How can we not weep for Victoria in Australia and her fire ravaged people with so many dead 96 thus far. My husband and I both have family in Australia. The pictures a dire, imagine the heart break. Listening to the firefighters who are tirelessly fighting this monster of heat is a lesson in service. Lives destroyed. It appears that even someone has been deliberately setting the fires once out.
My heart is with them and yes I am praying for them.
Granny xxx
Sunday, February 08, 2009
JADE GOODY
How can people be so mean spirited when a young mother is given practically not hope of seeing her children grow up. How can they sleep at night when they are betting on her date of death...shame on them.....imagine if your daughter, mother, sister other female relation was condemned to such terrifying pain. I have never agreed with her Big Brother racist behaviour - but I am a human, I recognise her humanity. Her life has been varied from early poverty and yes wealth from her 'celebrity' but money is not everything..it rarely saves you form illness. She has done what she has to do as a single mother with children and dependent mother.
She has been told her cancer has spread to liver, bowel and groin. Today we have the news she has had a golf ball size tumor from her bowel... please remember how very scared she must be, wonder how you would cope.
I recommend you read an excellent article on Jade in The Independent 6th February 2009 by Deborah Orr....ex editor of NOW magazine who recognises the culpability of all of those of us who have avidly watched the 'reality shows' and how we have built up and have torn down human beings. The people in these shows are reflections of each and every one of us.
For goodness sake - allow some dignity to this poor 'child' who even though she is over thirty is in fact a child who needs positive support in this difficult time.
Don't dance on her grave prematurely....it could be you next time.
Granny x
She has been told her cancer has spread to liver, bowel and groin. Today we have the news she has had a golf ball size tumor from her bowel... please remember how very scared she must be, wonder how you would cope.
I recommend you read an excellent article on Jade in The Independent 6th February 2009 by Deborah Orr....ex editor of NOW magazine who recognises the culpability of all of those of us who have avidly watched the 'reality shows' and how we have built up and have torn down human beings. The people in these shows are reflections of each and every one of us.
For goodness sake - allow some dignity to this poor 'child' who even though she is over thirty is in fact a child who needs positive support in this difficult time.
Don't dance on her grave prematurely....it could be you next time.
Granny x
Saturday, January 31, 2009
MUSIC TO LIFT THE SOUL
I really recommend Seal's new Album. Called Seal (Soul) it is brilliant, it is huge and I have loved his music from the begining. If you have any cash to spend for an extra treat yourself. Love Granny
THE NIGHTMARE BEGINS
If we are not careful the biggest financial world disaster ever that we are going through will spiral into massive disorder. The signs are there already, strikes and violence across the world. We have to stand together to get through it. I pray for us all. Love Granny xx
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
RHYDIAN
I am unashamedly sentimental. I want to offer a review in that vein. If you saw the X factor when Rhydian Roberts was the runner up...I felt then a sense of injustice for him. I have waited for his album to come out. It is outstanding and I feel that he shows wide power of voice and diction. He can do the big sounds and the soft sounds. He sings some of my very favourite songs, I purchased it today and immediately played 'Impossible Dream' which stands high on my list. I believe in the concept of striving for the best you can be, appropriate for today 20th January 2009 - and hope, optimism, duty, sacrifice and service.
LISTEN TO THE ALBUM WITH AN OPEN MIND AND BE LIFTED UP. love Granny xxx
LISTEN TO THE ALBUM WITH AN OPEN MIND AND BE LIFTED UP. love Granny xxx
TO DAY IS THE DAY
Barack Obama will become President of America and I pray for him and his family. To Hope. Love Granny xxx
Friday, January 09, 2009
ANNE FRANK
This last week there has been a fantastic BBC drama based on the Diary of Anne Frank. This was a superb production, with fantastic acting. I have always been a 'believer' of this story. So I wonder even more why the Isrealis do not see the behaviour they are replicating is what the Jews went through in the 1930's. I noted one particularly resonant line in this production which says it all really Anne writes "We wait for the allies to rescue us but all we get are bombs" so speaks a child across the decades. Following the last episode there was a playing of the documentary 'Anne Frank Remembered' again a programme worth watching in itself. How do you live in a society where so much is that is about you is banned.
