS AND I WHEN HE WAS A PUPPY

MARLEY AND ME

My very good friend Kelly lent me her copy of the book Marley and Me to read on the train. The train is my nemisis, I sit there on both journeys listening unwittingly to the lives and loves of my fellow passengers.....to my endless boredom. So I started to read and the journey flew by and I had a smile on my face. In fact I had to struggle not to laugh out loud. This book is easy to read and yet there underlying stress and strain of life. I would also warn you that you should not read the last chapters (you will know the ones) anywhere near a train full of people. I visioned in my mind all the characters. It is for that reason I do not suggest you watch the 'Hollywood' interpretation out now...it cannot ever match the sheer joy of reading the book. I love reading I have books all over my house, they give me the power to think.

I am a dog person, and state here that if it had not been for Merlot my staffy-whippet cross I would have been lonely. She gives us unconditional love if only people were as reliable.

Granny xx

OUR FRACTURED WORLD

America and Germany, shooting sprees kill dozen's - ban all guns in private hands now.

Northern Ireland wobbles under more stupid acts of violence - peace is a real threat to men of violence, stupid idotic biggots and power hungry maniacs, but basically criminals - to take life is a crime however you justify it. Hoody's are stupid idiots, who have no values, no sense of right .... or wrong where ever they come from - ignorant and unemployable....ripe for fascist and anarchist conversion.

Granny xx

JADE GOODY

Today, Jade will be Christened with her two sons'. It is clear she wants them to have a life and life style that she was not able have, not a fault of hers but her parents. She is trying to break the cycle. I am glad she has the sense to see that the boys' father is a stable influence. Of Jack Tweed I think little, I think he and his life answer any and all questions. Jade and Jack have declared their love and that is fine, but let Jack have a minimal involvement in the boys life...let them develop and reflect their mothers desire for a 'better life opportunity' for them not one based soley on 'celebrity'.

As I have said before I pray for her, for her boys. No one should die in such a desperate way. Of course we all die, but this poor woman knows the reality of dying in such a way that most of us will never know. Those who are rude about her should consider 'There but for the grace of God, go they'

Granny xxxx

SUSAN TSUANGIRAI

How sad is the news of a terrible car crash that robbed Susan Tsuangirai of her life. My thoughts are with her children and husband Morgan. A real marriage brought to an end by tragedy after so much suffering. For the first time I have seen anything resembling humanity from President Mugabi, and the poor Prime Ministers tears were heart breaking.

Granny.

BEXLEYHEATH

I never go to Bexleyheath to shop because I hate it, it is a pit. It is a boring place to shop and generally full of young people with no manners. Yesterday, Friday having been out for a meal with friends I drove one home via Bexleyheath and I was horrified.

It was 11pm and there was nothing but chaos - why does any town need so many bars, with bouncers? There were drunk young people every where and it was early...imagine what it was going to be like at 3am. I would be seriously worried if I was a parent of a young person locally. Only this week Rob Knox's killer was convicted and sentenced. Drink and pub life were at the core of this attack. The killer with anger management issues, could threaten and carry out an attack under cover of this lifestyle. As I drove across the borough I formed the opinion that this behaviour was the norm - and I would take a guess that if a raid on premises had taken place..under age drinking would be the norm as well. Why do I say this - replicate this situation in every town in the country, over the whole weekend, every weekend. People you are reaping the wind for your inertia.

Blame? well the individuals themselves they lack responsibility, the parents who abdicate their responsibility, the owners of the premises = greed, the government for relaxing our drinking laws. I also blame the silent majority who have allowed the power of the police to be neutered. Social interaction? means respect and these individuals do not respect themselves let alone others.

I am not a puritan by any stretch, but there will come a breaking point when the young will be unemployable because of their hedonistic life styles, this will be the norm. Add to the mix the financial situation world wide and you have wasted lives.

I recall 'Private Fraser's' of said words, "we're doomed" am I over reacting? no probably not.

The ball is in 'Your' court.

GOD BLESS

To Mr Cameron and his wife - the picture of their grief at the death of their beloved son Ivan spoke volumes and who's death brought dignity to British politics. I wish I could have put my arms around them. The length of a life is not important it is the love in that life that matters. He was so loved and he knew that to be the case.

We must also mourn the death of Wendy Richard - her struggle was heroic, and a journey I may have to take some day.

How beautiful Jade looked at her wedding, so dignified...now so tired...All my love girl.

Love Granny xxx

GOODY SUPPORT

I am really glad to see the level of support Jade is now receiving, recognising her struggle and her desire to provide for the sons she will not see grow up. Use what you can is my philosophy, well the public created Jade - best we continue to support her.

In The Independent - Opinion and Debate "Cancer patients are always 'brave'. In Jade's case, it's true" by Matthew Norman. 19/02/2009

In The Times - 19/02/2009 Carol Midgley 'Why do some people resent the brutal reality show that Jade Goody's dying has become.'

The official war correspondent in Bosnia, Peter Howson has done some fab drawings of Jade - to be turned into paintings to be sold to raise money for cancer charities. They are difficult to look at - not beautiful - but moving and of course she is fighting a war, a war in her body. A war she cannot win, and you can see the thousand yard stare.....into No Future. The Times 19/02/2009

Young women really, really have to understand that this can be them.

Granny xx

A LITTLE FASHION GOSSIP

I took a look in Next today, some nice staple bits...worth a look. A nice white linen trouser with tie waist, there are some lovely white linen tops. I also like the suit range, but individual shops have limited examples...the Next Directory is available at the door but I wont pay for this type of advertising. I will use the web.

I am on the look out for Black Linen shorts, saw some in Next that were neither short shorts, nor long line sort of mid, will look great with opaque tights.

Sunday Mail, Style magazine has some nice items, an M and S dress in black and white check with short sleves is really very smart. I might save for this dress it is due in the shops in Mid March. My parents in law gave me an M and S voucher so I am half way there already. Again it is probably not going to be in every shop, so I feel a trip to Bluewater coming on.

Considering the continued hair colour change, with some very blond highlights and a nice cut. I go to E14 hair stylist and was very pleased with what they did last time...so I will plan that little treat...save up the dosh.


Granny

SUNDAY PAPERS

All the Sunday Papers have something about the 13 year old boyfather, but let us all recognise that nothing more needs to be said except to look at the photo of his father in a Devil Mask....says it all....want to make mega bucks. Why are the baby, the boyfather and the mother not in protection? they are now being treated like a 'freak show' in the centre of a bidding war.

I really don't want to preach but I am so worried about these children, it is what the Children Act 2004 was for to ensure 360 degree child safety.

