Could the story about this poor little baby born to a 13 year old father and a 16 year old mother, be any worse, well yes. This case is all about boundaries, there were none and that is the problem for our society, boundaries of behaviour.
THE BOY, his parents are separated - his father has 9 children himself and is 'gobsmacked' well if he had been a proper father to his children perhaps his son would not be in this situation and his 13 daughter would also have not had a baby. Why did that first pregnancy not send up smoke signals. The father at least should have been able to say to his son... have sex = have a baby. It says a lot about the mother that this 13 year old prefers to be at his girlfriends home. Where it appears there are no rules. Why wasn't this child on the at risk register? - lack of emotional stability.
THE GIRL, One of 5 children her parents have and who are at least together but appear to be completely lacking in common sense. Allowing children to have sex on their property with their knowledge is criminal. This appears to not be a one off relationship either - so a DNA test is essential. But of course another child means more money for this family.
Can you believe that these children went to the GP by themselves. The GP suggested a pregnancy test!!!!!!!please
I was horrified yesterday when the BBC brought on a 'social worker' from the authority involved. She was intended to speak about the implications....well all I can say there is no hope if that person was the sample of the quality of social workers in place at the moment. Wet, weak ineffectual ageing hippy with ridiculous 'job speak' of the very 'liberal kind' which has become the subject of ridicule, she talked of 'support' for the families....no no no action action action.
To prosecute in this case apparently was not in the public interest, I beg to differ. It is not about 'laying blame' it is about finding the truth and getting all the parties to accept responsibility and to secure the future of this tiny baby who as far as I can see has zero chance in this world with parents and grandparents like these.
EVERY CHILD MATTERS, The Children Act 2004 made it quite clear that child safety is paramount. One of the elements, stay healthy includes sexual health. So where is the positive action from the agencies of intervention? and that is not a dirty word.
Granny
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Friday, February 13, 2009
A FATHER AT 13
The father is 13 the mother 15 - children and it appears the parents of these children, who clearly have failed them are expected to help care for this poor little baby. Just looking at them both you can see that they found comfort in each other, where were their parents and what role models are they. I do not advocate a moral panic, I do say let the baby be taken into care, not adopted but fostered allowing the 13 year old / 15 year old to keep important contact.
I would also want these childrens parents charged with neglect, because no clearer evidence than the pregnancy in this situation is necessary. They need to be called to account. While no child is the property of any parent there is however a clear contract of responsibility to care and nurture. These children demonstrate emotional fragility, why would a girl of 15 be interested in such a young looking 13 year old. I suspect she treated him like a toy and that sex was a play game. There may also be issues of informed consent to the act. I also wonder at the emotional maturity of the 15 year old, was she 13 at heart? Who then let this pregnancy carry on? What needs to be reminded is that this baby is not a toy or comforter. This is not a good example to set because there are other children out there who are similar to these two and who would see this away of getting their '15min of fame' and money from a certain newspaper. When you have little or nothing, this might seem a good idea. Who will be around in 6 months time to pick up the pieces of this truely sad little story.
Granny xxx
I would also want these childrens parents charged with neglect, because no clearer evidence than the pregnancy in this situation is necessary. They need to be called to account. While no child is the property of any parent there is however a clear contract of responsibility to care and nurture. These children demonstrate emotional fragility, why would a girl of 15 be interested in such a young looking 13 year old. I suspect she treated him like a toy and that sex was a play game. There may also be issues of informed consent to the act. I also wonder at the emotional maturity of the 15 year old, was she 13 at heart? Who then let this pregnancy carry on? What needs to be reminded is that this baby is not a toy or comforter. This is not a good example to set because there are other children out there who are similar to these two and who would see this away of getting their '15min of fame' and money from a certain newspaper. When you have little or nothing, this might seem a good idea. Who will be around in 6 months time to pick up the pieces of this truely sad little story.
Granny xxx
HUMAN KINDNESS
Like many others I was moved to see the picture of C.F.A firefighter David Tree in Australia sharing his water bottle with a Koala. The dear animal also trusted this human to hold it's burnt paw. Sam as she is named is receiving very good care. If any animal should have been fearful of man then this is it...but trusted this kind and sensitive man.
I know the human cost is terrible, but I wonder what wildlife has been lost, never to reappear again...
When I was a child my uncle brought me a Koala bear toy back from Australia, it was my best toy I learnt the joy of animals from my little friend. "Good on yer mate!"
Granny xx
I know the human cost is terrible, but I wonder what wildlife has been lost, never to reappear again...
When I was a child my uncle brought me a Koala bear toy back from Australia, it was my best toy I learnt the joy of animals from my little friend. "Good on yer mate!"
Granny xx
Sunday, February 08, 2009
CHILDREN, DOGS and ICE
A poor little baby Jaden Mac has been killed by two family dogs....the rationality is that babies and young children should never ever be left with any dog even for a moment. It is not the dogs fault....but of course they have been put down. I never leave my dog with my grandchildren indeed 'Merlot' goes to a puppy cage when the children are in our house...for both child and dog's safety. I introduce child and dog under strict supervision so that my dog does not develop jealous behaviour. No dog is safe... they don't have to be attack dogs.
Accidents happen but just when will people teach their children about the dangers and risks linked to ICE. The death of a 6 year old and the dealth of a teenager (bright and intelligent we are told) with 6 others on the roof of a car being used as sledge.... please!!! yes of course kids want to play, take risk, learn lessons but some lessons are learnt at great cost and to late. Of course I feel sorry for the families their loss is great and my heart is with them...but how many more times must these events happen despite the publicity.
Granny xx
Accidents happen but just when will people teach their children about the dangers and risks linked to ICE. The death of a 6 year old and the dealth of a teenager (bright and intelligent we are told) with 6 others on the roof of a car being used as sledge.... please!!! yes of course kids want to play, take risk, learn lessons but some lessons are learnt at great cost and to late. Of course I feel sorry for the families their loss is great and my heart is with them...but how many more times must these events happen despite the publicity.
Granny xx
AUSTRALIA IN THE NEWS
How can we not weep for Victoria in Australia and her fire ravaged people with so many dead 96 thus far. My husband and I both have family in Australia. The pictures a dire, imagine the heart break. Listening to the firefighters who are tirelessly fighting this monster of heat is a lesson in service. Lives destroyed. It appears that even someone has been deliberately setting the fires once out.
My heart is with them and yes I am praying for them.
Granny xxx
My heart is with them and yes I am praying for them.
Granny xxx
JADE GOODY
How can people be so mean spirited when a young mother is given practically not hope of seeing her children grow up. How can they sleep at night when they are betting on her date of death...shame on them.....imagine if your daughter, mother, sister other female relation was condemned to such terrifying pain. I have never agreed with her Big Brother racist behaviour - but I am a human, I recognise her humanity. Her life has been varied from early poverty and yes wealth from her 'celebrity' but money is not everything..it rarely saves you form illness. She has done what she has to do as a single mother with children and dependent mother.
She has been told her cancer has spread to liver, bowel and groin. Today we have the news she has had a golf ball size tumor from her bowel... please remember how very scared she must be, wonder how you would cope.
I recommend you read an excellent article on Jade in The Independent 6th February 2009 by Deborah Orr....ex editor of NOW magazine who recognises the culpability of all of those of us who have avidly watched the 'reality shows' and how we have built up and have torn down human beings. The people in these shows are reflections of each and every one of us.
For goodness sake - allow some dignity to this poor 'child' who even though she is over thirty is in fact a child who needs positive support in this difficult time.
Don't dance on her grave prematurely....it could be you next time.
Granny x
She has been told her cancer has spread to liver, bowel and groin. Today we have the news she has had a golf ball size tumor from her bowel... please remember how very scared she must be, wonder how you would cope.
I recommend you read an excellent article on Jade in The Independent 6th February 2009 by Deborah Orr....ex editor of NOW magazine who recognises the culpability of all of those of us who have avidly watched the 'reality shows' and how we have built up and have torn down human beings. The people in these shows are reflections of each and every one of us.
For goodness sake - allow some dignity to this poor 'child' who even though she is over thirty is in fact a child who needs positive support in this difficult time.
Don't dance on her grave prematurely....it could be you next time.
Granny x
Saturday, January 31, 2009
MUSIC TO LIFT THE SOUL
I really recommend Seal's new Album. Called Seal (Soul) it is brilliant, it is huge and I have loved his music from the begining. If you have any cash to spend for an extra treat yourself. Love Granny
THE NIGHTMARE BEGINS
If we are not careful the biggest financial world disaster ever that we are going through will spiral into massive disorder. The signs are there already, strikes and violence across the world. We have to stand together to get through it. I pray for us all. Love Granny xx
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
RHYDIAN
I am unashamedly sentimental. I want to offer a review in that vein. If you saw the X factor when Rhydian Roberts was the runner up...I felt then a sense of injustice for him. I have waited for his album to come out. It is outstanding and I feel that he shows wide power of voice and diction. He can do the big sounds and the soft sounds. He sings some of my very favourite songs, I purchased it today and immediately played 'Impossible Dream' which stands high on my list. I believe in the concept of striving for the best you can be, appropriate for today 20th January 2009 - and hope, optimism, duty, sacrifice and service.
LISTEN TO THE ALBUM WITH AN OPEN MIND AND BE LIFTED UP. love Granny xxx
LISTEN TO THE ALBUM WITH AN OPEN MIND AND BE LIFTED UP. love Granny xxx
TO DAY IS THE DAY
Barack Obama will become President of America and I pray for him and his family. To Hope. Love Granny xxx
Friday, January 09, 2009
ANNE FRANK
This last week there has been a fantastic BBC drama based on the Diary of Anne Frank. This was a superb production, with fantastic acting. I have always been a 'believer' of this story. So I wonder even more why the Isrealis do not see the behaviour they are replicating is what the Jews went through in the 1930's. I noted one particularly resonant line in this production which says it all really Anne writes "We wait for the allies to rescue us but all we get are bombs" so speaks a child across the decades. Following the last episode there was a playing of the documentary 'Anne Frank Remembered' again a programme worth watching in itself. How do you live in a society where so much is that is about you is banned.
Yes I know that the Hamas have been lobing bombs and that should be challenged and Yes Hamas are using the people as a human sheild. Why can't anybody see that to defeat these types of people you resist yes but show them up for what they are 'dastardly' and show yourselves to be better than them. Ostracise politically mindless thugs, dont kill the innocent. Love Granny
Yes I know that the Hamas have been lobing bombs and that should be challenged and Yes Hamas are using the people as a human sheild. Why can't anybody see that to defeat these types of people you resist yes but show them up for what they are 'dastardly' and show yourselves to be better than them. Ostracise politically mindless thugs, dont kill the innocent. Love Granny
Wednesday, January 07, 2009
THE COLD WAR
Forgive me from being cynical but with Russia once again turning off the 'Gas' to Ukraine could it be a huge coincidence that those most affected are ex soviet block states? A new 'Cold War' by any other name. I cannot think of a more cynical time, less than subtle, than at this time of year to complain about non payment of bills, when it is at its coldest.
None of the current world situations (other than the financial one) seem to be playing up to the up coming new US president.
I have been having serious debates and arguments with people about the Isreali and Gaza situation. I have always been strongly anti Nazi and so have read extensively about the rise of the Isreali state. I have argued many times that the Jews had a right to a state. In those arguements others always pointed out the terrorist activity of the Jews against Britain in Isreal (ie King David Hotel) and that many of the early political leaders had been terrorists. Indeed they were and I knew this because these were the books I had read. I say now as I say then one man's 'Freedom Fighter' is another mans 'Terrorist'.
If, as appears clear, people knew about these cross border tunnels from Eqypt - why didn't anybody fill them with cement, does not matter howmany times you have to do it, if you have to refill them constantly the enemy has to either re dig or relocate - keeping them engaged and off balance, they will get bored. Then if these rockets are as primative as they are said to be keep coming, why not deploy anti missile sites along that area and take them out before they reach their target! that is self-defence.