Yes I know that the Hamas have been lobing bombs and that should be challenged and Yes Hamas are using the people as a human sheild. Why can't anybody see that to defeat these types of people you resist yes but show them up for what they are 'dastardly' and show yourselves to be better than them. Ostracise politically mindless thugs, dont kill the innocent. Love Granny
Yes I know that the Hamas have been lobing bombs and that should be challenged and Yes Hamas are using the people as a human sheild. Why can't anybody see that to defeat these types of people you resist yes but show them up for what they are 'dastardly' and show yourselves to be better than them. Ostracise politically mindless thugs, dont kill the innocent. Love Granny
Wednesday, January 07, 2009
THE COLD WAR
Forgive me from being cynical but with Russia once again turning off the 'Gas' to Ukraine could it be a huge coincidence that those most affected are ex soviet block states? A new 'Cold War' by any other name. I cannot think of a more cynical time, less than subtle, than at this time of year to complain about non payment of bills, when it is at its coldest.
None of the current world situations (other than the financial one) seem to be playing up to the up coming new US president.
I have been having serious debates and arguments with people about the Isreali and Gaza situation. I have always been strongly anti Nazi and so have read extensively about the rise of the Isreali state. I have argued many times that the Jews had a right to a state. In those arguements others always pointed out the terrorist activity of the Jews against Britain in Isreal (ie King David Hotel) and that many of the early political leaders had been terrorists. Indeed they were and I knew this because these were the books I had read. I say now as I say then one man's 'Freedom Fighter' is another mans 'Terrorist'.
If, as appears clear, people knew about these cross border tunnels from Eqypt - why didn't anybody fill them with cement, does not matter howmany times you have to do it, if you have to refill them constantly the enemy has to either re dig or relocate - keeping them engaged and off balance, they will get bored. Then if these rockets are as primative as they are said to be keep coming, why not deploy anti missile sites along that area and take them out before they reach their target! that is self-defence.
There - absolutely - has to be a way for two soverign states to exist in a difficult physical and finanical environment side by side to the benefit of both their peoples. Moderates must stand up against the radicals on both sides. Children are being killed which is unacceptable because the children are the future for both. Those young that will survive are now going to be radicalised - even more dangerous than before given the power of the internet in passing on information. If the Isrealis had been canny they could have long ago won the war against terror by being modern, forward thinking and engaging in new inivative ideas that soften up the enemy a bit like a laxitive you need to effectively expel them and this is done by isolating them from their potential support... To achieve the aims of peaceful statehood both sides have to stop sitting on the past and religious attitudes as justification for their actions - break the cycle by creating a new tradition, that is real selfdefence. I use the term 'Bullies' for both Isreal and Hamas.
Religion in my view is not necessarily a force for peace, the intolerance shown by various religions for others or even within their own institutions often leads (has often led) to conflict. Just look at the Orthadox Christians having a punch up over who does what in the holiest of Christian sites in the Holy Land - really it was handbags at dawn, silly rediculous behaviour from people who should know better. How can suicide bombers ever be held in esteem by religious leaders? Clearly good things have been done but these should never happen just to recruit new converts. Charity should have no religion nor should it be used to say one group is better than another.
I have just been very shocked by a TV programme 'Paul Mertons China' don;t get me wrong great programme. But please tell me that is wrong,as I see here, that families go to China to adopte abandoned female children. Frankly I was shocked that one family had a grown up family and now wanted to 'fill the nest'. Yes, of course there are elements of being able to give a better chance but at what cost. One woman said, she will be my child - an American child - while another women said of course you cannot hide different ethnic backgrounds so it is important that you introduce your child to their birth country. Clearly this separation of approach is not a good thing. Having said that I would have taken every child myself, mostly female given the one child policy and the desire for that one child to be male - what was I saying about bullies? My husband would say that I have entirely emotional responses, well yes indeed. Really adoption tourrism!!!!!