Granny

NEWS IS EVEN WORSE

Could the story about this poor little baby born to a 13 year old father and a 16 year old mother, be any worse, well yes. This case is all about boundaries, there were none and that is the problem for our society, boundaries of behaviour.

THE BOY, his parents are separated - his father has 9 children himself and is 'gobsmacked' well if he had been a proper father to his children perhaps his son would not be in this situation and his 13 daughter would also have not had a baby. Why did that first pregnancy not send up smoke signals. The father at least should have been able to say to his son... have sex = have a baby. It says a lot about the mother that this 13 year old prefers to be at his girlfriends home. Where it appears there are no rules. Why wasn't this child on the at risk register? - lack of emotional stability.

THE GIRL, One of 5 children her parents have and who are at least together but appear to be completely lacking in common sense. Allowing children to have sex on their property with their knowledge is criminal. This appears to not be a one off relationship either - so a DNA test is essential. But of course another child means more money for this family.

Can you believe that these children went to the GP by themselves. The GP suggested a pregnancy test!!!!!!!please

I was horrified yesterday when the BBC brought on a 'social worker' from the authority involved. She was intended to speak about the implications....well all I can say there is no hope if that person was the sample of the quality of social workers in place at the moment. Wet, weak ineffectual ageing hippy with ridiculous 'job speak' of the very 'liberal kind' which has become the subject of ridicule, she talked of 'support' for the families....no no no action action action.


To prosecute in this case apparently was not in the public interest, I beg to differ. It is not about 'laying blame' it is about finding the truth and getting all the parties to accept responsibility and to secure the future of this tiny baby who as far as I can see has zero chance in this world with parents and grandparents like these.

EVERY CHILD MATTERS, The Children Act 2004 made it quite clear that child safety is paramount. One of the elements, stay healthy includes sexual health. So where is the positive action from the agencies of intervention? and that is not a dirty word.

Granny

A FATHER AT 13

The father is 13 the mother 15 - children and it appears the parents of these children, who clearly have failed them are expected to help care for this poor little baby. Just looking at them both you can see that they found comfort in each other, where were their parents and what role models are they. I do not advocate a moral panic, I do say let the baby be taken into care, not adopted but fostered allowing the 13 year old / 15 year old to keep important contact.

I would also want these childrens parents charged with neglect, because no clearer evidence than the pregnancy in this situation is necessary. They need to be called to account. While no child is the property of any parent there is however a clear contract of responsibility to care and nurture. These children demonstrate emotional fragility, why would a girl of 15 be interested in such a young looking 13 year old. I suspect she treated him like a toy and that sex was a play game. There may also be issues of informed consent to the act. I also wonder at the emotional maturity of the 15 year old, was she 13 at heart? Who then let this pregnancy carry on? What needs to be reminded is that this baby is not a toy or comforter. This is not a good example to set because there are other children out there who are similar to these two and who would see this away of getting their '15min of fame' and money from a certain newspaper. When you have little or nothing, this might seem a good idea. Who will be around in 6 months time to pick up the pieces of this truely sad little story.


Granny xxx

HUMAN KINDNESS

Like many others I was moved to see the picture of C.F.A firefighter David Tree in Australia sharing his water bottle with a Koala. The dear animal also trusted this human to hold it's burnt paw. Sam as she is named is receiving very good care. If any animal should have been fearful of man then this is it...but trusted this kind and sensitive man.

I know the human cost is terrible, but I wonder what wildlife has been lost, never to reappear again...

When I was a child my uncle brought me a Koala bear toy back from Australia, it was my best toy I learnt the joy of animals from my little friend. "Good on yer mate!"

Granny xx

CHILDREN, DOGS and ICE

A poor little baby Jaden Mac has been killed by two family dogs....the rationality is that babies and young children should never ever be left with any dog even for a moment. It is not the dogs fault....but of course they have been put down. I never leave my dog with my grandchildren indeed 'Merlot' goes to a puppy cage when the children are in our house...for both child and dog's safety. I introduce child and dog under strict supervision so that my dog does not develop jealous behaviour. No dog is safe... they don't have to be attack dogs.


Accidents happen but just when will people teach their children about the dangers and risks linked to ICE. The death of a 6 year old and the dealth of a teenager (bright and intelligent we are told) with 6 others on the roof of a car being used as sledge.... please!!! yes of course kids want to play, take risk, learn lessons but some lessons are learnt at great cost and to late. Of course I feel sorry for the families their loss is great and my heart is with them...but how many more times must these events happen despite the publicity.

Granny xx

AUSTRALIA IN THE NEWS

How can we not weep for Victoria in Australia and her fire ravaged people with so many dead 96 thus far. My husband and I both have family in Australia. The pictures a dire, imagine the heart break. Listening to the firefighters who are tirelessly fighting this monster of heat is a lesson in service. Lives destroyed. It appears that even someone has been deliberately setting the fires once out.

My heart is with them and yes I am praying for them.

Granny xxx

JADE GOODY

How can people be so mean spirited when a young mother is given practically not hope of seeing her children grow up. How can they sleep at night when they are betting on her date of death...shame on them.....imagine if your daughter, mother, sister other female relation was condemned to such terrifying pain. I have never agreed with her Big Brother racist behaviour - but I am a human, I recognise her humanity. Her life has been varied from early poverty and yes wealth from her 'celebrity' but money is not everything..it rarely saves you form illness. She has done what she has to do as a single mother with children and dependent mother.

She has been told her cancer has spread to liver, bowel and groin. Today we have the news she has had a golf ball size tumor from her bowel... please remember how very scared she must be, wonder how you would cope.

I recommend you read an excellent article on Jade in The Independent 6th February 2009 by Deborah Orr....ex editor of NOW magazine who recognises the culpability of all of those of us who have avidly watched the 'reality shows' and how we have built up and have torn down human beings. The people in these shows are reflections of each and every one of us.

For goodness sake - allow some dignity to this poor 'child' who even though she is over thirty is in fact a child who needs positive support in this difficult time.

Don't dance on her grave prematurely....it could be you next time.

Granny x

MUSIC TO LIFT THE SOUL

I really recommend Seal's new Album. Called Seal (Soul) it is brilliant, it is huge and I have loved his music from the begining. If you have any cash to spend for an extra treat yourself. Love Granny

THE NIGHTMARE BEGINS

If we are not careful the biggest financial world disaster ever that we are going through will spiral into massive disorder. The signs are there already, strikes and violence across the world. We have to stand together to get through it. I pray for us all. Love Granny xx

RHYDIAN

I am unashamedly sentimental. I want to offer a review in that vein. If you saw the X factor when Rhydian Roberts was the runner up...I felt then a sense of injustice for him. I have waited for his album to come out. It is outstanding and I feel that he shows wide power of voice and diction. He can do the big sounds and the soft sounds. He sings some of my very favourite songs, I purchased it today and immediately played 'Impossible Dream' which stands high on my list. I believe in the concept of striving for the best you can be, appropriate for today 20th January 2009 - and hope, optimism, duty, sacrifice and service.