There - absolutely - has to be a way for two soverign states to exist in a difficult physical and finanical environment side by side to the benefit of both their peoples. Moderates must stand up against the radicals on both sides. Children are being killed which is unacceptable because the children are the future for both. Those young that will survive are now going to be radicalised - even more dangerous than before given the power of the internet in passing on information. If the Isrealis had been canny they could have long ago won the war against terror by being modern, forward thinking and engaging in new inivative ideas that soften up the enemy a bit like a laxitive you need to effectively expel them and this is done by isolating them from their potential support... To achieve the aims of peaceful statehood both sides have to stop sitting on the past and religious attitudes as justification for their actions - break the cycle by creating a new tradition, that is real selfdefence. I use the term 'Bullies' for both Isreal and Hamas.
Religion in my view is not necessarily a force for peace, the intolerance shown by various religions for others or even within their own institutions often leads (has often led) to conflict. Just look at the Orthadox Christians having a punch up over who does what in the holiest of Christian sites in the Holy Land - really it was handbags at dawn, silly rediculous behaviour from people who should know better. How can suicide bombers ever be held in esteem by religious leaders? Clearly good things have been done but these should never happen just to recruit new converts. Charity should have no religion nor should it be used to say one group is better than another.
I have just been very shocked by a TV programme 'Paul Mertons China' don;t get me wrong great programme. But please tell me that is wrong,as I see here, that families go to China to adopte abandoned female children. Frankly I was shocked that one family had a grown up family and now wanted to 'fill the nest'. Yes, of course there are elements of being able to give a better chance but at what cost. One woman said, she will be my child - an American child - while another women said of course you cannot hide different ethnic backgrounds so it is important that you introduce your child to their birth country. Clearly this separation of approach is not a good thing. Having said that I would have taken every child myself, mostly female given the one child policy and the desire for that one child to be male - what was I saying about bullies? My husband would say that I have entirely emotional responses, well yes indeed. Really adoption tourrism!!!!!
Actually I have never had a child of my own, much as I would have loved to, it was not to be my fate. I believe that it is not my right to demand as a woman that I be allowed to have to have a child, by any means. Children are bought into the world by many who show little thought as to how their child will grow up. Down I beleive to indivduals poor birth control and very often simply not saying NO. I believe that we have to help these children not just by adoption but by reorganising society. I have helped my husband with his three children and I now enjoy being a step grandmother to five. I think there is a role for surrogate grandmothers - being able to offer their love, advice and time. With an ageing population there will be plenty of candidates. Children are our responsibility not our property. They should not be for sale. Love Granny xxxx
None of the current world situations (other than the financial one) seem to be playing up to the up coming new US president.
I have been having serious debates and arguments with people about the Isreali and Gaza situation. I have always been strongly anti Nazi and so have read extensively about the rise of the Isreali state. I have argued many times that the Jews had a right to a state. In those arguements others always pointed out the terrorist activity of the Jews against Britain in Isreal (ie King David Hotel) and that many of the early political leaders had been terrorists. Indeed they were and I knew this because these were the books I had read. I say now as I say then one man's 'Freedom Fighter' is another mans 'Terrorist'.
If, as appears clear, people knew about these cross border tunnels from Eqypt - why didn't anybody fill them with cement, does not matter howmany times you have to do it, if you have to refill them constantly the enemy has to either re dig or relocate - keeping them engaged and off balance, they will get bored. Then if these rockets are as primative as they are said to be keep coming, why not deploy anti missile sites along that area and take them out before they reach their target! that is self-defence.
There - absolutely - has to be a way for two soverign states to exist in a difficult physical and finanical environment side by side to the benefit of both their peoples. Moderates must stand up against the radicals on both sides. Children are being killed which is unacceptable because the children are the future for both. Those young that will survive are now going to be radicalised - even more dangerous than before given the power of the internet in passing on information. If the Isrealis had been canny they could have long ago won the war against terror by being modern, forward thinking and engaging in new inivative ideas that soften up the enemy a bit like a laxitive you need to effectively expel them and this is done by isolating them from their potential support... To achieve the aims of peaceful statehood both sides have to stop sitting on the past and religious attitudes as justification for their actions - break the cycle by creating a new tradition, that is real selfdefence. I use the term 'Bullies' for both Isreal and Hamas.
Religion in my view is not necessarily a force for peace, the intolerance shown by various religions for others or even within their own institutions often leads (has often led) to conflict. Just look at the Orthadox Christians having a punch up over who does what in the holiest of Christian sites in the Holy Land - really it was handbags at dawn, silly rediculous behaviour from people who should know better. How can suicide bombers ever be held in esteem by religious leaders? Clearly good things have been done but these should never happen just to recruit new converts. Charity should have no religion nor should it be used to say one group is better than another.
I have just been very shocked by a TV programme 'Paul Mertons China' don;t get me wrong great programme. But please tell me that is wrong,as I see here, that families go to China to adopte abandoned female children. Frankly I was shocked that one family had a grown up family and now wanted to 'fill the nest'. Yes, of course there are elements of being able to give a better chance but at what cost. One woman said, she will be my child - an American child - while another women said of course you cannot hide different ethnic backgrounds so it is important that you introduce your child to their birth country. Clearly this separation of approach is not a good thing. Having said that I would have taken every child myself, mostly female given the one child policy and the desire for that one child to be male - what was I saying about bullies? My husband would say that I have entirely emotional responses, well yes indeed. Really adoption tourrism!!!!!
Actually I have never had a child of my own, much as I would have loved to, it was not to be my fate. I believe that it is not my right to demand as a woman that I be allowed to have to have a child, by any means. Children are bought into the world by many who show little thought as to how their child will grow up. Down I beleive to indivduals poor birth control and very often simply not saying NO. I believe that we have to help these children not just by adoption but by reorganising society. I have helped my husband with his three children and I now enjoy being a step grandmother to five. I think there is a role for surrogate grandmothers - being able to offer their love, advice and time. With an ageing population there will be plenty of candidates. Children are our responsibility not our property. They should not be for sale. Love Granny xxxx
Saturday, January 03, 2009
DREAMING OF SUMMER
You will have noted that I have posted some pictures of Skopelos taken in 2007, it is to try and send friends and readers a bit of sunshine. They show clearly why we like this Greek Island imagine sitting and having a coffee and letting the world pass you by. I am looking to project some positivity.
In my very cold garden today, there were 7 pigeons, a blackbird, a squirrel all challenging for the food put out. They always lift my spirits. Love Granny xxxx
In my very cold garden today, there were 7 pigeons, a blackbird, a squirrel all challenging for the food put out. They always lift my spirits. Love Granny xxxx
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!
I am probably going to step on some toes with this post. I am really tired of listening to the Israeli spokespersons who rabbit on about 'self defence' in their current action. The situation is unacceptable in the new world.
I do realise that the rockets into Israel from Gaza are wrong, but two wrongs do not make a right. Air strikes on such a scale over such a long period are totally disportionate and I believe that the 'Blockade of the Gaza' should be lifted. This is a self fulfilling prophecy and creates a cycle, the young people who are living through this bombardment will be radicalised and Hamas will benefit. The alternative is stronger than bombs, currently the Israeli actions are proving Hamas's point written in their charter. The Hamas are saying - see we told you so.
I do believe that Hamas are wrong but I do also think that when Israel remembers the Holocaust as a time when they were targeted, ghettoised, subject to attack because of their religion or perceived influence perhaps they will understand they are doing the same thing. They are doing the job of radicalising the young Arabs better than Hamas, they have put the militants in the Gaza area as the victims and themselves as aggressor in the eyes of some of the world.
History tells us what has happened in the past, it shows us the mistakes, it gives us a key to the future -just why is nobody listening. The children on both sides do not deserve this.
Granny sends her love to all people across the world what ever their religion. xx
I do realise that the rockets into Israel from Gaza are wrong, but two wrongs do not make a right. Air strikes on such a scale over such a long period are totally disportionate and I believe that the 'Blockade of the Gaza' should be lifted. This is a self fulfilling prophecy and creates a cycle, the young people who are living through this bombardment will be radicalised and Hamas will benefit. The alternative is stronger than bombs, currently the Israeli actions are proving Hamas's point written in their charter. The Hamas are saying - see we told you so.
I do believe that Hamas are wrong but I do also think that when Israel remembers the Holocaust as a time when they were targeted, ghettoised, subject to attack because of their religion or perceived influence perhaps they will understand they are doing the same thing. They are doing the job of radicalising the young Arabs better than Hamas, they have put the militants in the Gaza area as the victims and themselves as aggressor in the eyes of some of the world.
History tells us what has happened in the past, it shows us the mistakes, it gives us a key to the future -just why is nobody listening. The children on both sides do not deserve this.
Granny sends her love to all people across the world what ever their religion. xx
Friday, December 26, 2008
THE WRITE STUFF
Christmas has passed, for us as hoped, with our boys visiting and a quiet traditional meal. Presents openned and appreciated - a little booze and laughter.
My heart was sad for the British soldier who died in action on Christmas Eve, no happy Christmas for his poor family. I send them my prayers. My other saddness was for the loss of Harold Pinter and Eartha Kitt. I admired them both and always visioned myself the white and very English Eartha, all purring and leapoard skin....but more importantly her individualtiy, style and politics. She always kept faith with herself and that is all any of us can do. She really was Christmas, with 'Santa Baby' the great song. They were both anti war and spoke their minds and that is right also.
Two more people died in this country from guns a father and a young girl...shame on the people who carry guns. In America, a man who thought it was ok to dress as Santa and slaughter his ex family.....no no no no.
I also pray for the very lovely and brave Hannah Jones, the wisest of children who made up her mind not have more treatment for her myeloid leukaemia and to enjoy what life she had. She is wise and well older than her 13 years, but she had her Christmas She said " I knew it had been the best Christmas" Hear Hear.
On another bright note there were the dancing seals and the white deer in the New Forest. The robins were in my garden today and that filled my heart with joy. I watched again South Pacific, and loved it all over again - of course the only song for me is 'Some enchanted evening' am I a silly old romantic - you bet brother. Then of course there was the film 'Big' with my hero Tom Hanks at his best. I also love the Burbs and The Money Pit - films to relax with.
Mick gave me a perfect gift, my favourite perfume, Secret Obsession which I find so evocative. It is me, and I love it so. On instinct I gave a special gift...to my dear step grandaughter Rachel... I have seen her act recently in a play called 'A woman in Mind' which she directed and in which she stared I was mesmorised by her talent. She is 18 this year, she wants to go to uni to study philosophy so naturally I gave her a book on the subject to give her a heads up. Then as we discussed her recent purchase on ebay, the perfect pair of shoes (Italian of course) I then was inspired, My most treasured possession the 1920's dress I wore when I was in the Shaw play 'Overruled' orignal and beautifully handmade.. who better a person to take it into their care, someone who could bring it to life as it should be. 'Born Free, free as the roaring tide' This is her time - check out the Zebra ( a steal from Madacasgar)
The old boy is in an afternoon snooze mode and I am watching Madacasgar. 'And me skipper? I want you to look cute and cuddly' gosh the diologue is sensational - wacked out!!!!!!!!
Lets all pray for this year, perhaps listening to Rowan Williams may help....lets pray people won't lose their homes, their jobs their lives. My faith is firmly placed in the new American President (elect) Barack Obama who took time to scatter his grandmothers ashes, as he had taken time to see her before she died. He has a diverse family background and maybe that is the secret.
I have made a New Years resolution - I will make a difference. I love you all HAPPY NEW YEAR. Granny xxxx
My heart was sad for the British soldier who died in action on Christmas Eve, no happy Christmas for his poor family. I send them my prayers. My other saddness was for the loss of Harold Pinter and Eartha Kitt. I admired them both and always visioned myself the white and very English Eartha, all purring and leapoard skin....but more importantly her individualtiy, style and politics. She always kept faith with herself and that is all any of us can do. She really was Christmas, with 'Santa Baby' the great song. They were both anti war and spoke their minds and that is right also.
Two more people died in this country from guns a father and a young girl...shame on the people who carry guns. In America, a man who thought it was ok to dress as Santa and slaughter his ex family.....no no no no.
I also pray for the very lovely and brave Hannah Jones, the wisest of children who made up her mind not have more treatment for her myeloid leukaemia and to enjoy what life she had. She is wise and well older than her 13 years, but she had her Christmas She said " I knew it had been the best Christmas" Hear Hear.
On another bright note there were the dancing seals and the white deer in the New Forest. The robins were in my garden today and that filled my heart with joy. I watched again South Pacific, and loved it all over again - of course the only song for me is 'Some enchanted evening' am I a silly old romantic - you bet brother. Then of course there was the film 'Big' with my hero Tom Hanks at his best. I also love the Burbs and The Money Pit - films to relax with.