Actually I have never had a child of my own, much as I would have loved to, it was not to be my fate. I believe that it is not my right to demand as a woman that I be allowed to have to have a child, by any means. Children are bought into the world by many who show little thought as to how their child will grow up. Down I beleive to indivduals poor birth control and very often simply not saying NO. I believe that we have to help these children not just by adoption but by reorganising society. I have helped my husband with his three children and I now enjoy being a step grandmother to five. I think there is a role for surrogate grandmothers - being able to offer their love, advice and time. With an ageing population there will be plenty of candidates. Children are our responsibility not our property. They should not be for sale. Love Granny xxxx
None of the current world situations (other than the financial one) seem to be playing up to the up coming new US president.
I have been having serious debates and arguments with people about the Isreali and Gaza situation. I have always been strongly anti Nazi and so have read extensively about the rise of the Isreali state. I have argued many times that the Jews had a right to a state. In those arguements others always pointed out the terrorist activity of the Jews against Britain in Isreal (ie King David Hotel) and that many of the early political leaders had been terrorists. Indeed they were and I knew this because these were the books I had read. I say now as I say then one man's 'Freedom Fighter' is another mans 'Terrorist'.
If, as appears clear, people knew about these cross border tunnels from Eqypt - why didn't anybody fill them with cement, does not matter howmany times you have to do it, if you have to refill them constantly the enemy has to either re dig or relocate - keeping them engaged and off balance, they will get bored. Then if these rockets are as primative as they are said to be keep coming, why not deploy anti missile sites along that area and take them out before they reach their target! that is self-defence.
There - absolutely - has to be a way for two soverign states to exist in a difficult physical and finanical environment side by side to the benefit of both their peoples. Moderates must stand up against the radicals on both sides. Children are being killed which is unacceptable because the children are the future for both. Those young that will survive are now going to be radicalised - even more dangerous than before given the power of the internet in passing on information. If the Isrealis had been canny they could have long ago won the war against terror by being modern, forward thinking and engaging in new inivative ideas that soften up the enemy a bit like a laxitive you need to effectively expel them and this is done by isolating them from their potential support... To achieve the aims of peaceful statehood both sides have to stop sitting on the past and religious attitudes as justification for their actions - break the cycle by creating a new tradition, that is real selfdefence. I use the term 'Bullies' for both Isreal and Hamas.
Religion in my view is not necessarily a force for peace, the intolerance shown by various religions for others or even within their own institutions often leads (has often led) to conflict. Just look at the Orthadox Christians having a punch up over who does what in the holiest of Christian sites in the Holy Land - really it was handbags at dawn, silly rediculous behaviour from people who should know better. How can suicide bombers ever be held in esteem by religious leaders? Clearly good things have been done but these should never happen just to recruit new converts. Charity should have no religion nor should it be used to say one group is better than another.
I have just been very shocked by a TV programme 'Paul Mertons China' don;t get me wrong great programme. But please tell me that is wrong,as I see here, that families go to China to adopte abandoned female children. Frankly I was shocked that one family had a grown up family and now wanted to 'fill the nest'. Yes, of course there are elements of being able to give a better chance but at what cost. One woman said, she will be my child - an American child - while another women said of course you cannot hide different ethnic backgrounds so it is important that you introduce your child to their birth country. Clearly this separation of approach is not a good thing. Having said that I would have taken every child myself, mostly female given the one child policy and the desire for that one child to be male - what was I saying about bullies? My husband would say that I have entirely emotional responses, well yes indeed. Really adoption tourrism!!!!!
Actually I have never had a child of my own, much as I would have loved to, it was not to be my fate. I believe that it is not my right to demand as a woman that I be allowed to have to have a child, by any means. Children are bought into the world by many who show little thought as to how their child will grow up. Down I beleive to indivduals poor birth control and very often simply not saying NO. I believe that we have to help these children not just by adoption but by reorganising society. I have helped my husband with his three children and I now enjoy being a step grandmother to five. I think there is a role for surrogate grandmothers - being able to offer their love, advice and time. With an ageing population there will be plenty of candidates. Children are our responsibility not our property. They should not be for sale. Love Granny xxxx
Saturday, January 03, 2009
DREAMING OF SUMMER
You will have noted that I have posted some pictures of Skopelos taken in 2007, it is to try and send friends and readers a bit of sunshine. They show clearly why we like this Greek Island imagine sitting and having a coffee and letting the world pass you by. I am looking to project some positivity.