LISTEN TO THE ALBUM WITH AN OPEN MIND AND BE LIFTED UP. love Granny xxx

TO DAY IS THE DAY

Barack Obama will become President of America and I pray for him and his family. To Hope. Love Granny xxx

ANNE FRANK

This last week there has been a fantastic BBC drama based on the Diary of Anne Frank. This was a superb production, with fantastic acting. I have always been a 'believer' of this story. So I wonder even more why the Isrealis do not see the behaviour they are replicating is what the Jews went through in the 1930's. I noted one particularly resonant line in this production which says it all really Anne writes "We wait for the allies to rescue us but all we get are bombs" so speaks a child across the decades. Following the last episode there was a playing of the documentary 'Anne Frank Remembered' again a programme worth watching in itself. How do you live in a society where so much is that is about you is banned.

Yes I know that the Hamas have been lobing bombs and that should be challenged and Yes Hamas are using the people as a human sheild. Why can't anybody see that to defeat these types of people you resist yes but show them up for what they are 'dastardly' and show yourselves to be better than them. Ostracise politically mindless thugs, dont kill the innocent. Love Granny

THE COLD WAR

Forgive me from being cynical but with Russia once again turning off the 'Gas' to Ukraine could it be a huge coincidence that those most affected are ex soviet block states? A new 'Cold War' by any other name. I cannot think of a more cynical time, less than subtle, than at this time of year to complain about non payment of bills, when it is at its coldest.

None of the current world situations (other than the financial one) seem to be playing up to the up coming new US president.

I have been having serious debates and arguments with people about the Isreali and Gaza situation. I have always been strongly anti Nazi and so have read extensively about the rise of the Isreali state. I have argued many times that the Jews had a right to a state. In those arguements others always pointed out the terrorist activity of the Jews against Britain in Isreal (ie King David Hotel) and that many of the early political leaders had been terrorists. Indeed they were and I knew this because these were the books I had read. I say now as I say then one man's 'Freedom Fighter' is another mans 'Terrorist'.

If, as appears clear, people knew about these cross border tunnels from Eqypt - why didn't anybody fill them with cement, does not matter howmany times you have to do it, if you have to refill them constantly the enemy has to either re dig or relocate - keeping them engaged and off balance, they will get bored. Then if these rockets are as primative as they are said to be keep coming, why not deploy anti missile sites along that area and take them out before they reach their target! that is self-defence.

There - absolutely - has to be a way for two soverign states to exist in a difficult physical and finanical environment side by side to the benefit of both their peoples. Moderates must stand up against the radicals on both sides. Children are being killed which is unacceptable because the children are the future for both. Those young that will survive are now going to be radicalised - even more dangerous than before given the power of the internet in passing on information. If the Isrealis had been canny they could have long ago won the war against terror by being modern, forward thinking and engaging in new inivative ideas that soften up the enemy a bit like a laxitive you need to effectively expel them and this is done by isolating them from their potential support... To achieve the aims of peaceful statehood both sides have to stop sitting on the past and religious attitudes as justification for their actions - break the cycle by creating a new tradition, that is real selfdefence. I use the term 'Bullies' for both Isreal and Hamas.


Religion in my view is not necessarily a force for peace, the intolerance shown by various religions for others or even within their own institutions often leads (has often led) to conflict. Just look at the Orthadox Christians having a punch up over who does what in the holiest of Christian sites in the Holy Land - really it was handbags at dawn, silly rediculous behaviour from people who should know better. How can suicide bombers ever be held in esteem by religious leaders? Clearly good things have been done but these should never happen just to recruit new converts. Charity should have no religion nor should it be used to say one group is better than another.

I have just been very shocked by a TV programme 'Paul Mertons China' don;t get me wrong great programme. But please tell me that is wrong,as I see here, that families go to China to adopte abandoned female children. Frankly I was shocked that one family had a grown up family and now wanted to 'fill the nest'. Yes, of course there are elements of being able to give a better chance but at what cost. One woman said, she will be my child - an American child - while another women said of course you cannot hide different ethnic backgrounds so it is important that you introduce your child to their birth country. Clearly this separation of approach is not a good thing. Having said that I would have taken every child myself, mostly female given the one child policy and the desire for that one child to be male - what was I saying about bullies? My husband would say that I have entirely emotional responses, well yes indeed. Really adoption tourrism!!!!!

Actually I have never had a child of my own, much as I would have loved to, it was not to be my fate. I believe that it is not my right to demand as a woman that I be allowed to have to have a child, by any means. Children are bought into the world by many who show little thought as to how their child will grow up. Down I beleive to indivduals poor birth control and very often simply not saying NO. I believe that we have to help these children not just by adoption but by reorganising society. I have helped my husband with his three children and I now enjoy being a step grandmother to five. I think there is a role for surrogate grandmothers - being able to offer their love, advice and time. With an ageing population there will be plenty of candidates. Children are our responsibility not our property. They should not be for sale. Love Granny xxxx

DREAMING OF SUMMER

You will have noted that I have posted some pictures of Skopelos taken in 2007, it is to try and send friends and readers a bit of sunshine. They show clearly why we like this Greek Island imagine sitting and having a coffee and letting the world pass you by. I am looking to project some positivity.

In my very cold garden today, there were 7 pigeons, a blackbird, a squirrel all challenging for the food put out. They always lift my spirits. Love Granny xxxx

MORE PHOTOS OF SKOPELOS 2007

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!

I am probably going to step on some toes with this post. I am really tired of listening to the Israeli spokespersons who rabbit on about 'self defence' in their current action. The situation is unacceptable in the new world.

I do realise that the rockets into Israel from Gaza are wrong, but two wrongs do not make a right. Air strikes on such a scale over such a long period are totally disportionate and I believe that the 'Blockade of the Gaza' should be lifted. This is a self fulfilling prophecy and creates a cycle, the young people who are living through this bombardment will be radicalised and Hamas will benefit. The alternative is stronger than bombs, currently the Israeli actions are proving Hamas's point written in their charter. The Hamas are saying - see we told you so.