Mick gave me a perfect gift, my favourite perfume, Secret Obsession which I find so evocative. It is me, and I love it so. On instinct I gave a special gift...to my dear step grandaughter Rachel... I have seen her act recently in a play called 'A woman in Mind' which she directed and in which she stared I was mesmorised by her talent. She is 18 this year, she wants to go to uni to study philosophy so naturally I gave her a book on the subject to give her a heads up. Then as we discussed her recent purchase on ebay, the perfect pair of shoes (Italian of course) I then was inspired, My most treasured possession the 1920's dress I wore when I was in the Shaw play 'Overruled' orignal and beautifully handmade.. who better a person to take it into their care, someone who could bring it to life as it should be. 'Born Free, free as the roaring tide' This is her time - check out the Zebra ( a steal from Madacasgar)
The old boy is in an afternoon snooze mode and I am watching Madacasgar. 'And me skipper? I want you to look cute and cuddly' gosh the diologue is sensational - wacked out!!!!!!!!
Lets all pray for this year, perhaps listening to Rowan Williams may help....lets pray people won't lose their homes, their jobs their lives. My faith is firmly placed in the new American President (elect) Barack Obama who took time to scatter his grandmothers ashes, as he had taken time to see her before she died. He has a diverse family background and maybe that is the secret.
I have made a New Years resolution - I will make a difference. I love you all HAPPY NEW YEAR. Granny xxxx
Sunday, December 14, 2008
LITTLE DORRIT
There is no greater acting and production than that for the BBC programme LITLLE DORRIT. Three cheers. Lots of performances here for BAFTA awards and the like. It is a parable of our time. Love Granny
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
MORE CHAT
Putting on my fashion hat, last week with my grandson I visited Bluewater for the first time in ages. I was surprised to find it busy but not packed. I was impressed by Urban Outfitters set up but not the cost of the clothes there. It does have an original edge so I would look there for inspiration. I especially like the coloured opaque tights which I think look fab with decent black or demin shorts. I love patterned or lace tights. There was a neat 'stall' in the walk area that sold some stunning tights. I believe that clever use of tights, belts, wraps and other accessories can make an old outfit sharper.
I was disappointed with the Santa Grotto. Could have reflected the weather, which was pooring with rain and it is sited outside. There is also an Ice Rink, Fun Fair and Christmas market.
I have discovered why Bluewater is popular for Mums and Children - it's inside, silly me. But it still not clear that the shops access has really caught on.
I still advise people to read 'You' in the Mail on Sunday, my favourite magazine for about everything.
I am a huge fan of Gok Wan.
On a more serious note, YES YES YES Barack Obama won the US election..he is not going to have a secure financial situation to manage and it will be very difficult. I have huge concerns for his and his families safety. There is a disturbing number of white supremisist however loose as a group that will need to be watched very carefully. People should be judged on their character not their skin as Dr Martin Luther King Jnr so rightly said. And believe me I am judging these individuals on their character which is both flawed and murderous.
Love Granny
I was disappointed with the Santa Grotto. Could have reflected the weather, which was pooring with rain and it is sited outside. There is also an Ice Rink, Fun Fair and Christmas market.
I have discovered why Bluewater is popular for Mums and Children - it's inside, silly me. But it still not clear that the shops access has really caught on.
I still advise people to read 'You' in the Mail on Sunday, my favourite magazine for about everything.
I am a huge fan of Gok Wan.
On a more serious note, YES YES YES Barack Obama won the US election..he is not going to have a secure financial situation to manage and it will be very difficult. I have huge concerns for his and his families safety. There is a disturbing number of white supremisist however loose as a group that will need to be watched very carefully. People should be judged on their character not their skin as Dr Martin Luther King Jnr so rightly said. And believe me I am judging these individuals on their character which is both flawed and murderous.
Love Granny
DON'T BUY DOLPHIN SHOWERS.
My parents - in - law were persuaded to purchase an easy access shower system from Dolphin at a cost of £5,000. The work is at best described as botched and at worst ......... judge for yourself. The 'contracted' installer was useless, he managed to put in a new water pipe, tile over it then drill into the pipe it causing a flood not only in my inlaws bathroom but in the bathroom down stairs causing major damage. When the 'supervisors' attended to look at the situation - it was discovered the contractor had not even sealed in the unit either, leaving saying the job was done and safe. My husband advised his parents not to pay the final £500+ and wrote to Dolphin that he had done this. He told Dolphin not to bother his elderly and unwell parents but to deal with him....as yet only a single acknowledgement has been received, but the original instructions in his letter were ignored. The company have dragged their feet over the neighbours claim for damages caused by their worker and AS YET IT REMAINS UNRESOLVED. This has been going on for weeks..... the FINAL cheek has been that Dolphin wrote last week to my inlaws 'demanding' the final payment.
WOULD YOU PAY £5,000 FOR THIS indeed my pictures do not tell the whole story - it is so much worse, the original bathroom in terms of size is small. Yes there was a limited amount of tiling done, but my elderly parents-in-law, instead of waiting for their son and grandson to assist, painted the room themselves. I am sorry BUT if you are paying £5,000 for any work there has to be a competent installation with a professional finish. Dolphin have proved themselves as falling short.
MY ADVICE SHOP AROUND, LOOK AT EXAMPLES OF THE WORK DONE PREVIOUSLY, TAKE RECOMMENDATION AND DON'T BE CHATTED UP BY SALES PEOPLE FROM 'NATIONALLY RENOWNED' COMPANIES.
Love Granny
MORE TO SAY
I have always got a lot to say for myself and about the world.
Firstly adding to previous comments, I am horrified that the world finds itself in a dire position. Our leaders are still posturing - just get on with it otherwise there is no future for the worlds children.
Too many soldiers are dying in an unnecessary war. The recent period of rememberance really should have awoken up those in power, but of course it won't. To much money in arms sales!!!!!
Much has been said about the case of Baby P and if you have read my blog you will no doubt guess my views. This is probably the most dreadful of cases but let me tell you there are more cases out there. Just days after the news hit the media - two young children are stabbed to death by their mother.
I absolutely believe in accountability, checks and balances when taking children into care, but I do not hold to the dangerous theory that all children are best with their birth parents. 'Institutional Care' is also a difficult thing to manage I accept that, but because it is hard does not mean it should be written off, think quality. It does not mean huge unwhealdy institutions. Our problem has been to make a huge leap from 'something in place' to 'nothing in place'. I also know that you cannot take a child into emergency care unless you have people in the community who will act as short term emergency foster care. I actually believe that the 'experts' who have developed child development theories have a lot to answer for, because they have blinded people in the child care arena to common sense.
Children are our responsibility (to bring up safe and well) but not our property - the parents who maime and kill their children are selfish, selfcentre individuals, perhaps they do have their own issues but they need to be dealt with seperately from their role as parent. The people who take on the role of social interventionist need to make this clear distinction.
IT IS TIME TO STAND UP FOR CHILDREN AT RISK.
Love Granny
Firstly adding to previous comments, I am horrified that the world finds itself in a dire position. Our leaders are still posturing - just get on with it otherwise there is no future for the worlds children.
Too many soldiers are dying in an unnecessary war. The recent period of rememberance really should have awoken up those in power, but of course it won't. To much money in arms sales!!!!!
Much has been said about the case of Baby P and if you have read my blog you will no doubt guess my views. This is probably the most dreadful of cases but let me tell you there are more cases out there. Just days after the news hit the media - two young children are stabbed to death by their mother.
I absolutely believe in accountability, checks and balances when taking children into care, but I do not hold to the dangerous theory that all children are best with their birth parents. 'Institutional Care' is also a difficult thing to manage I accept that, but because it is hard does not mean it should be written off, think quality. It does not mean huge unwhealdy institutions. Our problem has been to make a huge leap from 'something in place' to 'nothing in place'. I also know that you cannot take a child into emergency care unless you have people in the community who will act as short term emergency foster care. I actually believe that the 'experts' who have developed child development theories have a lot to answer for, because they have blinded people in the child care arena to common sense.
Children are our responsibility (to bring up safe and well) but not our property - the parents who maime and kill their children are selfish, selfcentre individuals, perhaps they do have their own issues but they need to be dealt with seperately from their role as parent. The people who take on the role of social interventionist need to make this clear distinction.
IT IS TIME TO STAND UP FOR CHILDREN AT RISK.
Love Granny
Sunday, October 26, 2008
NEARLY THERE
Mick and I spent a great holiday in Turkey, but I do not recommend Marmaris to the elderly or faint hearted....It is blackpool on steroids.
We shall go again to Turkey in June. This is of course always assuming the credit crunch/global recession does not prevent us. I like the sun in Turkey - I was very brave and went topless and given my somewhat misshapen 'breast' I felt comfortable and relaxed.
The consultant oncologist tells me I don't have to see her again until 2011 -wow- I still keep my fingers crossed that the cancer does not spread.
I have to say that my shopping trips have really only been local and cheap. I haven't been to Bluewater for ages. I like the current trends and have raided my wardrobe and storage to revitalise them to bring them on trend. A little tartan in terms of belts and wraps. I have changed my hair making use of a dark blond to hide the grey rather than dark brown.
Grey and Black are my seasons colours, with dashes of colour to lift it. Add to this my one seasons big purchase a leopard print wrap cardigan with a pin catch to hold it together. It cost £24 and I think it is good value. I shall wear it with my long black wool dress, with black trousers, jeans and denim skirts.
I am sexing up a red lace dress with a red tights, red shoes, red earrings/bracelet, red handbags (I have two) - so it could be a 'redout'. Currently looking for a red belt that works. I am sexing up a gold dress which is a shift type in a jacquard fabric (sleeveless) same process - gold tights or worn with tanned legs, gold shoes (mules) gold belt (there must be the right one out there) Gold wrap.
Just got no where to go to wear these ideas. Purchased a nice large red slouch bag for £2.50 in Matalan - and a double brill humungas white linen bag in a Next sale for £7 and a long white linen skirt for the summer at £8 - not bad eh.
Continuing to watch my weight, my hips have all but disappeared - so hipsters are out.
The new must have for me is 'Secret Obsession' by Calvin Klein, it is just sumptious. Perhaps I will get lucky for Christmas. But I have spotted it for sale
at Debenhams in a set for £40 including 50ml eau de parfume and 100ml body lotion. Sounds good to me. I actually prefer body lotion for a subtle coverage.
Moving on lets hope Obama beats McCain and Palin. The world is in a scary place just now. What the hell are the banks playing at...and for god sake lets draw a line under the power plays of ministers, worthies, Rich chinless wonders who have inherited their dosh and oligarchs playing in secret. 'bout' time they paid up, building their wealth on the backs of the working class and third world societies. Bin them - get rid of them cut their power. I feel no sadness in the plight of high paid bankers and share players who have lost their jobs....should have gone to spec savers.
I am saying a pray for little 'Amy' murdered by her father thank god he was convicted.
I AM NEARLY THERE - RETIREMENT NEXT YEAR.
Love to all from Granny
We shall go again to Turkey in June. This is of course always assuming the credit crunch/global recession does not prevent us. I like the sun in Turkey - I was very brave and went topless and given my somewhat misshapen 'breast' I felt comfortable and relaxed.
The consultant oncologist tells me I don't have to see her again until 2011 -wow- I still keep my fingers crossed that the cancer does not spread.
I have to say that my shopping trips have really only been local and cheap. I haven't been to Bluewater for ages. I like the current trends and have raided my wardrobe and storage to revitalise them to bring them on trend. A little tartan in terms of belts and wraps. I have changed my hair making use of a dark blond to hide the grey rather than dark brown.
Grey and Black are my seasons colours, with dashes of colour to lift it. Add to this my one seasons big purchase a leopard print wrap cardigan with a pin catch to hold it together. It cost £24 and I think it is good value. I shall wear it with my long black wool dress, with black trousers, jeans and denim skirts.
I am sexing up a red lace dress with a red tights, red shoes, red earrings/bracelet, red handbags (I have two) - so it could be a 'redout'. Currently looking for a red belt that works. I am sexing up a gold dress which is a shift type in a jacquard fabric (sleeveless) same process - gold tights or worn with tanned legs, gold shoes (mules) gold belt (there must be the right one out there) Gold wrap.