In my very cold garden today, there were 7 pigeons, a blackbird, a squirrel all challenging for the food put out. They always lift my spirits. Love Granny xxxx
In my very cold garden today, there were 7 pigeons, a blackbird, a squirrel all challenging for the food put out. They always lift my spirits. Love Granny xxxx
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!
I am probably going to step on some toes with this post. I am really tired of listening to the Israeli spokespersons who rabbit on about 'self defence' in their current action. The situation is unacceptable in the new world.
I do realise that the rockets into Israel from Gaza are wrong, but two wrongs do not make a right. Air strikes on such a scale over such a long period are totally disportionate and I believe that the 'Blockade of the Gaza' should be lifted. This is a self fulfilling prophecy and creates a cycle, the young people who are living through this bombardment will be radicalised and Hamas will benefit. The alternative is stronger than bombs, currently the Israeli actions are proving Hamas's point written in their charter. The Hamas are saying - see we told you so.
I do believe that Hamas are wrong but I do also think that when Israel remembers the Holocaust as a time when they were targeted, ghettoised, subject to attack because of their religion or perceived influence perhaps they will understand they are doing the same thing. They are doing the job of radicalising the young Arabs better than Hamas, they have put the militants in the Gaza area as the victims and themselves as aggressor in the eyes of some of the world.
History tells us what has happened in the past, it shows us the mistakes, it gives us a key to the future -just why is nobody listening. The children on both sides do not deserve this.
Granny sends her love to all people across the world what ever their religion. xx
I do realise that the rockets into Israel from Gaza are wrong, but two wrongs do not make a right. Air strikes on such a scale over such a long period are totally disportionate and I believe that the 'Blockade of the Gaza' should be lifted. This is a self fulfilling prophecy and creates a cycle, the young people who are living through this bombardment will be radicalised and Hamas will benefit. The alternative is stronger than bombs, currently the Israeli actions are proving Hamas's point written in their charter. The Hamas are saying - see we told you so.
I do believe that Hamas are wrong but I do also think that when Israel remembers the Holocaust as a time when they were targeted, ghettoised, subject to attack because of their religion or perceived influence perhaps they will understand they are doing the same thing. They are doing the job of radicalising the young Arabs better than Hamas, they have put the militants in the Gaza area as the victims and themselves as aggressor in the eyes of some of the world.
History tells us what has happened in the past, it shows us the mistakes, it gives us a key to the future -just why is nobody listening. The children on both sides do not deserve this.
Granny sends her love to all people across the world what ever their religion. xx
Friday, December 26, 2008
THE WRITE STUFF
Christmas has passed, for us as hoped, with our boys visiting and a quiet traditional meal. Presents openned and appreciated - a little booze and laughter.
My heart was sad for the British soldier who died in action on Christmas Eve, no happy Christmas for his poor family. I send them my prayers. My other saddness was for the loss of Harold Pinter and Eartha Kitt. I admired them both and always visioned myself the white and very English Eartha, all purring and leapoard skin....but more importantly her individualtiy, style and politics. She always kept faith with herself and that is all any of us can do. She really was Christmas, with 'Santa Baby' the great song. They were both anti war and spoke their minds and that is right also.
Two more people died in this country from guns a father and a young girl...shame on the people who carry guns. In America, a man who thought it was ok to dress as Santa and slaughter his ex family.....no no no no.
I also pray for the very lovely and brave Hannah Jones, the wisest of children who made up her mind not have more treatment for her myeloid leukaemia and to enjoy what life she had. She is wise and well older than her 13 years, but she had her Christmas She said " I knew it had been the best Christmas" Hear Hear.
On another bright note there were the dancing seals and the white deer in the New Forest. The robins were in my garden today and that filled my heart with joy. I watched again South Pacific, and loved it all over again - of course the only song for me is 'Some enchanted evening' am I a silly old romantic - you bet brother. Then of course there was the film 'Big' with my hero Tom Hanks at his best. I also love the Burbs and The Money Pit - films to relax with.