I do believe that Hamas are wrong but I do also think that when Israel remembers the Holocaust as a time when they were targeted, ghettoised, subject to attack because of their religion or perceived influence perhaps they will understand they are doing the same thing. They are doing the job of radicalising the young Arabs better than Hamas, they have put the militants in the Gaza area as the victims and themselves as aggressor in the eyes of some of the world.

History tells us what has happened in the past, it shows us the mistakes, it gives us a key to the future -just why is nobody listening. The children on both sides do not deserve this.

Granny sends her love to all people across the world what ever their religion. xx

PICTURES THAT I LOVE

THE WRITE STUFF

Christmas has passed, for us as hoped, with our boys visiting and a quiet traditional meal. Presents openned and appreciated - a little booze and laughter.

My heart was sad for the British soldier who died in action on Christmas Eve, no happy Christmas for his poor family. I send them my prayers. My other saddness was for the loss of Harold Pinter and Eartha Kitt. I admired them both and always visioned myself the white and very English Eartha, all purring and leapoard skin....but more importantly her individualtiy, style and politics. She always kept faith with herself and that is all any of us can do. She really was Christmas, with 'Santa Baby' the great song. They were both anti war and spoke their minds and that is right also.

Two more people died in this country from guns a father and a young girl...shame on the people who carry guns. In America, a man who thought it was ok to dress as Santa and slaughter his ex family.....no no no no.

I also pray for the very lovely and brave Hannah Jones, the wisest of children who made up her mind not have more treatment for her myeloid leukaemia and to enjoy what life she had. She is wise and well older than her 13 years, but she had her Christmas She said " I knew it had been the best Christmas" Hear Hear.

On another bright note there were the dancing seals and the white deer in the New Forest. The robins were in my garden today and that filled my heart with joy. I watched again South Pacific, and loved it all over again - of course the only song for me is 'Some enchanted evening' am I a silly old romantic - you bet brother. Then of course there was the film 'Big' with my hero Tom Hanks at his best. I also love the Burbs and The Money Pit - films to relax with.

Mick gave me a perfect gift, my favourite perfume, Secret Obsession which I find so evocative. It is me, and I love it so. On instinct I gave a special gift...to my dear step grandaughter Rachel... I have seen her act recently in a play called 'A woman in Mind' which she directed and in which she stared I was mesmorised by her talent. She is 18 this year, she wants to go to uni to study philosophy so naturally I gave her a book on the subject to give her a heads up. Then as we discussed her recent purchase on ebay, the perfect pair of shoes (Italian of course) I then was inspired, My most treasured possession the 1920's dress I wore when I was in the Shaw play 'Overruled' orignal and beautifully handmade.. who better a person to take it into their care, someone who could bring it to life as it should be. 'Born Free, free as the roaring tide' This is her time - check out the Zebra ( a steal from Madacasgar)

The old boy is in an afternoon snooze mode and I am watching Madacasgar. 'And me skipper? I want you to look cute and cuddly' gosh the diologue is sensational - wacked out!!!!!!!!

Lets all pray for this year, perhaps listening to Rowan Williams may help....lets pray people won't lose their homes, their jobs their lives. My faith is firmly placed in the new American President (elect) Barack Obama who took time to scatter his grandmothers ashes, as he had taken time to see her before she died. He has a diverse family background and maybe that is the secret.

I have made a New Years resolution - I will make a difference. I love you all HAPPY NEW YEAR. Granny xxxx

LITTLE DORRIT

There is no greater acting and production than that for the BBC programme LITLLE DORRIT. Three cheers. Lots of performances here for BAFTA awards and the like. It is a parable of our time. Love Granny

MORE CHAT

Putting on my fashion hat, last week with my grandson I visited Bluewater for the first time in ages. I was surprised to find it busy but not packed. I was impressed by Urban Outfitters set up but not the cost of the clothes there. It does have an original edge so I would look there for inspiration. I especially like the coloured opaque tights which I think look fab with decent black or demin shorts. I love patterned or lace tights. There was a neat 'stall' in the walk area that sold some stunning tights. I believe that clever use of tights, belts, wraps and other accessories can make an old outfit sharper.

I was disappointed with the Santa Grotto. Could have reflected the weather, which was pooring with rain and it is sited outside. There is also an Ice Rink, Fun Fair and Christmas market.

I have discovered why Bluewater is popular for Mums and Children - it's inside, silly me. But it still not clear that the shops access has really caught on.

I still advise people to read 'You' in the Mail on Sunday, my favourite magazine for about everything.

I am a huge fan of Gok Wan.


On a more serious note, YES YES YES Barack Obama won the US election..he is not going to have a secure financial situation to manage and it will be very difficult. I have huge concerns for his and his families safety. There is a disturbing number of white supremisist however loose as a group that will need to be watched very carefully. People should be judged on their character not their skin as Dr Martin Luther King Jnr so rightly said. And believe me I am judging these individuals on their character which is both flawed and murderous.

Love Granny

DON'T BUY DOLPHIN SHOWERS.

My parents - in - law were persuaded to purchase an easy access shower system from Dolphin at a cost of £5,000. The work is at best described as botched and at worst ......... judge for yourself. The 'contracted' installer was useless, he managed to put in a new water pipe, tile over it then drill into the pipe it causing a flood not only in my inlaws bathroom but in the bathroom down stairs causing major damage. When the 'supervisors' attended to look at the situation - it was discovered the contractor had not even sealed in the unit either, leaving saying the job was done and safe. My husband advised his parents not to pay the final £500+ and wrote to Dolphin that he had done this. He told Dolphin not to bother his elderly and unwell parents but to deal with him....as yet only a single acknowledgement has been received, but the original instructions in his letter were ignored. The company have dragged their feet over the neighbours claim for damages caused by their worker and AS YET IT REMAINS UNRESOLVED. This has been going on for weeks..... the FINAL cheek has been that Dolphin wrote last week to my inlaws 'demanding' the final payment.

WOULD YOU PAY £5,000 FOR THIS indeed my pictures do not tell the whole story - it is so much worse, the original bathroom in terms of size is small. Yes there was a limited amount of tiling done, but my elderly parents-in-law, instead of waiting for their son and grandson to assist, painted the room themselves. I am sorry BUT if you are paying £5,000 for any work there has to be a competent installation with a professional finish. Dolphin have proved themselves as falling short.

MY ADVICE SHOP AROUND, LOOK AT EXAMPLES OF THE WORK DONE PREVIOUSLY, TAKE RECOMMENDATION AND DON'T BE CHATTED UP BY SALES PEOPLE FROM 'NATIONALLY RENOWNED' COMPANIES.