Just got no where to go to wear these ideas. Purchased a nice large red slouch bag for £2.50 in Matalan - and a double brill humungas white linen bag in a Next sale for £7 and a long white linen skirt for the summer at £8 - not bad eh.
Continuing to watch my weight, my hips have all but disappeared - so hipsters are out.
The new must have for me is 'Secret Obsession' by Calvin Klein, it is just sumptious. Perhaps I will get lucky for Christmas. But I have spotted it for sale
at Debenhams in a set for £40 including 50ml eau de parfume and 100ml body lotion. Sounds good to me. I actually prefer body lotion for a subtle coverage.
Moving on lets hope Obama beats McCain and Palin. The world is in a scary place just now. What the hell are the banks playing at...and for god sake lets draw a line under the power plays of ministers, worthies, Rich chinless wonders who have inherited their dosh and oligarchs playing in secret. 'bout' time they paid up, building their wealth on the backs of the working class and third world societies. Bin them - get rid of them cut their power. I feel no sadness in the plight of high paid bankers and share players who have lost their jobs....should have gone to spec savers.
I am saying a pray for little 'Amy' murdered by her father thank god he was convicted.
I AM NEARLY THERE - RETIREMENT NEXT YEAR.
Love to all from Granny
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
NATURE WONDER
On Monday I had a shock, I looked out into my garden and noticed on the roof of my neighbours shed a Blackbird, spread eagled wings out. I had never seen anything like it and became concerned that it had been 'Catd'. I went to use Mick's new camera to capture an image, and did then the bird moved I snapped again and then off it went. It had been warming itself, sunbathing if you like. My Mum says she has seen this before, but I never have even heard about it.
Yesterday and today Mick and I have been woken by an unsual bird noise. When we checked it out there on the front public garden area were two Woodpeckers. One appeared to be adult the other juvenile. They were in a feeding frenzie and had found a ready source in the cracks of the pavement slabs for which their slim long beaks are perfectly adapted. The early bird catches the worm, is an old saying but these two were the thinking early birds. I saw the adult also feed the juvenile. They walked!!!! all over the area and up our front path. Another adult set up an alarm when Smudge the cat wondered up to have a look and the two flew into the Silver Birch doing the Woodpecker thing of hanging on the bark. On the first day I saw the two WP's a Blackbird and a Thrush. Today the two WP's a Blackbird, a Wren and a Squirrel, all from my bedroom window what more can I ask. Love Granny
Yesterday and today Mick and I have been woken by an unsual bird noise. When we checked it out there on the front public garden area were two Woodpeckers. One appeared to be adult the other juvenile. They were in a feeding frenzie and had found a ready source in the cracks of the pavement slabs for which their slim long beaks are perfectly adapted. The early bird catches the worm, is an old saying but these two were the thinking early birds. I saw the adult also feed the juvenile. They walked!!!! all over the area and up our front path. Another adult set up an alarm when Smudge the cat wondered up to have a look and the two flew into the Silver Birch doing the Woodpecker thing of hanging on the bark. On the first day I saw the two WP's a Blackbird and a Thrush. Today the two WP's a Blackbird, a Wren and a Squirrel, all from my bedroom window what more can I ask. Love Granny
MUCH TO SAY
Child deaths, children killing children and a moral panic about knives. Historically speaking young people have been demonised and blamed for crime, and the gang thing is not new. How short are our memories, Teddy Boys, Mods and Rockers, skinheads etc etc indeed the changes in our law's over the years reflect this. I do agree that there is a 'problem' but I do think society gets what it demands, freedom from state intervention one of the results of this is what we have now. Poor schooling, poor policing not because the teachers and officers want to step back society demands it. So there needs to be a debate about what society needs in order to function without fear. Freedom of life styles and behaviour or rules of behaviour. Look at the interviews with some parents who have abdicated responsibility for preparing young people for life and work. I am fed up with hearing 'I can't keep an eye on them 24 hours a day' excuse from parents. I do however believe that children are not property to be owned any more than a woman is the property of a man, I do believe that parents have responsibility from conception to the point when a child becomes and adult. If they don't want this responsibility then don't have the child.
Six young people died in a terrible car accident with a lorry, anybody with any sense looking at the scene from the air, can see why this accident happened and it was not the lorry drivers fault. What do we hear that the parent of one victim blames the police for seizing the uninsured vehicle driven and used by 4 of them he said that if the police had not abandoned the young people to make their way home they would not be dead. It was the drivers choice to break the law on insurance (and carry passengers) and then to phone the driver of the crash vehicle to come and get them and not the parents who might have helped. Six people in a Mondeo are too many all of this was the choice of the six and reflects their inexperience. I repeat the underused 'R' word responsibility.
The financial situation in the world is entirely a reflection of the greed of the elites of the world wanting more and more and for big and small corporations trying to make a fast buck. This has meant that the developing industrial countries have raced to meet this demand with out measured and considered growth. It is of course the 'anyperson' who will suffer but the money bags of whom there are only a few (the Mr/Mrs Bigs) and who control the global corporations will sit nicely to pick up the pieces.
Congestion, the easy way to express this is DRIVE according to the rules, don't block roundabouts and other junctions, don't push out, push in. Bus drivers are very guilty of this when a bus across a road with frankly no where to go cause additional congestion to the one they see around them.
My views on China are well known, however following the earthquake I have had the people in my heart, and for once a large army has paid dividends. The Panda's also are in my thoughts, thank god some people have been in a position to spare their time for them. Again my heart has been with the children orphand by the quake. How different were my thoughts for the cyclone victims so badly let down by their govenment.
What can I say about Mugabe, disgusting example of dictatorship and how democracy can be used to hold people down. But hey arn't the 'EU' also treating the Irish referendum vote with contempt, have a vote and keep to it. Love Granny
Six young people died in a terrible car accident with a lorry, anybody with any sense looking at the scene from the air, can see why this accident happened and it was not the lorry drivers fault. What do we hear that the parent of one victim blames the police for seizing the uninsured vehicle driven and used by 4 of them he said that if the police had not abandoned the young people to make their way home they would not be dead. It was the drivers choice to break the law on insurance (and carry passengers) and then to phone the driver of the crash vehicle to come and get them and not the parents who might have helped. Six people in a Mondeo are too many all of this was the choice of the six and reflects their inexperience. I repeat the underused 'R' word responsibility.
The financial situation in the world is entirely a reflection of the greed of the elites of the world wanting more and more and for big and small corporations trying to make a fast buck. This has meant that the developing industrial countries have raced to meet this demand with out measured and considered growth. It is of course the 'anyperson' who will suffer but the money bags of whom there are only a few (the Mr/Mrs Bigs) and who control the global corporations will sit nicely to pick up the pieces.
Congestion, the easy way to express this is DRIVE according to the rules, don't block roundabouts and other junctions, don't push out, push in. Bus drivers are very guilty of this when a bus across a road with frankly no where to go cause additional congestion to the one they see around them.
My views on China are well known, however following the earthquake I have had the people in my heart, and for once a large army has paid dividends. The Panda's also are in my thoughts, thank god some people have been in a position to spare their time for them. Again my heart has been with the children orphand by the quake. How different were my thoughts for the cyclone victims so badly let down by their govenment.
What can I say about Mugabe, disgusting example of dictatorship and how democracy can be used to hold people down. But hey arn't the 'EU' also treating the Irish referendum vote with contempt, have a vote and keep to it. Love Granny
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Thursday, April 17, 2008
FASHIONISTA
I was very lucky today, I had the chance to walk through Canary Wharf shopping mall. I have to say I believe that some of the high street companies provide different goods for different stores. There is some terrific clothes in Top Shop, including a really nice sheer nylon!!! I think, dress in various shades, there are some nice jackets.
But the best shop was Hobbs, - a fantastic dress in white and a suit in white (same fabric as the dress) to die for. Buy both and you would have the perfect capsual wardrobe, mix it with some of the great shirts, bags and shoes that are out there. Sharpen the business look, freshen up
Monsoon is worth a visit but the prices are way too much at this location Accessorise is part of the same outlet, great for linking things together.
I have decided to try a fashion faux pas, yes thats right I am going to be an old bird wearing young girls styles. I like the shorts that are out there, worn with opaque tights change the colours for the day and night, boots or shoes (same colour) do the boho thing on the top half or 'T' shirts (my fav are the vest) a great summer look. I shall put the look together cheaply, with Cotton medium length cargo shorts.
I am preparing for the Race for Life by walking a mile a day...I hope to loose my belly so that those shorts I am going to buy might look half reasonable. I got some cool kit for the walk, very pink.
I still love the WRAP catalogue but the cost, well I just can't afford to buy all the things I want no make that anything even one item. Do check out the simple lines. www.wraponline.co.uk very stylish and classical give yourself some style ideas. Baggy linen trousers, sweet linen jackets, lovely long skirts in a range of delicious colours. All very New England... Plus the straw hat look that is out there, either trilby style or stetson. I am a stetson person myself.
The pencil skirt is back in fashion, go for it. I love it and it is very sexy.
Style magazine (the Sunday Times) and You magazine (the Sunday Times) fly the flag weekly for good fashion, food and life style items I recommend you read if you get the opportunity.
Three cheers for Leona Lewis, she is very good and she has hit the US market running, top single and album from the off. She is also very pretty I just hope she doesnt get spoilt. I also like Duffy as well, I enjoy her sound. More three cheers, Nigel Kennedy is back and playing excellent.
Oh and while I am at it....Viva Cuba.
I am with Rhys Jones family at this time supporting them and hoping that justice is done.
Lots of Love Granny xxx
But the best shop was Hobbs, - a fantastic dress in white and a suit in white (same fabric as the dress) to die for. Buy both and you would have the perfect capsual wardrobe, mix it with some of the great shirts, bags and shoes that are out there. Sharpen the business look, freshen up
Monsoon is worth a visit but the prices are way too much at this location Accessorise is part of the same outlet, great for linking things together.
I have decided to try a fashion faux pas, yes thats right I am going to be an old bird wearing young girls styles. I like the shorts that are out there, worn with opaque tights change the colours for the day and night, boots or shoes (same colour) do the boho thing on the top half or 'T' shirts (my fav are the vest) a great summer look. I shall put the look together cheaply, with Cotton medium length cargo shorts.
I am preparing for the Race for Life by walking a mile a day...I hope to loose my belly so that those shorts I am going to buy might look half reasonable. I got some cool kit for the walk, very pink.
I still love the WRAP catalogue but the cost, well I just can't afford to buy all the things I want no make that anything even one item. Do check out the simple lines. www.wraponline.co.uk very stylish and classical give yourself some style ideas. Baggy linen trousers, sweet linen jackets, lovely long skirts in a range of delicious colours. All very New England... Plus the straw hat look that is out there, either trilby style or stetson. I am a stetson person myself.
The pencil skirt is back in fashion, go for it. I love it and it is very sexy.
Style magazine (the Sunday Times) and You magazine (the Sunday Times) fly the flag weekly for good fashion, food and life style items I recommend you read if you get the opportunity.
Three cheers for Leona Lewis, she is very good and she has hit the US market running, top single and album from the off. She is also very pretty I just hope she doesnt get spoilt. I also like Duffy as well, I enjoy her sound. More three cheers, Nigel Kennedy is back and playing excellent.
Oh and while I am at it....Viva Cuba.
I am with Rhys Jones family at this time supporting them and hoping that justice is done.
Lots of Love Granny xxx
Sunday, April 06, 2008
ARE THEY MAD
I am very angry, the anti china protest would have been so much more effective if the crowd had turned their backs on the flame rather than getting all hot under the collar. It was easy to see the hand of China in the 'coordination' - witness the scene out side 10 Downing Street with a 'torch attendant' pushing people around so the camera gets a good photo call. The world have seen the true nature of the government of China, not un like Mugaba and his 'Free and Fair elections'. What a joke. Chinas idea of peace and friendship - is do as I say or else. We know exactly they images the chinese people will see on state TV.
I support the atheletes whole heartedly. I feel angry that police officers were placed in the unenviable position of trying to keep the thing moving along over a 31 mile route....absolutely ridiculous. Why should our officers be used as a political tool....the protestors by being predictable have shot themselves in the foot. One stupid woman even took a child on her demo he looked terrified. I will pray for all the officers, I hope they get home safely tonight. Imagine trying to cycle or run in uniform for the whole 31 miles and what do you do with a bike when you are pulled to the ground?