Mick gave me a perfect gift, my favourite perfume, Secret Obsession which I find so evocative. It is me, and I love it so. On instinct I gave a special gift...to my dear step grandaughter Rachel... I have seen her act recently in a play called 'A woman in Mind' which she directed and in which she stared I was mesmorised by her talent. She is 18 this year, she wants to go to uni to study philosophy so naturally I gave her a book on the subject to give her a heads up. Then as we discussed her recent purchase on ebay, the perfect pair of shoes (Italian of course) I then was inspired, My most treasured possession the 1920's dress I wore when I was in the Shaw play 'Overruled' orignal and beautifully handmade.. who better a person to take it into their care, someone who could bring it to life as it should be. 'Born Free, free as the roaring tide' This is her time - check out the Zebra ( a steal from Madacasgar)
The old boy is in an afternoon snooze mode and I am watching Madacasgar. 'And me skipper? I want you to look cute and cuddly' gosh the diologue is sensational - wacked out!!!!!!!!
Lets all pray for this year, perhaps listening to Rowan Williams may help....lets pray people won't lose their homes, their jobs their lives. My faith is firmly placed in the new American President (elect) Barack Obama who took time to scatter his grandmothers ashes, as he had taken time to see her before she died. He has a diverse family background and maybe that is the secret.
I have made a New Years resolution - I will make a difference. I love you all HAPPY NEW YEAR. Granny xxxx
My heart was sad for the British soldier who died in action on Christmas Eve, no happy Christmas for his poor family. I send them my prayers. My other saddness was for the loss of Harold Pinter and Eartha Kitt. I admired them both and always visioned myself the white and very English Eartha, all purring and leapoard skin....but more importantly her individualtiy, style and politics. She always kept faith with herself and that is all any of us can do. She really was Christmas, with 'Santa Baby' the great song. They were both anti war and spoke their minds and that is right also.
Two more people died in this country from guns a father and a young girl...shame on the people who carry guns. In America, a man who thought it was ok to dress as Santa and slaughter his ex family.....no no no no.
I also pray for the very lovely and brave Hannah Jones, the wisest of children who made up her mind not have more treatment for her myeloid leukaemia and to enjoy what life she had. She is wise and well older than her 13 years, but she had her Christmas She said " I knew it had been the best Christmas" Hear Hear.
On another bright note there were the dancing seals and the white deer in the New Forest. The robins were in my garden today and that filled my heart with joy. I watched again South Pacific, and loved it all over again - of course the only song for me is 'Some enchanted evening' am I a silly old romantic - you bet brother. Then of course there was the film 'Big' with my hero Tom Hanks at his best. I also love the Burbs and The Money Pit - films to relax with.
Mick gave me a perfect gift, my favourite perfume, Secret Obsession which I find so evocative. It is me, and I love it so. On instinct I gave a special gift...to my dear step grandaughter Rachel... I have seen her act recently in a play called 'A woman in Mind' which she directed and in which she stared I was mesmorised by her talent. She is 18 this year, she wants to go to uni to study philosophy so naturally I gave her a book on the subject to give her a heads up. Then as we discussed her recent purchase on ebay, the perfect pair of shoes (Italian of course) I then was inspired, My most treasured possession the 1920's dress I wore when I was in the Shaw play 'Overruled' orignal and beautifully handmade.. who better a person to take it into their care, someone who could bring it to life as it should be. 'Born Free, free as the roaring tide' This is her time - check out the Zebra ( a steal from Madacasgar)
The old boy is in an afternoon snooze mode and I am watching Madacasgar. 'And me skipper? I want you to look cute and cuddly' gosh the diologue is sensational - wacked out!!!!!!!!
Lets all pray for this year, perhaps listening to Rowan Williams may help....lets pray people won't lose their homes, their jobs their lives. My faith is firmly placed in the new American President (elect) Barack Obama who took time to scatter his grandmothers ashes, as he had taken time to see her before she died. He has a diverse family background and maybe that is the secret.