Love Granny

SOME MORE OF GRANNY AND FAMILY

MORE TO SAY

I have always got a lot to say for myself and about the world.

Firstly adding to previous comments, I am horrified that the world finds itself in a dire position. Our leaders are still posturing - just get on with it otherwise there is no future for the worlds children.

Too many soldiers are dying in an unnecessary war. The recent period of rememberance really should have awoken up those in power, but of course it won't. To much money in arms sales!!!!!

Much has been said about the case of Baby P and if you have read my blog you will no doubt guess my views. This is probably the most dreadful of cases but let me tell you there are more cases out there. Just days after the news hit the media - two young children are stabbed to death by their mother.

I absolutely believe in accountability, checks and balances when taking children into care, but I do not hold to the dangerous theory that all children are best with their birth parents. 'Institutional Care' is also a difficult thing to manage I accept that, but because it is hard does not mean it should be written off, think quality. It does not mean huge unwhealdy institutions. Our problem has been to make a huge leap from 'something in place' to 'nothing in place'. I also know that you cannot take a child into emergency care unless you have people in the community who will act as short term emergency foster care. I actually believe that the 'experts' who have developed child development theories have a lot to answer for, because they have blinded people in the child care arena to common sense.

Children are our responsibility (to bring up safe and well) but not our property - the parents who maime and kill their children are selfish, selfcentre individuals, perhaps they do have their own issues but they need to be dealt with seperately from their role as parent. The people who take on the role of social interventionist need to make this clear distinction.

IT IS TIME TO STAND UP FOR CHILDREN AT RISK.

Love Granny

NEARLY THERE

Mick and I spent a great holiday in Turkey, but I do not recommend Marmaris to the elderly or faint hearted....It is blackpool on steroids.

We shall go again to Turkey in June. This is of course always assuming the credit crunch/global recession does not prevent us. I like the sun in Turkey - I was very brave and went topless and given my somewhat misshapen 'breast' I felt comfortable and relaxed.

The consultant oncologist tells me I don't have to see her again until 2011 -wow- I still keep my fingers crossed that the cancer does not spread.

I have to say that my shopping trips have really only been local and cheap. I haven't been to Bluewater for ages. I like the current trends and have raided my wardrobe and storage to revitalise them to bring them on trend. A little tartan in terms of belts and wraps. I have changed my hair making use of a dark blond to hide the grey rather than dark brown.

Grey and Black are my seasons colours, with dashes of colour to lift it. Add to this my one seasons big purchase a leopard print wrap cardigan with a pin catch to hold it together. It cost £24 and I think it is good value. I shall wear it with my long black wool dress, with black trousers, jeans and denim skirts.

I am sexing up a red lace dress with a red tights, red shoes, red earrings/bracelet, red handbags (I have two) - so it could be a 'redout'. Currently looking for a red belt that works. I am sexing up a gold dress which is a shift type in a jacquard fabric (sleeveless) same process - gold tights or worn with tanned legs, gold shoes (mules) gold belt (there must be the right one out there) Gold wrap.

Just got no where to go to wear these ideas. Purchased a nice large red slouch bag for £2.50 in Matalan - and a double brill humungas white linen bag in a Next sale for £7 and a long white linen skirt for the summer at £8 - not bad eh.

Continuing to watch my weight, my hips have all but disappeared - so hipsters are out.

The new must have for me is 'Secret Obsession' by Calvin Klein, it is just sumptious. Perhaps I will get lucky for Christmas. But I have spotted it for sale
at Debenhams in a set for £40 including 50ml eau de parfume and 100ml body lotion. Sounds good to me. I actually prefer body lotion for a subtle coverage.

Moving on lets hope Obama beats McCain and Palin. The world is in a scary place just now. What the hell are the banks playing at...and for god sake lets draw a line under the power plays of ministers, worthies, Rich chinless wonders who have inherited their dosh and oligarchs playing in secret. 'bout' time they paid up, building their wealth on the backs of the working class and third world societies. Bin them - get rid of them cut their power. I feel no sadness in the plight of high paid bankers and share players who have lost their jobs....should have gone to spec savers.


I am saying a pray for little 'Amy' murdered by her father thank god he was convicted.

I AM NEARLY THERE - RETIREMENT NEXT YEAR.


Love to all from Granny

NATURE WONDER

On Monday I had a shock, I looked out into my garden and noticed on the roof of my neighbours shed a Blackbird, spread eagled wings out. I had never seen anything like it and became concerned that it had been 'Catd'. I went to use Mick's new camera to capture an image, and did then the bird moved I snapped again and then off it went. It had been warming itself, sunbathing if you like. My Mum says she has seen this before, but I never have even heard about it.

Yesterday and today Mick and I have been woken by an unsual bird noise. When we checked it out there on the front public garden area were two Woodpeckers. One appeared to be adult the other juvenile. They were in a feeding frenzie and had found a ready source in the cracks of the pavement slabs for which their slim long beaks are perfectly adapted. The early bird catches the worm, is an old saying but these two were the thinking early birds. I saw the adult also feed the juvenile. They walked!!!! all over the area and up our front path. Another adult set up an alarm when Smudge the cat wondered up to have a look and the two flew into the Silver Birch doing the Woodpecker thing of hanging on the bark. On the first day I saw the two WP's a Blackbird and a Thrush. Today the two WP's a Blackbird, a Wren and a Squirrel, all from my bedroom window what more can I ask. Love Granny

MUCH TO SAY

Child deaths, children killing children and a moral panic about knives. Historically speaking young people have been demonised and blamed for crime, and the gang thing is not new. How short are our memories, Teddy Boys, Mods and Rockers, skinheads etc etc indeed the changes in our law's over the years reflect this. I do agree that there is a 'problem' but I do think society gets what it demands, freedom from state intervention one of the results of this is what we have now. Poor schooling, poor policing not because the teachers and officers want to step back society demands it. So there needs to be a debate about what society needs in order to function without fear. Freedom of life styles and behaviour or rules of behaviour. Look at the interviews with some parents who have abdicated responsibility for preparing young people for life and work. I am fed up with hearing 'I can't keep an eye on them 24 hours a day' excuse from parents. I do however believe that children are not property to be owned any more than a woman is the property of a man, I do believe that parents have responsibility from conception to the point when a child becomes and adult. If they don't want this responsibility then don't have the child.