How much more worth while was the programme yesterday about the Terracota Army at the British Museum...fascinating. But even that allowed us to see how repressive the government is, by compulsorarily moving people (thousands of them) from their land to carry out excavations. In other cases they have moved people to build a dam. The poor chinese are prisoners of the regime treated as 'drones'.
Tibet is Tibet and should be free.
Turn the TV's off during the Olympics and make a clear point.
Love Granny xx
I support the atheletes whole heartedly. I feel angry that police officers were placed in the unenviable position of trying to keep the thing moving along over a 31 mile route....absolutely ridiculous. Why should our officers be used as a political tool....the protestors by being predictable have shot themselves in the foot. One stupid woman even took a child on her demo he looked terrified. I will pray for all the officers, I hope they get home safely tonight. Imagine trying to cycle or run in uniform for the whole 31 miles and what do you do with a bike when you are pulled to the ground?
How much more worth while was the programme yesterday about the Terracota Army at the British Museum...fascinating. But even that allowed us to see how repressive the government is, by compulsorarily moving people (thousands of them) from their land to carry out excavations. In other cases they have moved people to build a dam. The poor chinese are prisoners of the regime treated as 'drones'.
Tibet is Tibet and should be free.
Turn the TV's off during the Olympics and make a clear point.
Love Granny xx
ROBINS FLY THE NEST
Our robin chicks fledged leaving the parents disoriented. They spent a day flying around the their old beats in confusion. At one stage they sat side beside each other on the fence.
Love Granny xxx
Love Granny xxx
Friday, March 28, 2008
GOOD NEWS
I heard yesterday that I have the all clear from my biopsy. I had a personal call from my breast care nurse. They are there to respond to my concerns at any time. I want to thank again Mr Hoque my consultant and his staff at the Queen Mary's. SAVE QUEEN MARY'S HOSPITAL SIDCUP. Local hospitals are so important as are local fire stations and police stations.
I have been delighted to hear and see that Josie Russell appears to be doing well after the awful attack that killed her Mum and sister Megan. I pray her life will remain quite and calm.
I have received several very generous sponsorship pledges already so Thank You, Thank You to all. I am really looking forward to the Race although I will walk it rather than run (except perhaps short bursts)
I am some putting some names out in the ether to try and find out information about them, they are women about who I am writing in my PhD.
Jean Stratton born in Dundee
Margaretta Gibson Low born in Edinburgh
Love Granny xxx
I have been delighted to hear and see that Josie Russell appears to be doing well after the awful attack that killed her Mum and sister Megan. I pray her life will remain quite and calm.
I have received several very generous sponsorship pledges already so Thank You, Thank You to all. I am really looking forward to the Race although I will walk it rather than run (except perhaps short bursts)
I am some putting some names out in the ether to try and find out information about them, they are women about who I am writing in my PhD.
Jean Stratton born in Dundee
Margaretta Gibson Low born in Edinburgh
Love Granny xxx
Monday, March 24, 2008
Dear friends, you all know about my cancer - well I have decided to take part in the Race For Life to raise money for research in cancer to give something back. This is my small effort because unless the research had not been done I would probably not be here. My best friend Maggie was diagnosed almost a year to the day from my diagnosis so it is for her. My colleague Ian - his wife has terminal lung cancer and has been told that it is now in her spine. So it is for her. Another colleague died last week from cancer so it is in memory of him. Our health is the most precious thing we have. My dear dad Ralph also died from cancer in 2001 so it is for him. My dear Auntie Vickie died of cancer a year ago, so it is for her. I try to live a healthy life style. I know however that Cancer can strike anyone.
I have chosen to run around The City of London on April 1st 2008.
Below is the official online sponsorship form and this is my own page in the official site as you can see how I am doing.
http://www.raceforlifesponsorme.org/helenbarnard2
I have chosen to run around The City of London on April 1st 2008.
Below is the official online sponsorship form and this is my own page in the official site as you can see how I am doing.
http://www.raceforlifesponsorme.org/helenbarnard2
Sunday, March 23, 2008
TALKING FASHION
I visited Bluewater of Thursday after having seen my consultant and having the little biopsy....why I hear you mutter. Well I hoped that it would cheer me up. What was there to titillate my taste buds. Indeed I found little, all the usual shops are there and I as I wandered around I noted that there were the usual suspects shopping, people with more money than sense. The ridiculous cost of clothing and some of the cheap copies of cat walk innovations (I strongly support the fashion show system as an ideas venue) poorly finished especially hems and buttons.
The places that really disapointed were Accessorize and East.
H and M had some simple cotton skirts ideal for the beach. I am also inclinded to think that the linen/cotton longer shorts with a waist tie and on the baggy side which at the moment might work for me on the beach rather than sarongs. I have noted some attempts at kaftans on the market, forget these try the real deal from north africa (as warn by Abdel in 'You' magazine p 43 in blue and white. I used to have similar when I went to Tunisa and Morocco I purchased a few and I loved wearing them.
Despite my less than satisfying trip to Bluewater I was lucky to find a Robert Wilson crime novel to take on holiday should we go - I love his books. I also found some Ruby and Millie makeup which I like a lot.
My better shopping was done in some Sidcup secondhand shops. A beautiful stretch devoire dress in maroon, and long and coloumn like, I have some great accessories to alter the overall look. I found a nice pair of black velvet trousers brand new in from Next.
Keep it simple, go for good fabrics and finish.
Love Granny xxxx
Let me highlight a beautiful dress in the Sunday Mail 'You' magazine dated 23rd (today) (page 15) It is long sleveless and slinky in black with wonderful blue and yellow flowers in the skirt. Stocked by Banana Republic (bananarepublic.eu) I love this dress, at £75 not so bad a cost. This is a dress I would wear. Again I state this magazine is worth a read on fashion issues and it is weekly.
The places that really disapointed were Accessorize and East.
H and M had some simple cotton skirts ideal for the beach. I am also inclinded to think that the linen/cotton longer shorts with a waist tie and on the baggy side which at the moment might work for me on the beach rather than sarongs. I have noted some attempts at kaftans on the market, forget these try the real deal from north africa (as warn by Abdel in 'You' magazine p 43 in blue and white. I used to have similar when I went to Tunisa and Morocco I purchased a few and I loved wearing them.
Despite my less than satisfying trip to Bluewater I was lucky to find a Robert Wilson crime novel to take on holiday should we go - I love his books. I also found some Ruby and Millie makeup which I like a lot.
My better shopping was done in some Sidcup secondhand shops. A beautiful stretch devoire dress in maroon, and long and coloumn like, I have some great accessories to alter the overall look. I found a nice pair of black velvet trousers brand new in from Next.
Keep it simple, go for good fabrics and finish.
Love Granny xxxx
Let me highlight a beautiful dress in the Sunday Mail 'You' magazine dated 23rd (today) (page 15) It is long sleveless and slinky in black with wonderful blue and yellow flowers in the skirt. Stocked by Banana Republic (bananarepublic.eu) I love this dress, at £75 not so bad a cost. This is a dress I would wear. Again I state this magazine is worth a read on fashion issues and it is weekly.
Saturday, March 22, 2008
HEALTH UP DATE
I have been so well recently that almost forget that I still have my cancer. I had a little glitch this week.. I had a small 'spot' on my scar. I was worried so I was glad I was due to see my consultant this week, when I did he did a 'punch biopsy' to clarify if it was something serious or a small infection.. either way I have to wait for two weeks. It has depressed me a bit, because I know that it can come back anywhere any time.
My dear friend Ian's wife who has terminal lung cancer learnt recently that it has migrated to her spine. She can have no more chemo so they are trying to radio it. My heart is with them both all the tiem.
Sadly a colleague called Mick Daly died last week from cancer - a recent diagnosis. My heart is with his family at this sad time, what can you say to make it less painful.
Patrick Swazie has his own cancer battle and Dame Maggie Smith.
Life is fleeting... it is about how we live our life rather than length and each of the above has 'lived'.
Love Granny xxx
My dear friend Ian's wife who has terminal lung cancer learnt recently that it has migrated to her spine. She can have no more chemo so they are trying to radio it. My heart is with them both all the tiem.
Sadly a colleague called Mick Daly died last week from cancer - a recent diagnosis. My heart is with his family at this sad time, what can you say to make it less painful.
Patrick Swazie has his own cancer battle and Dame Maggie Smith.
Life is fleeting... it is about how we live our life rather than length and each of the above has 'lived'.
Love Granny xxx
IN MY GARDEN
Today it is so cold and even snowy that I am worrying for our Robin chicks. The adult birds have been very busy feeding over the last two days. We have seen the grubs in the mouths of both birds. They have a set flight plan using our garden chairs as a stop off to check out for preditors then fly into the nest. They have not been able to feed themselves so Mick put out seed and this morning the birds were feeding like crazy - probably to build up reserves for the coming awful weather. I hope the chicks survive the cold.
Talk about cheek.... we spotted super squirel making use of our bird table, which has a roof. There he sat eating nut after nut under the shelter of the roof...it was raining...clever old thing.
Love Granny xxx
Talk about cheek.... we spotted super squirel making use of our bird table, which has a roof. There he sat eating nut after nut under the shelter of the roof...it was raining...clever old thing.
Love Granny xxx
TIBET
There is no greater injustice than the Chinese occupation of Tibet, if you believe the controlled media output coming from the Chinese - then wake up. If you can't see that China bans foreign media for the reason that it does not want 'You' to know what is really happening. Only a country with something to hide does this, witness Mugabe in Zimbabwe. The rich and powerful in both states are the winners, keeping the poor down and controlled - the corruption of commercialism. Do whatever you can, the smallest effort can move mountains - never forget, don't ignore it (it's in your back yard and could happen anywhere)
Support the Dalai Lama - peaceful demonstration and non violent action - raise voices in protest telling our politicians to pressure the Chinese government - you have the Olympics that does not give you carte blanch to ride rough shod over other peoples in fact it is the opposite. The Chinese are breaching the Olympic ideals.
This Easter people around the world are being crucified for freedom - Easter should be a time for the Christian voice to speak out on behalf of others, regardless of their religion.
Love Granny xxx
Support the Dalai Lama - peaceful demonstration and non violent action - raise voices in protest telling our politicians to pressure the Chinese government - you have the Olympics that does not give you carte blanch to ride rough shod over other peoples in fact it is the opposite. The Chinese are breaching the Olympic ideals.
This Easter people around the world are being crucified for freedom - Easter should be a time for the Christian voice to speak out on behalf of others, regardless of their religion.
Love Granny xxx
Thursday, March 13, 2008
TOWER HAMLETS CHILDREN
Today I attended a training day for 8-13 year olds from Tower Hamlets borough, the topic was Hate and Faith Crime. It was held at Oxford House. I was so impressed with the young people, who had a strong voice and were wise beyond their years and we as a society underestimate them. They deserve the people who teach them to be the best that they can. We had some guest speakers at the end of the day and the children listened carefully to some very dry comments. This was a multiracial group of kids, getting on together, adults take note. I was even a tree covered with postits with their ideas on Hate crime, even on my nose! but think it through, we have to advise children about Hate Crime, what a sad world.
It was a real privilige to meet these kids, who if you talk to them frankly and honestly respond so well.
PS I LOVE BETHNAL GREEN (TOWER HAMLETS ALL OVER) it has colour and life.
Love Granny xxxx
It was a real privilige to meet these kids, who if you talk to them frankly and honestly respond so well.
PS I LOVE BETHNAL GREEN (TOWER HAMLETS ALL OVER) it has colour and life.
Love Granny xxxx
Monday, March 10, 2008
CULTURE
Listen to the Robert Plant and Alison Krauss album, well I like it!!! Discovered the Culture Show on BBC 2 Saturday, excellent..... excellent group The Editors. Think Nigel Kennedy still fab after all these years. Watch Coast if you can because you get to look at how beautiful Britain is. Music is the greatest therapy.
Love Granny xxx
Love Granny xxx
OUT SPOKEN LADY
News is my drug and I have views about everything - the current picture is not any exception.