I have made a New Years resolution - I will make a difference. I love you all HAPPY NEW YEAR. Granny xxxx
Sunday, December 14, 2008
LITTLE DORRIT
There is no greater acting and production than that for the BBC programme LITLLE DORRIT. Three cheers. Lots of performances here for BAFTA awards and the like. It is a parable of our time. Love Granny
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
MORE CHAT
Putting on my fashion hat, last week with my grandson I visited Bluewater for the first time in ages. I was surprised to find it busy but not packed. I was impressed by Urban Outfitters set up but not the cost of the clothes there. It does have an original edge so I would look there for inspiration. I especially like the coloured opaque tights which I think look fab with decent black or demin shorts. I love patterned or lace tights. There was a neat 'stall' in the walk area that sold some stunning tights. I believe that clever use of tights, belts, wraps and other accessories can make an old outfit sharper.
I was disappointed with the Santa Grotto. Could have reflected the weather, which was pooring with rain and it is sited outside. There is also an Ice Rink, Fun Fair and Christmas market.
I have discovered why Bluewater is popular for Mums and Children - it's inside, silly me. But it still not clear that the shops access has really caught on.
I still advise people to read 'You' in the Mail on Sunday, my favourite magazine for about everything.
I am a huge fan of Gok Wan.
On a more serious note, YES YES YES Barack Obama won the US election..he is not going to have a secure financial situation to manage and it will be very difficult. I have huge concerns for his and his families safety. There is a disturbing number of white supremisist however loose as a group that will need to be watched very carefully. People should be judged on their character not their skin as Dr Martin Luther King Jnr so rightly said. And believe me I am judging these individuals on their character which is both flawed and murderous.
Love Granny
I was disappointed with the Santa Grotto. Could have reflected the weather, which was pooring with rain and it is sited outside. There is also an Ice Rink, Fun Fair and Christmas market.
I have discovered why Bluewater is popular for Mums and Children - it's inside, silly me. But it still not clear that the shops access has really caught on.
I still advise people to read 'You' in the Mail on Sunday, my favourite magazine for about everything.
I am a huge fan of Gok Wan.
On a more serious note, YES YES YES Barack Obama won the US election..he is not going to have a secure financial situation to manage and it will be very difficult. I have huge concerns for his and his families safety. There is a disturbing number of white supremisist however loose as a group that will need to be watched very carefully. People should be judged on their character not their skin as Dr Martin Luther King Jnr so rightly said. And believe me I am judging these individuals on their character which is both flawed and murderous.
Love Granny
DON'T BUY DOLPHIN SHOWERS.
My parents - in - law were persuaded to purchase an easy access shower system from Dolphin at a cost of £5,000. The work is at best described as botched and at worst ......... judge for yourself. The 'contracted' installer was useless, he managed to put in a new water pipe, tile over it then drill into the pipe it causing a flood not only in my inlaws bathroom but in the bathroom down stairs causing major damage. When the 'supervisors' attended to look at the situation - it was discovered the contractor had not even sealed in the unit either, leaving saying the job was done and safe. My husband advised his parents not to pay the final £500+ and wrote to Dolphin that he had done this. He told Dolphin not to bother his elderly and unwell parents but to deal with him....as yet only a single acknowledgement has been received, but the original instructions in his letter were ignored. The company have dragged their feet over the neighbours claim for damages caused by their worker and AS YET IT REMAINS UNRESOLVED. This has been going on for weeks..... the FINAL cheek has been that Dolphin wrote last week to my inlaws 'demanding' the final payment.
WOULD YOU PAY £5,000 FOR THIS indeed my pictures do not tell the whole story - it is so much worse, the original bathroom in terms of size is small. Yes there was a limited amount of tiling done, but my elderly parents-in-law, instead of waiting for their son and grandson to assist, painted the room themselves. I am sorry BUT if you are paying £5,000 for any work there has to be a competent installation with a professional finish. Dolphin have proved themselves as falling short.
MY ADVICE SHOP AROUND, LOOK AT EXAMPLES OF THE WORK DONE PREVIOUSLY, TAKE RECOMMENDATION AND DON'T BE CHATTED UP BY SALES PEOPLE FROM 'NATIONALLY RENOWNED' COMPANIES.