Six young people died in a terrible car accident with a lorry, anybody with any sense looking at the scene from the air, can see why this accident happened and it was not the lorry drivers fault. What do we hear that the parent of one victim blames the police for seizing the uninsured vehicle driven and used by 4 of them he said that if the police had not abandoned the young people to make their way home they would not be dead. It was the drivers choice to break the law on insurance (and carry passengers) and then to phone the driver of the crash vehicle to come and get them and not the parents who might have helped. Six people in a Mondeo are too many all of this was the choice of the six and reflects their inexperience. I repeat the underused 'R' word responsibility.


The financial situation in the world is entirely a reflection of the greed of the elites of the world wanting more and more and for big and small corporations trying to make a fast buck. This has meant that the developing industrial countries have raced to meet this demand with out measured and considered growth. It is of course the 'anyperson' who will suffer but the money bags of whom there are only a few (the Mr/Mrs Bigs) and who control the global corporations will sit nicely to pick up the pieces.


Congestion, the easy way to express this is DRIVE according to the rules, don't block roundabouts and other junctions, don't push out, push in. Bus drivers are very guilty of this when a bus across a road with frankly no where to go cause additional congestion to the one they see around them.


My views on China are well known, however following the earthquake I have had the people in my heart, and for once a large army has paid dividends. The Panda's also are in my thoughts, thank god some people have been in a position to spare their time for them. Again my heart has been with the children orphand by the quake. How different were my thoughts for the cyclone victims so badly let down by their govenment.

What can I say about Mugabe, disgusting example of dictatorship and how democracy can be used to hold people down. But hey arn't the 'EU' also treating the Irish referendum vote with contempt, have a vote and keep to it. Love Granny

SORRY

I have not been as good at keeping this up. Watch this space more to come. Granny

FASHIONISTA

I was very lucky today, I had the chance to walk through Canary Wharf shopping mall. I have to say I believe that some of the high street companies provide different goods for different stores. There is some terrific clothes in Top Shop, including a really nice sheer nylon!!! I think, dress in various shades, there are some nice jackets.

But the best shop was Hobbs, - a fantastic dress in white and a suit in white (same fabric as the dress) to die for. Buy both and you would have the perfect capsual wardrobe, mix it with some of the great shirts, bags and shoes that are out there. Sharpen the business look, freshen up

Monsoon is worth a visit but the prices are way too much at this location Accessorise is part of the same outlet, great for linking things together.

I have decided to try a fashion faux pas, yes thats right I am going to be an old bird wearing young girls styles. I like the shorts that are out there, worn with opaque tights change the colours for the day and night, boots or shoes (same colour) do the boho thing on the top half or 'T' shirts (my fav are the vest) a great summer look. I shall put the look together cheaply, with Cotton medium length cargo shorts.

I am preparing for the Race for Life by walking a mile a day...I hope to loose my belly so that those shorts I am going to buy might look half reasonable. I got some cool kit for the walk, very pink.


I still love the WRAP catalogue but the cost, well I just can't afford to buy all the things I want no make that anything even one item. Do check out the simple lines. www.wraponline.co.uk very stylish and classical give yourself some style ideas. Baggy linen trousers, sweet linen jackets, lovely long skirts in a range of delicious colours. All very New England... Plus the straw hat look that is out there, either trilby style or stetson. I am a stetson person myself.


The pencil skirt is back in fashion, go for it. I love it and it is very sexy.
Style magazine (the Sunday Times) and You magazine (the Sunday Times) fly the flag weekly for good fashion, food and life style items I recommend you read if you get the opportunity.

Three cheers for Leona Lewis, she is very good and she has hit the US market running, top single and album from the off. She is also very pretty I just hope she doesnt get spoilt. I also like Duffy as well, I enjoy her sound. More three cheers, Nigel Kennedy is back and playing excellent.

Oh and while I am at it....Viva Cuba.

I am with Rhys Jones family at this time supporting them and hoping that justice is done.

Lots of Love Granny xxx

ARE THEY MAD

I am very angry, the anti china protest would have been so much more effective if the crowd had turned their backs on the flame rather than getting all hot under the collar. It was easy to see the hand of China in the 'coordination' - witness the scene out side 10 Downing Street with a 'torch attendant' pushing people around so the camera gets a good photo call. The world have seen the true nature of the government of China, not un like Mugaba and his 'Free and Fair elections'. What a joke. Chinas idea of peace and friendship - is do as I say or else. We know exactly they images the chinese people will see on state TV.

I support the atheletes whole heartedly. I feel angry that police officers were placed in the unenviable position of trying to keep the thing moving along over a 31 mile route....absolutely ridiculous. Why should our officers be used as a political tool....the protestors by being predictable have shot themselves in the foot. One stupid woman even took a child on her demo he looked terrified. I will pray for all the officers, I hope they get home safely tonight. Imagine trying to cycle or run in uniform for the whole 31 miles and what do you do with a bike when you are pulled to the ground?

How much more worth while was the programme yesterday about the Terracota Army at the British Museum...fascinating. But even that allowed us to see how repressive the government is, by compulsorarily moving people (thousands of them) from their land to carry out excavations. In other cases they have moved people to build a dam. The poor chinese are prisoners of the regime treated as 'drones'.

Tibet is Tibet and should be free.


Turn the TV's off during the Olympics and make a clear point.

Love Granny xx

ROBINS FLY THE NEST

Our robin chicks fledged leaving the parents disoriented. They spent a day flying around the their old beats in confusion. At one stage they sat side beside each other on the fence.

Love Granny xxx

GOOD NEWS

I heard yesterday that I have the all clear from my biopsy. I had a personal call from my breast care nurse. They are there to respond to my concerns at any time. I want to thank again Mr Hoque my consultant and his staff at the Queen Mary's. SAVE QUEEN MARY'S HOSPITAL SIDCUP. Local hospitals are so important as are local fire stations and police stations.


I have been delighted to hear and see that Josie Russell appears to be doing well after the awful attack that killed her Mum and sister Megan. I pray her life will remain quite and calm.

I have received several very generous sponsorship pledges already so Thank You, Thank You to all. I am really looking forward to the Race although I will walk it rather than run (except perhaps short bursts)


I am some putting some names out in the ether to try and find out information about them, they are women about who I am writing in my PhD.


Jean Stratton born in Dundee
Margaretta Gibson Low born in Edinburgh


Love Granny xxx

Dear friends, you all know about my cancer - well I have decided to take part in the Race For Life to raise money for research in cancer to give something back. This is my small effort because unless the research had not been done I would probably not be here. My best friend Maggie was diagnosed almost a year to the day from my diagnosis so it is for her. My colleague Ian - his wife has terminal lung cancer and has been told that it is now in her spine. So it is for her. Another colleague died last week from cancer so it is in memory of him. Our health is the most precious thing we have. My dear dad Ralph also died from cancer in 2001 so it is for him. My dear Auntie Vickie died of cancer a year ago, so it is for her. I try to live a healthy life style. I know however that Cancer can strike anyone.