Well done to Bjork, lets get real about China. I believe that the Olympics should not be held there so in my small way I shall boycott watching this summer. Talk about commercial interests prostituting themselves....there has been no move on Human Rights or pollution. The sponsors are hoping for big bucks, lots of coverage SO LET'S BOYCOTT THE GAMES. The Chinese are so selective in their conservation issues as well but do still promote traditional medicine for which many animals must die. MONEY talks, stand up against it.
A man killed himself, his passengers and three others because he was overtaking...a man described as loving speed and convicted drink driver....if ever an example for removing these drivers from the road this is it. He was always going to kill, he had a warning which he ignored so he is a murderer.
Sharron Matthews remains missing, let's all call out....own up bring her back of give her mother closure. JOIN TOGETHER to bring her back. Someone has lied and is still lying.
My heart goes out to the family of Carol Barnes, who died following a stroke. She was part of my growing love for news.
Please support with your prayers Amy Maria Molloy at 23 a widow, her husband died of cancer eight months ago. Read her article in 'You' the Sunday Mail 9th March 2008.
NEW'S NEW'S NEW'S LOVE GRANNY.
Well done to Bjork, lets get real about China. I believe that the Olympics should not be held there so in my small way I shall boycott watching this summer. Talk about commercial interests prostituting themselves....there has been no move on Human Rights or pollution. The sponsors are hoping for big bucks, lots of coverage SO LET'S BOYCOTT THE GAMES. The Chinese are so selective in their conservation issues as well but do still promote traditional medicine for which many animals must die. MONEY talks, stand up against it.
A man killed himself, his passengers and three others because he was overtaking...a man described as loving speed and convicted drink driver....if ever an example for removing these drivers from the road this is it. He was always going to kill, he had a warning which he ignored so he is a murderer.
Sharron Matthews remains missing, let's all call out....own up bring her back of give her mother closure. JOIN TOGETHER to bring her back. Someone has lied and is still lying.
My heart goes out to the family of Carol Barnes, who died following a stroke. She was part of my growing love for news.
Please support with your prayers Amy Maria Molloy at 23 a widow, her husband died of cancer eight months ago. Read her article in 'You' the Sunday Mail 9th March 2008.
NEW'S NEW'S NEW'S LOVE GRANNY.
I HAVE TO SPEAK OUT - ITS MY DUTY
ODE TO MARTYN (Martyn Compton, Lance Corporal)
I looked at the screen
I saw your face
disfigured by fire - by war.
I looked at the screen
I heard you speak
made stronger by war
I looked at the screen
and screamed at the set
why again, how many more?
This is a look I have seen before.
Identity blurred not diminished
the fire in your eyes.
Martyn the man
Like so many before
victims of war.
Soldering - governments demand.
Then government must pay.
Love Granny
I looked at the screen
I saw your face
disfigured by fire - by war.
I looked at the screen
I heard you speak
made stronger by war
I looked at the screen
and screamed at the set
why again, how many more?
This is a look I have seen before.
Identity blurred not diminished
the fire in your eyes.
Martyn the man
Like so many before
victims of war.
Soldering - governments demand.
Then government must pay.
Love Granny
Saturday, February 23, 2008
JAYS TAKE THE DAY
During the last week I noticed two Jays (that is a bird) trying to eat from the bird feeders in mine and my neighbours garden. This was quite odd since these birds are of a similar size to Magpies - that is big. the feeders are designed to feed very small birds who can hover. One Jay tried to hover at my feeder then tried to get at it by sitting on the bird table and the sat on the shed roof looking and I could almost see his brain working as to how to deal with the problem.
The next day two Jays tried to deal with my neighbours bird feeder they tried and tried. Does this mean food is really short in the natural environment?
Today I heard the most beautiful bird song, a tiny brown bird, I do not know what bird it was.
I spent a lovely day with my Mum, to celebrater her birthday and took her out for a meal. We nag each other but all in good humour.
Let us hope that Shannon Matthews aged 9 is found soon. Let us be straight about this, the chances are she will not be found - there is a story here. EVERY CHILD MATTERS!!!!!!!!!!!
Shoes with no heels, oh please what a stupid idea....to balance only on your toes will damage to legs and back. ALL VERY STUPID.
I did not like the Brits - all very silly except it was nice to see and hear Amy Winehous looking so much better. Beth Ditto showed what a large woman can do with red, good on you girl.
I want to see some more style around the clothes are so drab and mundane this season. Come on high street - dress real women.
Love Granny xxxx
The next day two Jays tried to deal with my neighbours bird feeder they tried and tried. Does this mean food is really short in the natural environment?
Today I heard the most beautiful bird song, a tiny brown bird, I do not know what bird it was.
I spent a lovely day with my Mum, to celebrater her birthday and took her out for a meal. We nag each other but all in good humour.
Let us hope that Shannon Matthews aged 9 is found soon. Let us be straight about this, the chances are she will not be found - there is a story here. EVERY CHILD MATTERS!!!!!!!!!!!
Shoes with no heels, oh please what a stupid idea....to balance only on your toes will damage to legs and back. ALL VERY STUPID.
I did not like the Brits - all very silly except it was nice to see and hear Amy Winehous looking so much better. Beth Ditto showed what a large woman can do with red, good on you girl.
I want to see some more style around the clothes are so drab and mundane this season. Come on high street - dress real women.
Love Granny xxxx
Monday, February 18, 2008
PIGEONS ON ICE
My garden and that of my neighbours remain a hive of activity. The robins would appear to definately be back, nest building in the same location as before. I have also noticed the crows are actively building in the cemetary pine trees. It has to be spring in the air, because the squirrels were belting around the trees chasing each other round and round the trunks. The Pigeons were quite daring this morning, still in the edge of my neighbours pond which was frozen giving them a quandry since this is 'their' watering hole. Then as I watched one pigeon stepped on to the ice, and walked carefully while looking for a small break. The sun was shining and the heavy frost was melting, as if steam it was rising from the shed roof. Thank god for spring.
You will know how much I love fashion. I have been very disappointed with the way the high street have translated designs.
Let me recommend a wonderful fashion record published by Hello, it costs £6 but very put together. Let me make it clear this is about looking at high fashion and design, some you should only wear on the 'red carpet' but this is an ideas book that you can use to put together look.
I can see I will be using my collection of bangles.
I do like the following, Michael Kors page 13 sharp light trousers and sleeveless belted blouse. Chanel have a number of nice pieces, including a red and white sleeveless dress - other things I don't like.
The fabrics are stunning in all the collections but Christian Lacroix - a brilliant designer, but you have to be a certain person to wear the fabrics, there are some colours and patterns that could swamp any individual. He does have a nice black and white suit, page 74. Dior has a great three peice suit in black with a white stripe. They also have a lovely dress on page 96. I love the Stella McCartney jumpsuit, long, blue and white. Alexander McQueen has a fabulous suit in a check fabric and pleated skirt page 159. Vivienne Westwood produced a sensational black dress which I would love to own. Versace has a beautiful sea green dress page 203, simply cut with a fabulous belt. There is a similar one in brown. In both these dresses the fabric counts so if you buy a high street version, it may not work because of creasing....but love the shoes at this show. Just look at the Versace trousers and blouse on page 207 Chic, chic, chic. BY THE WAY Vivienne Westwood does some fabulous perfume....Libertine is my favourite.
I loved Roberto Cavali use of colour, lilac, lavender and blue in his very floaty collection shown on pages 216/217.
Some of the Giorgio Armani items are fabulous, the tops are the best, I especially love the jackets on page 251.
I loved Marc Jacobs '9' dress on page 269 in an orange - sensational.
Calvin Klein, is brilliant - all very simple beautiful colours, fab trousers, fab shoes p 272 to 275.
All are easy to copy.
Please..... look at the web pages about Kelsey Briggs, and the video on you tube about her.....stop child abuse.
Granny loves yer xxxxx
You will know how much I love fashion. I have been very disappointed with the way the high street have translated designs.
Let me recommend a wonderful fashion record published by Hello, it costs £6 but very put together. Let me make it clear this is about looking at high fashion and design, some you should only wear on the 'red carpet' but this is an ideas book that you can use to put together look.
I can see I will be using my collection of bangles.
I do like the following, Michael Kors page 13 sharp light trousers and sleeveless belted blouse. Chanel have a number of nice pieces, including a red and white sleeveless dress - other things I don't like.
The fabrics are stunning in all the collections but Christian Lacroix - a brilliant designer, but you have to be a certain person to wear the fabrics, there are some colours and patterns that could swamp any individual. He does have a nice black and white suit, page 74. Dior has a great three peice suit in black with a white stripe. They also have a lovely dress on page 96. I love the Stella McCartney jumpsuit, long, blue and white. Alexander McQueen has a fabulous suit in a check fabric and pleated skirt page 159. Vivienne Westwood produced a sensational black dress which I would love to own. Versace has a beautiful sea green dress page 203, simply cut with a fabulous belt. There is a similar one in brown. In both these dresses the fabric counts so if you buy a high street version, it may not work because of creasing....but love the shoes at this show. Just look at the Versace trousers and blouse on page 207 Chic, chic, chic. BY THE WAY Vivienne Westwood does some fabulous perfume....Libertine is my favourite.
I loved Roberto Cavali use of colour, lilac, lavender and blue in his very floaty collection shown on pages 216/217.
Some of the Giorgio Armani items are fabulous, the tops are the best, I especially love the jackets on page 251.
I loved Marc Jacobs '9' dress on page 269 in an orange - sensational.
Calvin Klein, is brilliant - all very simple beautiful colours, fab trousers, fab shoes p 272 to 275.
All are easy to copy.
Please..... look at the web pages about Kelsey Briggs, and the video on you tube about her.....stop child abuse.
Granny loves yer xxxxx
Saturday, February 02, 2008
THERE IS SPRING IN THE AIR
Well what can I say about my beautiful garden, so full of life. Robins looking for nesting, black birds, blue tits and coal tits. Super squirel and friends was fantastic fun on my neighbours bird feeded. I am so happy to see them. Two foxes tried to mate on the lawn next door, and then chased on another across our shed. The male was big and vigourous, then there was such a different fox smaller, dark, with no brush. I thought it might be mange.
I am a huge fan of Torchwood and Primeval - excellent science fiction. Looking forward to Ashes to Ashes.
I have been looking at the fashions, and suggest women look at March issue of Harper's Bazaar - Leona Lewis is so beautiful.. I can recommend it because there are some great looks..... I have also been looking at at World Fashion and cable, the collection for Yves Saint Laurent was fab, I hope the high street translates it, because it was so wearable. Dark colours, 'A'Line swing type, short over leggings ..... really great.
I love this seasons Prada bag, but at not at the cost. Equally Mulberry bags this season look good but .....not at that price.
Agyness Deyn has a fabulous look but not in the frilled dress. Bangles, big heels, wedges, I feel for Barbara Bui shoes (page 74) cost £1,065 oh don't be stupid. But the Faith bag at £30... now thats a bit better, except I know Mum has these bags from the 1940's I used to use one. I believe the real hit will be the taylored Shift Dress, for work and play. Michael Kors, green dress is heaven p 110 and Blumarine skirt and top are to die for, and Donna Karan, wow.
If I had the perfect figure and the money I would purchase just one dress, by Etro, a hippie Tie-Dye cotton dress....it is so me. I have fallen in love again with Lenny Kravitz, I also loved Terence Trent Darby.
I have just discovered a cartoon, it is so beautiful - do loook 'Belleville Rendez-Vous' the art work is sensational and the story bizzare but do give it a go.
Live Long and prosper. Devine Granny XXXXXXXX
I am a huge fan of Torchwood and Primeval - excellent science fiction. Looking forward to Ashes to Ashes.
I have been looking at the fashions, and suggest women look at March issue of Harper's Bazaar - Leona Lewis is so beautiful.. I can recommend it because there are some great looks..... I have also been looking at at World Fashion and cable, the collection for Yves Saint Laurent was fab, I hope the high street translates it, because it was so wearable. Dark colours, 'A'Line swing type, short over leggings ..... really great.
I love this seasons Prada bag, but at not at the cost. Equally Mulberry bags this season look good but .....not at that price.