Love Granny
MORE TO SAY
I have always got a lot to say for myself and about the world.
Firstly adding to previous comments, I am horrified that the world finds itself in a dire position. Our leaders are still posturing - just get on with it otherwise there is no future for the worlds children.
Too many soldiers are dying in an unnecessary war. The recent period of rememberance really should have awoken up those in power, but of course it won't. To much money in arms sales!!!!!
Much has been said about the case of Baby P and if you have read my blog you will no doubt guess my views. This is probably the most dreadful of cases but let me tell you there are more cases out there. Just days after the news hit the media - two young children are stabbed to death by their mother.
I absolutely believe in accountability, checks and balances when taking children into care, but I do not hold to the dangerous theory that all children are best with their birth parents. 'Institutional Care' is also a difficult thing to manage I accept that, but because it is hard does not mean it should be written off, think quality. It does not mean huge unwhealdy institutions. Our problem has been to make a huge leap from 'something in place' to 'nothing in place'. I also know that you cannot take a child into emergency care unless you have people in the community who will act as short term emergency foster care. I actually believe that the 'experts' who have developed child development theories have a lot to answer for, because they have blinded people in the child care arena to common sense.
Children are our responsibility (to bring up safe and well) but not our property - the parents who maime and kill their children are selfish, selfcentre individuals, perhaps they do have their own issues but they need to be dealt with seperately from their role as parent. The people who take on the role of social interventionist need to make this clear distinction.
IT IS TIME TO STAND UP FOR CHILDREN AT RISK.
Love Granny
Firstly adding to previous comments, I am horrified that the world finds itself in a dire position. Our leaders are still posturing - just get on with it otherwise there is no future for the worlds children.
Too many soldiers are dying in an unnecessary war. The recent period of rememberance really should have awoken up those in power, but of course it won't. To much money in arms sales!!!!!
Much has been said about the case of Baby P and if you have read my blog you will no doubt guess my views. This is probably the most dreadful of cases but let me tell you there are more cases out there. Just days after the news hit the media - two young children are stabbed to death by their mother.
I absolutely believe in accountability, checks and balances when taking children into care, but I do not hold to the dangerous theory that all children are best with their birth parents. 'Institutional Care' is also a difficult thing to manage I accept that, but because it is hard does not mean it should be written off, think quality. It does not mean huge unwhealdy institutions. Our problem has been to make a huge leap from 'something in place' to 'nothing in place'. I also know that you cannot take a child into emergency care unless you have people in the community who will act as short term emergency foster care. I actually believe that the 'experts' who have developed child development theories have a lot to answer for, because they have blinded people in the child care arena to common sense.
Children are our responsibility (to bring up safe and well) but not our property - the parents who maime and kill their children are selfish, selfcentre individuals, perhaps they do have their own issues but they need to be dealt with seperately from their role as parent. The people who take on the role of social interventionist need to make this clear distinction.
IT IS TIME TO STAND UP FOR CHILDREN AT RISK.
Love Granny
Sunday, October 26, 2008
NEARLY THERE
Mick and I spent a great holiday in Turkey, but I do not recommend Marmaris to the elderly or faint hearted....It is blackpool on steroids.
We shall go again to Turkey in June. This is of course always assuming the credit crunch/global recession does not prevent us. I like the sun in Turkey - I was very brave and went topless and given my somewhat misshapen 'breast' I felt comfortable and relaxed.
The consultant oncologist tells me I don't have to see her again until 2011 -wow- I still keep my fingers crossed that the cancer does not spread.
I have to say that my shopping trips have really only been local and cheap. I haven't been to Bluewater for ages. I like the current trends and have raided my wardrobe and storage to revitalise them to bring them on trend. A little tartan in terms of belts and wraps. I have changed my hair making use of a dark blond to hide the grey rather than dark brown.
Grey and Black are my seasons colours, with dashes of colour to lift it. Add to this my one seasons big purchase a leopard print wrap cardigan with a pin catch to hold it together. It cost £24 and I think it is good value. I shall wear it with my long black wool dress, with black trousers, jeans and denim skirts.