I have chosen to run around The City of London on April 1st 2008.

Below is the official online sponsorship form and this is my own page in the official site as you can see how I am doing.



http://www.raceforlifesponsorme.org/helenbarnard2

TALKING FASHION

I visited Bluewater of Thursday after having seen my consultant and having the little biopsy....why I hear you mutter. Well I hoped that it would cheer me up. What was there to titillate my taste buds. Indeed I found little, all the usual shops are there and I as I wandered around I noted that there were the usual suspects shopping, people with more money than sense. The ridiculous cost of clothing and some of the cheap copies of cat walk innovations (I strongly support the fashion show system as an ideas venue) poorly finished especially hems and buttons.

The places that really disapointed were Accessorize and East.

H and M had some simple cotton skirts ideal for the beach. I am also inclinded to think that the linen/cotton longer shorts with a waist tie and on the baggy side which at the moment might work for me on the beach rather than sarongs. I have noted some attempts at kaftans on the market, forget these try the real deal from north africa (as warn by Abdel in 'You' magazine p 43 in blue and white. I used to have similar when I went to Tunisa and Morocco I purchased a few and I loved wearing them.

Despite my less than satisfying trip to Bluewater I was lucky to find a Robert Wilson crime novel to take on holiday should we go - I love his books. I also found some Ruby and Millie makeup which I like a lot.

My better shopping was done in some Sidcup secondhand shops. A beautiful stretch devoire dress in maroon, and long and coloumn like, I have some great accessories to alter the overall look. I found a nice pair of black velvet trousers brand new in from Next.


Keep it simple, go for good fabrics and finish.

Love Granny xxxx








Let me highlight a beautiful dress in the Sunday Mail 'You' magazine dated 23rd (today) (page 15) It is long sleveless and slinky in black with wonderful blue and yellow flowers in the skirt. Stocked by Banana Republic (bananarepublic.eu) I love this dress, at £75 not so bad a cost. This is a dress I would wear. Again I state this magazine is worth a read on fashion issues and it is weekly.

HEALTH UP DATE

I have been so well recently that almost forget that I still have my cancer. I had a little glitch this week.. I had a small 'spot' on my scar. I was worried so I was glad I was due to see my consultant this week, when I did he did a 'punch biopsy' to clarify if it was something serious or a small infection.. either way I have to wait for two weeks. It has depressed me a bit, because I know that it can come back anywhere any time.

My dear friend Ian's wife who has terminal lung cancer learnt recently that it has migrated to her spine. She can have no more chemo so they are trying to radio it. My heart is with them both all the tiem.


Sadly a colleague called Mick Daly died last week from cancer - a recent diagnosis. My heart is with his family at this sad time, what can you say to make it less painful.


Patrick Swazie has his own cancer battle and Dame Maggie Smith.

Life is fleeting... it is about how we live our life rather than length and each of the above has 'lived'.


Love Granny xxx

IN MY GARDEN

Today it is so cold and even snowy that I am worrying for our Robin chicks. The adult birds have been very busy feeding over the last two days. We have seen the grubs in the mouths of both birds. They have a set flight plan using our garden chairs as a stop off to check out for preditors then fly into the nest. They have not been able to feed themselves so Mick put out seed and this morning the birds were feeding like crazy - probably to build up reserves for the coming awful weather. I hope the chicks survive the cold.

Talk about cheek.... we spotted super squirel making use of our bird table, which has a roof. There he sat eating nut after nut under the shelter of the roof...it was raining...clever old thing.


Love Granny xxx

TIBET

There is no greater injustice than the Chinese occupation of Tibet, if you believe the controlled media output coming from the Chinese - then wake up. If you can't see that China bans foreign media for the reason that it does not want 'You' to know what is really happening. Only a country with something to hide does this, witness Mugabe in Zimbabwe. The rich and powerful in both states are the winners, keeping the poor down and controlled - the corruption of commercialism. Do whatever you can, the smallest effort can move mountains - never forget, don't ignore it (it's in your back yard and could happen anywhere)


Support the Dalai Lama - peaceful demonstration and non violent action - raise voices in protest telling our politicians to pressure the Chinese government - you have the Olympics that does not give you carte blanch to ride rough shod over other peoples in fact it is the opposite. The Chinese are breaching the Olympic ideals.

This Easter people around the world are being crucified for freedom - Easter should be a time for the Christian voice to speak out on behalf of others, regardless of their religion.

Love Granny xxx

TOWER HAMLETS CHILDREN

Today I attended a training day for 8-13 year olds from Tower Hamlets borough, the topic was Hate and Faith Crime. It was held at Oxford House. I was so impressed with the young people, who had a strong voice and were wise beyond their years and we as a society underestimate them. They deserve the people who teach them to be the best that they can. We had some guest speakers at the end of the day and the children listened carefully to some very dry comments. This was a multiracial group of kids, getting on together, adults take note. I was even a tree covered with postits with their ideas on Hate crime, even on my nose! but think it through, we have to advise children about Hate Crime, what a sad world.


It was a real privilige to meet these kids, who if you talk to them frankly and honestly respond so well.

PS I LOVE BETHNAL GREEN (TOWER HAMLETS ALL OVER) it has colour and life.

Love Granny xxxx

CULTURE

Listen to the Robert Plant and Alison Krauss album, well I like it!!! Discovered the Culture Show on BBC 2 Saturday, excellent..... excellent group The Editors. Think Nigel Kennedy still fab after all these years. Watch Coast if you can because you get to look at how beautiful Britain is. Music is the greatest therapy.

Love Granny xxx

OUT SPOKEN LADY

News is my drug and I have views about everything - the current picture is not any exception.

Well done to Bjork, lets get real about China. I believe that the Olympics should not be held there so in my small way I shall boycott watching this summer. Talk about commercial interests prostituting themselves....there has been no move on Human Rights or pollution. The sponsors are hoping for big bucks, lots of coverage SO LET'S BOYCOTT THE GAMES. The Chinese are so selective in their conservation issues as well but do still promote traditional medicine for which many animals must die. MONEY talks, stand up against it.

A man killed himself, his passengers and three others because he was overtaking...a man described as loving speed and convicted drink driver....if ever an example for removing these drivers from the road this is it. He was always going to kill, he had a warning which he ignored so he is a murderer.

Sharron Matthews remains missing, let's all call out....own up bring her back of give her mother closure. JOIN TOGETHER to bring her back. Someone has lied and is still lying.