Agyness Deyn has a fabulous look but not in the frilled dress. Bangles, big heels, wedges, I feel for Barbara Bui shoes (page 74) cost £1,065 oh don't be stupid. But the Faith bag at £30... now thats a bit better, except I know Mum has these bags from the 1940's I used to use one. I believe the real hit will be the taylored Shift Dress, for work and play. Michael Kors, green dress is heaven p 110 and Blumarine skirt and top are to die for, and Donna Karan, wow.
If I had the perfect figure and the money I would purchase just one dress, by Etro, a hippie Tie-Dye cotton dress....it is so me. I have fallen in love again with Lenny Kravitz, I also loved Terence Trent Darby.
I have just discovered a cartoon, it is so beautiful - do loook 'Belleville Rendez-Vous' the art work is sensational and the story bizzare but do give it a go.
Live Long and prosper. Devine Granny XXXXXXXX
Friday, January 25, 2008
HOW I WISH I HAD A CAMERA
On Wednesday I had a rather spectacular acccident, I fell head first down a flight of stairs at work. I landed on my head and I have to say the sound of connection of head to concrete was about as scary as it can be, horrid. I was taken to hospital by brilliant ambulance staff and was treated by the Royal London Minor injuries staff... thank god for the NHS. Lets remember what it would be like without these dedicated,hard pressed,understaff,underfunded people.
I will not be applying for a stunt woman role anytime soon.
Mick was at home to look after me today. Thank God, because Super Squirell made a spectacular appreance in the garden. He his HUGE, and so funny, he was hanging up side down on the bird table trying to get the fat balls. Merlot barked and he was off doing his 007 impression - he jumped on to my neighbours roof and then he literally threw himself across a wide gap on to a tree - he FLEW. He makes me so happy. Mick says that he saw a very fat robin which pleased us both...... we both reflect on our last years experience with the robin babies.
Long live animals. Love Granny
I will not be applying for a stunt woman role anytime soon.
Mick was at home to look after me today. Thank God, because Super Squirell made a spectacular appreance in the garden. He his HUGE, and so funny, he was hanging up side down on the bird table trying to get the fat balls. Merlot barked and he was off doing his 007 impression - he jumped on to my neighbours roof and then he literally threw himself across a wide gap on to a tree - he FLEW. He makes me so happy. Mick says that he saw a very fat robin which pleased us both...... we both reflect on our last years experience with the robin babies.
Long live animals. Love Granny
Saturday, January 19, 2008
ME AND MY THOUGHTS
I have been looking in the shops and I am bored! the high street translation lacks style and quality - but it is cheap and looks it. Keep to basics at the moment, jeans that suit you and invest in a decent pair of shoes, they can make your look and comfortable feet make you feel comfortable as well. Shop for a special accessory to lift any dark or bland outfit to a new level, a belt, a pashmina type scarf, a brooch what ever your feel is best for you.
Thighten your belts it is going to be a hard financial year. Revisit your wardrobe and freshen good items. Look at the trends and add your own flair. I have to say the £950 has to be too much for a hand bag, it is obscene to pay this kind of money for clothes etc - high maintenance = low ethics. I am glad that last year I invested in denim, because it is the big surprise revival this year. With a white blouse and a vest type tee shirt in white or a colour underneath looks cool. Peachy blusher is a flatering colour for most, minimal make up makes for a chic understated look.
I have not been to Bluewater for nearly a year, and I don't miss it.
Love Granny xxxx
Thighten your belts it is going to be a hard financial year. Revisit your wardrobe and freshen good items. Look at the trends and add your own flair. I have to say the £950 has to be too much for a hand bag, it is obscene to pay this kind of money for clothes etc - high maintenance = low ethics. I am glad that last year I invested in denim, because it is the big surprise revival this year. With a white blouse and a vest type tee shirt in white or a colour underneath looks cool. Peachy blusher is a flatering colour for most, minimal make up makes for a chic understated look.
I have not been to Bluewater for nearly a year, and I don't miss it.
Love Granny xxxx
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
LITTLE DONKEY
A favourite Christmas carol of mine is 'Little Donkey' it continues 'with a heavy load, little donkey, carry Mary safely on her way'. Of course it matters in relation to the story of 'Ester' she is our heavy load, I was able to see a news report about her today and you only have to see how fearful these animals are around humans. How remarkable to hear that another donkey gave birth at the sanctuary, so this means that this brute of a man treated pregnant animals with such disrespect.
I have also been watching the programme 'Elelphant Diaries' it is well worth a look, with lots of tissues easily to hand.
Today is very grey, raining and cold......lets look forward to warm gentle summer days.
Love Granny xxxx
I have also been watching the programme 'Elelphant Diaries' it is well worth a look, with lots of tissues easily to hand.
Today is very grey, raining and cold......lets look forward to warm gentle summer days.
Love Granny xxxx
Friday, January 11, 2008
REDWING SANCTUARY
I beg people to offer what ever donation you can afford - to any horse sanctuary that has taken in the many victims of the most dreadful event of the horses and donkeys left to die on a farm in this country. I am hoping to support the 2 month old donkey foal 'Ester' who is at Redwing Sanctuary where she is being cared for. I do this in memory of Auntie Daisy who supported donkeys herself. The court process will be long and these animals have to be cared for until it is over. Hopefuly they will find homes later. I do not have the circumstances where I could take 'Ester' in I live in a small town house. We need people to take these poor defenseless voiceless creatures and standup for them. We share this planet with animals and we have a duty of care for them and the planet.
LOVE GRANNYxxxxx
LOVE GRANNYxxxxx
Friday, December 28, 2007
OVER HUNG
Christmas is over and has been fun, lots a kids, food and drink. On Christmas Day morning I was looking out at my garden and the trees, watching 8 squirrels racing around at the speed of light - lots of birds in evidence as well. It was the same again on Boxing Day, they are fearless jumping from branch to branch.
Damn the assassins who killed Benazir Bhutto, the bright, beautiful and educated women who scared the fanatics, fundamentalists and generals. They who could not beat her at the ballot resorted to the cowardly way. Who will be next?
A PC died on duty, with a heart condition that was known about so why was he passed fit and by whom to work on the frontline which is the most stressful of roles. Government take note - are you going to pay £200 back pay for this mans salary. Binding arbitration means just that, the talks were entered into in good faith, the government broke that faith. Now there is a debt to be paid.
Love Granny
Damn the assassins who killed Benazir Bhutto, the bright, beautiful and educated women who scared the fanatics, fundamentalists and generals. They who could not beat her at the ballot resorted to the cowardly way. Who will be next?
A PC died on duty, with a heart condition that was known about so why was he passed fit and by whom to work on the frontline which is the most stressful of roles. Government take note - are you going to pay £200 back pay for this mans salary. Binding arbitration means just that, the talks were entered into in good faith, the government broke that faith. Now there is a debt to be paid.
Love Granny
Friday, December 21, 2007
CHRISTMAS WORD.
Well Christmas is once again descending into a battle about the shops and that is an awful condemnation of our society. Money does not matter, profits do not matter life matters. I hate the shops and there is nothing of design quality in the shops, what small amount there is, is far to expensive the rest is tat. The discounts are already happening.....which really says it all.
My view of the general financial situation in the world is that the mega rich get richer and the poor get poorer and poorer. The credit crunch is the result of the greedy lenders expoliting the media promoted desire for a particular life style - Paris Hilton for example, who would no about her if not for the press and TV - who wants to be that shallow, defined only by the $.
My heart is with the women of Basra who are being driven back to the veil under a harsh religious boot. This is the counter balance, faith should not be a tool of repression. No woman should be killed because they choose not to hide themselves. Smart, bright and clever women should be celebrated which ever choice they make. Childern should never be bought or sold for any reason. Female children of 12 should not be married to 40 year old men as per the disgusting photo in the papers the other day, the poor sad childs face spoke volumes. Every woman of every faith and culture should stand up against this. Whatever happens to this child could happen to you - wake up. The way to control a society is to control women and children. Every woman and child should have access to a roof, food, education and medical care.
Maddy remains 'lost' someone out there knows what happened, shame on you. May your life never be normal.
My joy remains my garden, full of birds as always, what I note is there are less berries about so I am putting out food for the birds. Super Squirrel remains a delightful visitor, the other day I was watching out of the window when I saw 'Super' come up over our fence at the top looking around the coming down the other side. Then staying low to the ground moved across the the bird table, then to the otherside of the garden. It was just like 'James Bond' squirrel, it was so funny.
Let's speak up about our planet, the Polar Bear and the Whale should be our guides. I am an Al Gore fan. I would like to see a complete ban on the production huge 4x4 vehicles.
I agree with the move toward tough punishments for those who use their mobile phone while driving, but prison?
Let's spare a thought for those unfortunate to have lost their homes in the floods. Many will not have a Christmas this year.
Spare a thought for our soldiers in far off battle grounds. I have never agreed with the war in Iraq but I support the soldiers doing the work demanded by government.
Rhydian should have won X factor, his voice is surprising and wonderful- he will grow into his talent. Leon was sweet, but really it was an injustice for him to win, over sentimental voting. I have so enjoyed Strictly Come Dancing the standard of development has been fantastic it will be close.
Work remains busy, the last year has past in a flash. I will be 53 this year and I am still in remission. I 'will' watch To The Manor Born, but that might be a battle with Mick. Doctor Who will also be a must watch with a turkey sandwich and strong pickled onion (bliss) I also hope to get dripping and jelly - not politically correct but a delicious memory of Christmas past.
LOVE TO YOU ALL. GRANNY
Tuesday, December 04, 2007
HELLO AGAIN HELLO
Hello out there, and welcome home Gillian Gibbons. What a lovely lady.
My garden continues to be my pleasure, Super Squirel was back yesterday, as were the Coal Tits, Blue Tits and even a green parrot (there are a lot in this part of the country). Squirrel was hysterial - acting just like James Bond crossing the garden.
My Mum up for a few days, the ultimate showgirl, Kylie eat your heart out, she is going to be singing to the old folks at the Christmas Party locally. I drove down to collect her yesterday, the sun made the December country side appear beautiful - which it is. what shocked me was the proliferation of Mobile Phone masts everywhere.
I am now in possession of my Body Bible the Trinny and Suzanne book is fun. I also like their prog on TV. Still keeping up my fashion checks, but I have not been to Bluewater for ages partly due to work commitments and partly - I am increasingly bored by shops, it is all same same same. I also get bored by the staff, the crush and cost ----- everything is far too expensive. The idea of visiting at Christmas Time is such a horror, listening to "I want" "I want" from kids who demand to more than they should and parents who get it for them. Spend less and think about the meaning of Christmas.
Please please, lets ban mobile phones in the transport system, I am fed up to the back teeth with listening to peoples sordid personal lives unfold. The affairs, relationship issues and debts are not my business. I listen to my Sony to block out inane chatter.
I am loving 'Cranford' on TV and Strictly Come Dancing with Len my hero. Of course Robin Hood is excellent and enjoyable.
Let's promote reading, I plan to read Cranford now.
Love Grannyxxxxxx
My garden continues to be my pleasure, Super Squirel was back yesterday, as were the Coal Tits, Blue Tits and even a green parrot (there are a lot in this part of the country). Squirrel was hysterial - acting just like James Bond crossing the garden.
My Mum up for a few days, the ultimate showgirl, Kylie eat your heart out, she is going to be singing to the old folks at the Christmas Party locally. I drove down to collect her yesterday, the sun made the December country side appear beautiful - which it is. what shocked me was the proliferation of Mobile Phone masts everywhere.
I am now in possession of my Body Bible the Trinny and Suzanne book is fun. I also like their prog on TV. Still keeping up my fashion checks, but I have not been to Bluewater for ages partly due to work commitments and partly - I am increasingly bored by shops, it is all same same same. I also get bored by the staff, the crush and cost ----- everything is far too expensive. The idea of visiting at Christmas Time is such a horror, listening to "I want" "I want" from kids who demand to more than they should and parents who get it for them. Spend less and think about the meaning of Christmas.
Please please, lets ban mobile phones in the transport system, I am fed up to the back teeth with listening to peoples sordid personal lives unfold. The affairs, relationship issues and debts are not my business. I listen to my Sony to block out inane chatter.
I am loving 'Cranford' on TV and Strictly Come Dancing with Len my hero. Of course Robin Hood is excellent and enjoyable.
Let's promote reading, I plan to read Cranford now.