I am sexing up a red lace dress with a red tights, red shoes, red earrings/bracelet, red handbags (I have two) - so it could be a 'redout'. Currently looking for a red belt that works. I am sexing up a gold dress which is a shift type in a jacquard fabric (sleeveless) same process - gold tights or worn with tanned legs, gold shoes (mules) gold belt (there must be the right one out there) Gold wrap.
Just got no where to go to wear these ideas. Purchased a nice large red slouch bag for £2.50 in Matalan - and a double brill humungas white linen bag in a Next sale for £7 and a long white linen skirt for the summer at £8 - not bad eh.
Continuing to watch my weight, my hips have all but disappeared - so hipsters are out.
The new must have for me is 'Secret Obsession' by Calvin Klein, it is just sumptious. Perhaps I will get lucky for Christmas. But I have spotted it for sale
at Debenhams in a set for £40 including 50ml eau de parfume and 100ml body lotion. Sounds good to me. I actually prefer body lotion for a subtle coverage.
Moving on lets hope Obama beats McCain and Palin. The world is in a scary place just now. What the hell are the banks playing at...and for god sake lets draw a line under the power plays of ministers, worthies, Rich chinless wonders who have inherited their dosh and oligarchs playing in secret. 'bout' time they paid up, building their wealth on the backs of the working class and third world societies. Bin them - get rid of them cut their power. I feel no sadness in the plight of high paid bankers and share players who have lost their jobs....should have gone to spec savers.
I am saying a pray for little 'Amy' murdered by her father thank god he was convicted.
I AM NEARLY THERE - RETIREMENT NEXT YEAR.
Love to all from Granny
We shall go again to Turkey in June. This is of course always assuming the credit crunch/global recession does not prevent us. I like the sun in Turkey - I was very brave and went topless and given my somewhat misshapen 'breast' I felt comfortable and relaxed.
The consultant oncologist tells me I don't have to see her again until 2011 -wow- I still keep my fingers crossed that the cancer does not spread.
I have to say that my shopping trips have really only been local and cheap. I haven't been to Bluewater for ages. I like the current trends and have raided my wardrobe and storage to revitalise them to bring them on trend. A little tartan in terms of belts and wraps. I have changed my hair making use of a dark blond to hide the grey rather than dark brown.
Grey and Black are my seasons colours, with dashes of colour to lift it. Add to this my one seasons big purchase a leopard print wrap cardigan with a pin catch to hold it together. It cost £24 and I think it is good value. I shall wear it with my long black wool dress, with black trousers, jeans and denim skirts.
I am sexing up a red lace dress with a red tights, red shoes, red earrings/bracelet, red handbags (I have two) - so it could be a 'redout'. Currently looking for a red belt that works. I am sexing up a gold dress which is a shift type in a jacquard fabric (sleeveless) same process - gold tights or worn with tanned legs, gold shoes (mules) gold belt (there must be the right one out there) Gold wrap.
Just got no where to go to wear these ideas. Purchased a nice large red slouch bag for £2.50 in Matalan - and a double brill humungas white linen bag in a Next sale for £7 and a long white linen skirt for the summer at £8 - not bad eh.
Continuing to watch my weight, my hips have all but disappeared - so hipsters are out.
The new must have for me is 'Secret Obsession' by Calvin Klein, it is just sumptious. Perhaps I will get lucky for Christmas. But I have spotted it for sale
at Debenhams in a set for £40 including 50ml eau de parfume and 100ml body lotion. Sounds good to me. I actually prefer body lotion for a subtle coverage.
Moving on lets hope Obama beats McCain and Palin. The world is in a scary place just now. What the hell are the banks playing at...and for god sake lets draw a line under the power plays of ministers, worthies, Rich chinless wonders who have inherited their dosh and oligarchs playing in secret. 'bout' time they paid up, building their wealth on the backs of the working class and third world societies. Bin them - get rid of them cut their power. I feel no sadness in the plight of high paid bankers and share players who have lost their jobs....should have gone to spec savers.
I am saying a pray for little 'Amy' murdered by her father thank god he was convicted.
I AM NEARLY THERE - RETIREMENT NEXT YEAR.
Love to all from Granny
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