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Putting on my fashion hat, last week with my grandson I visited Bluewater for the first time in ages. I was surprised to find it busy but not packed. I was impressed by Urban Outfitters set up but not the cost of the clothes there. It does have an original edge so I would look there for inspiration. I especially like the coloured opaque tights which I think look fab with decent black or demin shorts. I love patterned or lace tights. There was a neat 'stall' in the walk area that sold some stunning tights. I believe that clever use of tights, belts, wraps and other accessories can make an old outfit sharper.

I was disappointed with the Santa Grotto. Could have reflected the weather, which was pooring with rain and it is sited outside. There is also an Ice Rink, Fun Fair and Christmas market.

I have discovered why Bluewater is popular for Mums and Children - it's inside, silly me. But it still not clear that the shops access has really caught on.

I still advise people to read 'You' in the Mail on Sunday, my favourite magazine for about everything.

I am a huge fan of Gok Wan.


On a more serious note, YES YES YES Barack Obama won the US election..he is not going to have a secure financial situation to manage and it will be very difficult. I have huge concerns for his and his families safety. There is a disturbing number of white supremisist however loose as a group that will need to be watched very carefully. People should be judged on their character not their skin as Dr Martin Luther King Jnr so rightly said. And believe me I am judging these individuals on their character which is both flawed and murderous.

Love Granny

DON'T BUY DOLPHIN SHOWERS.

My parents - in - law were persuaded to purchase an easy access shower system from Dolphin at a cost of £5,000. The work is at best described as botched and at worst ......... judge for yourself. The 'contracted' installer was useless, he managed to put in a new water pipe, tile over it then drill into the pipe it causing a flood not only in my inlaws bathroom but in the bathroom down stairs causing major damage. When the 'supervisors' attended to look at the situation - it was discovered the contractor had not even sealed in the unit either, leaving saying the job was done and safe. My husband advised his parents not to pay the final £500+ and wrote to Dolphin that he had done this. He told Dolphin not to bother his elderly and unwell parents but to deal with him....as yet only a single acknowledgement has been received, but the original instructions in his letter were ignored. The company have dragged their feet over the neighbours claim for damages caused by their worker and AS YET IT REMAINS UNRESOLVED. This has been going on for weeks..... the FINAL cheek has been that Dolphin wrote last week to my inlaws 'demanding' the final payment.

WOULD YOU PAY £5,000 FOR THIS indeed my pictures do not tell the whole story - it is so much worse, the original bathroom in terms of size is small. Yes there was a limited amount of tiling done, but my elderly parents-in-law, instead of waiting for their son and grandson to assist, painted the room themselves. I am sorry BUT if you are paying £5,000 for any work there has to be a competent installation with a professional finish. Dolphin have proved themselves as falling short.

MY ADVICE SHOP AROUND, LOOK AT EXAMPLES OF THE WORK DONE PREVIOUSLY, TAKE RECOMMENDATION AND DON'T BE CHATTED UP BY SALES PEOPLE FROM 'NATIONALLY RENOWNED' COMPANIES.

Love Granny

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I have always got a lot to say for myself and about the world.

Firstly adding to previous comments, I am horrified that the world finds itself in a dire position. Our leaders are still posturing - just get on with it otherwise there is no future for the worlds children.

Too many soldiers are dying in an unnecessary war. The recent period of rememberance really should have awoken up those in power, but of course it won't. To much money in arms sales!!!!!

Much has been said about the case of Baby P and if you have read my blog you will no doubt guess my views. This is probably the most dreadful of cases but let me tell you there are more cases out there. Just days after the news hit the media - two young children are stabbed to death by their mother.

I absolutely believe in accountability, checks and balances when taking children into care, but I do not hold to the dangerous theory that all children are best with their birth parents. 'Institutional Care' is also a difficult thing to manage I accept that, but because it is hard does not mean it should be written off, think quality. It does not mean huge unwhealdy institutions. Our problem has been to make a huge leap from 'something in place' to 'nothing in place'. I also know that you cannot take a child into emergency care unless you have people in the community who will act as short term emergency foster care. I actually believe that the 'experts' who have developed child development theories have a lot to answer for, because they have blinded people in the child care arena to common sense.

Children are our responsibility (to bring up safe and well) but not our property - the parents who maime and kill their children are selfish, selfcentre individuals, perhaps they do have their own issues but they need to be dealt with seperately from their role as parent. The people who take on the role of social interventionist need to make this clear distinction.

IT IS TIME TO STAND UP FOR CHILDREN AT RISK.

Love Granny