My heart goes out to the family of Carol Barnes, who died following a stroke. She was part of my growing love for news.


Please support with your prayers Amy Maria Molloy at 23 a widow, her husband died of cancer eight months ago. Read her article in 'You' the Sunday Mail 9th March 2008.

NEW'S NEW'S NEW'S LOVE GRANNY.

I HAVE TO SPEAK OUT - ITS MY DUTY

ODE TO MARTYN (Martyn Compton, Lance Corporal)

I looked at the screen
I saw your face
disfigured by fire - by war.
I looked at the screen
I heard you speak
made stronger by war
I looked at the screen
and screamed at the set
why again, how many more?
This is a look I have seen before.
Identity blurred not diminished
the fire in your eyes.
Martyn the man
Like so many before
victims of war.
Soldering - governments demand.
Then government must pay.

Love Granny

JAYS TAKE THE DAY

During the last week I noticed two Jays (that is a bird) trying to eat from the bird feeders in mine and my neighbours garden. This was quite odd since these birds are of a similar size to Magpies - that is big. the feeders are designed to feed very small birds who can hover. One Jay tried to hover at my feeder then tried to get at it by sitting on the bird table and the sat on the shed roof looking and I could almost see his brain working as to how to deal with the problem.

The next day two Jays tried to deal with my neighbours bird feeder they tried and tried. Does this mean food is really short in the natural environment?

Today I heard the most beautiful bird song, a tiny brown bird, I do not know what bird it was.

I spent a lovely day with my Mum, to celebrater her birthday and took her out for a meal. We nag each other but all in good humour.


Let us hope that Shannon Matthews aged 9 is found soon. Let us be straight about this, the chances are she will not be found - there is a story here. EVERY CHILD MATTERS!!!!!!!!!!!

Shoes with no heels, oh please what a stupid idea....to balance only on your toes will damage to legs and back. ALL VERY STUPID.


I did not like the Brits - all very silly except it was nice to see and hear Amy Winehous looking so much better. Beth Ditto showed what a large woman can do with red, good on you girl.

I want to see some more style around the clothes are so drab and mundane this season. Come on high street - dress real women.


Love Granny xxxx

PIGEONS ON ICE

My garden and that of my neighbours remain a hive of activity. The robins would appear to definately be back, nest building in the same location as before. I have also noticed the crows are actively building in the cemetary pine trees. It has to be spring in the air, because the squirrels were belting around the trees chasing each other round and round the trunks. The Pigeons were quite daring this morning, still in the edge of my neighbours pond which was frozen giving them a quandry since this is 'their' watering hole. Then as I watched one pigeon stepped on to the ice, and walked carefully while looking for a small break. The sun was shining and the heavy frost was melting, as if steam it was rising from the shed roof. Thank god for spring.

You will know how much I love fashion. I have been very disappointed with the way the high street have translated designs.

Let me recommend a wonderful fashion record published by Hello, it costs £6 but very put together. Let me make it clear this is about looking at high fashion and design, some you should only wear on the 'red carpet' but this is an ideas book that you can use to put together look.

I can see I will be using my collection of bangles.


I do like the following, Michael Kors page 13 sharp light trousers and sleeveless belted blouse. Chanel have a number of nice pieces, including a red and white sleeveless dress - other things I don't like.

The fabrics are stunning in all the collections but Christian Lacroix - a brilliant designer, but you have to be a certain person to wear the fabrics, there are some colours and patterns that could swamp any individual. He does have a nice black and white suit, page 74. Dior has a great three peice suit in black with a white stripe. They also have a lovely dress on page 96. I love the Stella McCartney jumpsuit, long, blue and white. Alexander McQueen has a fabulous suit in a check fabric and pleated skirt page 159. Vivienne Westwood produced a sensational black dress which I would love to own. Versace has a beautiful sea green dress page 203, simply cut with a fabulous belt. There is a similar one in brown. In both these dresses the fabric counts so if you buy a high street version, it may not work because of creasing....but love the shoes at this show. Just look at the Versace trousers and blouse on page 207 Chic, chic, chic. BY THE WAY Vivienne Westwood does some fabulous perfume....Libertine is my favourite.

I loved Roberto Cavali use of colour, lilac, lavender and blue in his very floaty collection shown on pages 216/217.

Some of the Giorgio Armani items are fabulous, the tops are the best, I especially love the jackets on page 251.

I loved Marc Jacobs '9' dress on page 269 in an orange - sensational.

Calvin Klein, is brilliant - all very simple beautiful colours, fab trousers, fab shoes p 272 to 275.

All are easy to copy.

Please..... look at the web pages about Kelsey Briggs, and the video on you tube about her.....stop child abuse.

Granny loves yer xxxxx

THERE IS SPRING IN THE AIR

Well what can I say about my beautiful garden, so full of life. Robins looking for nesting, black birds, blue tits and coal tits. Super squirel and friends was fantastic fun on my neighbours bird feeded. I am so happy to see them. Two foxes tried to mate on the lawn next door, and then chased on another across our shed. The male was big and vigourous, then there was such a different fox smaller, dark, with no brush. I thought it might be mange.

I am a huge fan of Torchwood and Primeval - excellent science fiction. Looking forward to Ashes to Ashes.

I have been looking at the fashions, and suggest women look at March issue of Harper's Bazaar - Leona Lewis is so beautiful.. I can recommend it because there are some great looks..... I have also been looking at at World Fashion and cable, the collection for Yves Saint Laurent was fab, I hope the high street translates it, because it was so wearable. Dark colours, 'A'Line swing type, short over leggings ..... really great.

I love this seasons Prada bag, but at not at the cost. Equally Mulberry bags this season look good but .....not at that price.

Agyness Deyn has a fabulous look but not in the frilled dress. Bangles, big heels, wedges, I feel for Barbara Bui shoes (page 74) cost £1,065 oh don't be stupid. But the Faith bag at £30... now thats a bit better, except I know Mum has these bags from the 1940's I used to use one. I believe the real hit will be the taylored Shift Dress, for work and play. Michael Kors, green dress is heaven p 110 and Blumarine skirt and top are to die for, and Donna Karan, wow.


If I had the perfect figure and the money I would purchase just one dress, by Etro, a hippie Tie-Dye cotton dress....it is so me. I have fallen in love again with Lenny Kravitz, I also loved Terence Trent Darby.


I have just discovered a cartoon, it is so beautiful - do loook 'Belleville Rendez-Vous' the art work is sensational and the story bizzare but do give it a go.

Live Long and prosper. Devine Granny XXXXXXXX