Love Grannyxxxxxx
Saturday, September 15, 2007
I'VE BEEN SAD
I cried buckets during the televised funeral of Rhys Jones, who out there knows who killed him - please speak up this person will kill again.
Jane Tomilinson died after her long battle with cancer, her husband and children are in my heart. Her funeral was also moving and poor Dickie Bird could not hold back his tears. She was selfless and inspirational - a role model for all people.
Also gone are Pavarotti and Anita Roddick. I listened to Pavarotti again and again on my CD. I am glad that I can because he raises my spirit.
I am also sickened by the continuing news of deaths of children at the hands of their parents.
You could be forgiven thinking I am verging on the depressed.
I try never to go to bed without having found something positive in my day, this usually takes the form of animals. Today for example the garden is full of butterflies. Birds are prevalent and Super Squirrel has returned. Indeed 'Wisp the Fox' has been seen several times.
Last Thursday I was sitting in St James Park in the sun, watching a man who clearly was a businessman on a stress break feeding peanuts to pigeons and squirrels who ran up his leg and along his arm to feed. Later some kind of geese walked for the lake to meet up with a young family who were picnicking. They settled down to enjoy a share of the food on offer. It was a pleasure to sit there, how lucky we are in London to have such beautiful areas to break from busy business. If looking toward the lake through the trees and you would be forgiven for forgetting you were in a major city.
Foot and Mouth has hit the poor farmers again, I am devastated to see the culling it is sickening. What is really ridiculous is that 'ramblers' are walking around the precautions in the exclusion zone.
For Northern Rock, I blame the media for stoking this run. It is stupid at this stage.
I think Boris Johnson should be the Conservative candidate for Mayor of London.
I am backing what Dr Rowan Williams with what he said today, about the conflicts in society.
Do not ban abortion but do re look at timescales, women must have domain over their body.
Love to all from Granny XXX
Jane Tomilinson died after her long battle with cancer, her husband and children are in my heart. Her funeral was also moving and poor Dickie Bird could not hold back his tears. She was selfless and inspirational - a role model for all people.
Also gone are Pavarotti and Anita Roddick. I listened to Pavarotti again and again on my CD. I am glad that I can because he raises my spirit.
I am also sickened by the continuing news of deaths of children at the hands of their parents.
You could be forgiven thinking I am verging on the depressed.
I try never to go to bed without having found something positive in my day, this usually takes the form of animals. Today for example the garden is full of butterflies. Birds are prevalent and Super Squirrel has returned. Indeed 'Wisp the Fox' has been seen several times.
Last Thursday I was sitting in St James Park in the sun, watching a man who clearly was a businessman on a stress break feeding peanuts to pigeons and squirrels who ran up his leg and along his arm to feed. Later some kind of geese walked for the lake to meet up with a young family who were picnicking. They settled down to enjoy a share of the food on offer. It was a pleasure to sit there, how lucky we are in London to have such beautiful areas to break from busy business. If looking toward the lake through the trees and you would be forgiven for forgetting you were in a major city.
Foot and Mouth has hit the poor farmers again, I am devastated to see the culling it is sickening. What is really ridiculous is that 'ramblers' are walking around the precautions in the exclusion zone.
For Northern Rock, I blame the media for stoking this run. It is stupid at this stage.
I think Boris Johnson should be the Conservative candidate for Mayor of London.
I am backing what Dr Rowan Williams with what he said today, about the conflicts in society.
Do not ban abortion but do re look at timescales, women must have domain over their body.
Love to all from Granny XXX
Saturday, August 25, 2007
WHO COULD FAIL TO BE MOVED
If you saw Melanie and Stephen Jones on the televison in an appeal over the horrendous murder of their son Rhys you cannot fail to have been moved. They had such dignity despite the raw emotion. SOMEONE OUT THERE KNOWS EXACTLY WHO KILLED RHYS - SPEAK OR THIS PERSON WILL KILL AGAIN, HE HAS TASTED BLOOD WHAT HAS HE GOT TO LOSE IF HE KILLS AGAIN.
What punishment do we a society impose on this person?
Guns and knives have no place in society since we do not have to kill for food.
Let us hold the whole family in our hearts and pray that they survive. My heart is also with his young friends who he played with football with - give the courage to play on - in memory of Rhys.
For a really excellent insight into gang culture listen to Professor Gus John.
Love to all, Granny xxx
What punishment do we a society impose on this person?
Guns and knives have no place in society since we do not have to kill for food.
Let us hold the whole family in our hearts and pray that they survive. My heart is also with his young friends who he played with football with - give the courage to play on - in memory of Rhys.
For a really excellent insight into gang culture listen to Professor Gus John.
Love to all, Granny xxx
Friday, August 17, 2007
POURING WITH RAIN
The weather is pretty awful and yet more rain on the way.
I must congratulate all the A level students who got results yesterday, it is the beginning of the journey for you guys. That includes Princess Beatrice - let us hope it opens some additional doors.
I must congratulate the winner of £35 million pounds Angela Cunningham. Am I jealous, Yes, but she seems so nice and I hope that her life is lifted and not blighted. Her son's life is secure but I hope the vultures steer clear.
My anger is directed to those people who have killed children - their own in the last couple of weeks. It is also becoming to terrible for words that antisocial behaviour is developing into Murder.
My heart is with the people of Peru in an hour of darkness.
I am angry at the death of animals due to the floods, but was heartened to see that a wild life rescue centre has done stirling work in caring for sick and alling animals and orphaned animals.
Could you please stop the cold callers - on phones, just go ring someone else.
Instyle, September issue 2007. page 28 contains a picture of the best dressed woman - bar non. Dita Von Teese dressed in White, simple and clean. She is so smart and is the best kind of style icon.
I love Amy Winehouse, I am worried about her as well - but she is fitting the mould of tragic singers. The tragic situation, she will die if she is not careful. She has talent, but drugs are disasterous for such talent. Lily Allen may also end up the same way. Both girls have great style as well. Lets hope that common sense takes hold.
My ideas for the Autumn, Black, simple, chic grey, crisp white - which I will sharpen with a smart yellow cane square box hand bag. Burberry Touch for Women. I still rate Sarah Jessica Parker as a fashion Icon. I have given up eyeshadow (mostly) I now just do Mascara, blusher and glossy lippy.
WSPA
I am very angry at the pictures of murdered Mountain Gorillas tied out - murder yes because they are our near relatives, what happens to them happens to us. just when will we learn this. Destroy our world and we destroy ourselves. Please don't buy the exotic gifts, lets keep trying to show people in these countries that there are better ways to live (although of course we are no great example) If only we could clear those debts, have fairtrade and encourage people to sustain grow food.
As for the money markets that are in turmoil, well what goes around comes around, greed greed. Who remembers the pensioners who have lost their pension funds because of Bulls and Bears.
Love Granny
I must congratulate all the A level students who got results yesterday, it is the beginning of the journey for you guys. That includes Princess Beatrice - let us hope it opens some additional doors.
I must congratulate the winner of £35 million pounds Angela Cunningham. Am I jealous, Yes, but she seems so nice and I hope that her life is lifted and not blighted. Her son's life is secure but I hope the vultures steer clear.
My anger is directed to those people who have killed children - their own in the last couple of weeks. It is also becoming to terrible for words that antisocial behaviour is developing into Murder.
My heart is with the people of Peru in an hour of darkness.
I am angry at the death of animals due to the floods, but was heartened to see that a wild life rescue centre has done stirling work in caring for sick and alling animals and orphaned animals.
Could you please stop the cold callers - on phones, just go ring someone else.
Instyle, September issue 2007. page 28 contains a picture of the best dressed woman - bar non. Dita Von Teese dressed in White, simple and clean. She is so smart and is the best kind of style icon.
I love Amy Winehouse, I am worried about her as well - but she is fitting the mould of tragic singers. The tragic situation, she will die if she is not careful. She has talent, but drugs are disasterous for such talent. Lily Allen may also end up the same way. Both girls have great style as well. Lets hope that common sense takes hold.
My ideas for the Autumn, Black, simple, chic grey, crisp white - which I will sharpen with a smart yellow cane square box hand bag. Burberry Touch for Women. I still rate Sarah Jessica Parker as a fashion Icon. I have given up eyeshadow (mostly) I now just do Mascara, blusher and glossy lippy.
WSPA
I am very angry at the pictures of murdered Mountain Gorillas tied out - murder yes because they are our near relatives, what happens to them happens to us. just when will we learn this. Destroy our world and we destroy ourselves. Please don't buy the exotic gifts, lets keep trying to show people in these countries that there are better ways to live (although of course we are no great example) If only we could clear those debts, have fairtrade and encourage people to sustain grow food.
As for the money markets that are in turmoil, well what goes around comes around, greed greed. Who remembers the pensioners who have lost their pension funds because of Bulls and Bears.
Love Granny
Monday, August 06, 2007
ANOTHER STORY
The Robins have left now the babies have grown up a flown the nest.
We partied with Victoria for her 21st hence the pictures.
I have had contact with Jackie and Claire who I met at Goring and an delighted to maintain our friendship.
I am mourning a friend I met at Goring, Martin Greensmith died on 19th July leaving a wife and son aged 11. His funeral is tomorrow. Rest in Peace Martin.
My dear friend Maggie was diagnosed with Breast Cancer last week, she has her op on the 8th of course my prayers are with her.
The weather has improved, now I am too hot.
Love From Granny xxx
We partied with Victoria for her 21st hence the pictures.
I have had contact with Jackie and Claire who I met at Goring and an delighted to maintain our friendship.
I am mourning a friend I met at Goring, Martin Greensmith died on 19th July leaving a wife and son aged 11. His funeral is tomorrow. Rest in Peace Martin.
My dear friend Maggie was diagnosed with Breast Cancer last week, she has her op on the 8th of course my prayers are with her.
The weather has improved, now I am too hot.
Love From Granny xxx
Thursday, July 26, 2007
THE LUST FOR LIFE
This little story belongs to the last picture I posted to the blog.
Yesterday Merlot came to me in a right state barking and the like she wanted me to go out side into the garden. So I could hardly not. I then realised the two parent Robins were putting up very agitated noises and putting up alarm calls. Merlot was trying to push at the huge flower tub that we use to protect the patio drain. I said to Mick that I thought something might be in the drain. We discovered one of the Robin chicks had fledged and somehow fell into the drain - don't ask us how. Mick gently picked it out the poor tiny little thing was barely alive. She was cold and wet, Mick held her in cupped hands. We took her inside (I decided she was a she) and gently blew on her to dry her wings....The parents were desperate and looking for the chick. We took her out and placed her in a flowerpot with light cover. Immediately the parents fed her.
We panicked when Wisp Jnr. the baby fox appeared on the shed. Merlot went mad. We kept watch and feeding continued.
Later in the evening the baby had gone. We believe that she is ok. Merlot would have warned me if cats, fox or magpies had come into the garden.
In the morning I watched from my usual spot to watch the Robins and they both appeared to struggle trying to pull pieces of the red tree in the garden - they fluttered, they pulled at leaves and twigs. They flew off.
This afternoon, the Robins are back in the garden normality resumed.
Lots of Love to ALL GrannyXXXX
Yesterday Merlot came to me in a right state barking and the like she wanted me to go out side into the garden. So I could hardly not. I then realised the two parent Robins were putting up very agitated noises and putting up alarm calls. Merlot was trying to push at the huge flower tub that we use to protect the patio drain. I said to Mick that I thought something might be in the drain. We discovered one of the Robin chicks had fledged and somehow fell into the drain - don't ask us how. Mick gently picked it out the poor tiny little thing was barely alive. She was cold and wet, Mick held her in cupped hands. We took her inside (I decided she was a she) and gently blew on her to dry her wings....The parents were desperate and looking for the chick. We took her out and placed her in a flowerpot with light cover. Immediately the parents fed her.
We panicked when Wisp Jnr. the baby fox appeared on the shed. Merlot went mad. We kept watch and feeding continued.
Later in the evening the baby had gone. We believe that she is ok. Merlot would have warned me if cats, fox or magpies had come into the garden.
In the morning I watched from my usual spot to watch the Robins and they both appeared to struggle trying to pull pieces of the red tree in the garden - they fluttered, they pulled at leaves and twigs. They flew off.
This afternoon, the Robins are back in the garden normality resumed.
Lots of Love to ALL GrannyXXXX
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